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Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on how many things I can pick flaws in. Body wise I feel quite attractive for the most part.
Face wise, I very rarely feel attractive at all. I hate taking selfies because I can't find good angles and I hate being in pictures with other people because all I can see are my flaws that I can do nothing about. So yeah, it varies really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My perception of myself can swing between attractive to not, it is random and I take it with a pinch of salt either way Thankfully I am less concerned as I got older, as you should by now be realising it is all a shallow foundation, a losing battle with age and life is too short  |
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"99% of the time, unattractive.
Actually no sarcasm with that one. "
I feel the same
Of course I've had people call me attractive but I just can't see it myself.
Sometimes I look good, I never look attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m currently fatter than I’d like so feeling unattractive.
I can’t change my face, which looks like a dogs arse, and always will, so I’m stuck with that.
But can change my weight. So working on it.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh god I'm going to be predictable af. Right now I'm saying I'm pretty darn attractive, like a solid 8.75.
Truth  "
Aww Floro  It's true though. I'm happy and feeling attractive and welcoming it. |
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I look better as a girl
On dating apps (as a guy) I get enough matches to say I’m ok as a bloke. However I don’t think I’m particularly handsome I just think I have the ability to feel comfortable around women and interact well on dates. |
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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago
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I’m feeling unattractive at the moment. Think it’s just my age. I’m stuck between 30 & 40. I don’t feel young and I don’t feel old. It’s hard to know how to dress.
I feel it’s a long time since someone said o you look well or flirted with me. Maybe it’s just after the whole 2 years of Covid thing. |
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"I generally hate myself at the moment, and am unattractive.
The other day I felt pretty, in a face way.
It changes.
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I know that feeling. There were times in the past where I hated myself and thought that I would never feel attractive or have any kind of attraction. |
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"I’m feeling unattractive at the moment. Think it’s just my age. I’m stuck between 30 & 40. I don’t feel young and I don’t feel old. It’s hard to know how to dress.
I feel it’s a long time since someone said o you look well or flirted with me. Maybe it’s just after the whole 2 years of Covid thing. "
I think Covid has screwed everyone over especially me as I hardly meet anyone like I used to before the pandemic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow … this is such an eye opener
You are all beautiful
Beauty is subjective
There is someone out there who thanks their lucky stars that you’re in their life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Despite catching a lass obviously real life perving im not feeling it despite being midseason iv got fatter and fucked up my damn beard shaved it off now i look like mr fucking gru not happy at all underestimate the power of beard sorcery at your peril  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling attractive …..
There’s only one of me, and frankly - for an almost 50 yr old - I’m pretty good looking
^^ she really is!! "
You are stunning !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me "
I am feeling not so attractive. |
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Unusually, I’ve had 19 views today but I’ve barely been online and I’ve not uploaded a new pic, so it unusual.
My self-critical side is wondering if I’ve said something stupid in the forums yesterday.
But maybe I should just feel attractive… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you? 
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should 
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse."
I get it hurts OP but do your best to ignore it, some people don't understand the impact their words actually have, or they do which is even worse. |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
I get it hurts OP but do your best to ignore it, some people don't understand the impact their words actually have, or they do which is even worse."
Indeed. Either they don't know or don't care. They probably bring others down just to get ego points. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow … this is such an eye opener
You are all beautiful
Beauty is subjective
There is someone out there who thanks their lucky stars that you’re in their life
If only that saying were true x"
But it is …. Just try to believe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse."
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. |
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"Wow … this is such an eye opener
You are all beautiful
Beauty is subjective
There is someone out there who thanks their lucky stars that you’re in their life
If only that saying were true x
But it is …. Just try to believe "
I will admit, there are some people I've met on Fab who are glad to have me as a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. "
You do realise how people outwardly portray themselves can be very different to how they feel on the inside. I'm sure you do but probably just dont give a shit. |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. "
OK fine. I've removed it. Satisfied? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. "
People do go through phases of feeling attractive enough to take pictures and then not feeling attractive whatsoever. Some people even do both as a front to show they're fine when they're not. But that's what happens when you don't have the emotional capacity of a teaspoon |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?("
Very attractive.
For me attractiveness is not about physical beauty. Its the measure of a person, their personality, their attitude, their sense of humour, their confidence, knowing their own worth. |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. "
I’m in my underwear on my profile pic, doesn’t mean I can’t feel a bit low or not myself.
Don’t be so judgemental |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I've been painting all day so I'm very unattractive at the moment....
I find people with paint flecks on them and dirty decorating clothes on weirdly attractive. "
Well you'd be more horrified to discover I was wearing my pants and vest top to paint in..... |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss.
People do go through phases of feeling attractive enough to take pictures and then not feeling attractive whatsoever. Some people even do both as a front to show they're fine when they're not. But that's what happens when you don't have the emotional capacity of a teaspoon"
What he said just made it worse. I don't know why I bother |
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"I've been painting all day so I'm very unattractive at the moment....
I find people with paint flecks on them and dirty decorating clothes on weirdly attractive.
Well you'd be more horrified to discover I was wearing my pants and vest top to paint in..... "
Horrified wouldn’t be the word I would use.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im me i feel ok i never look in the mirror and wish i was someone else ive got what ive got im lucky im in a very happy relationship i have a very good job that pays well so im alright being me ...ive never worried about what others think why waste time on that ..
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss.
OK fine. I've removed it. Satisfied?"
His opinion or observations don’t matter. Remember all he is, is a stranger on the internet. You don’t have to please him, anyone else or justify anything you do.
I have received messages previously critical of something I’ve written or displayed. That’s their problem not mine, they could just move on or ignore it.
Do what you want and even if this is a ‘look at me’ post, plenty of others do it, why shouldn’t you. |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss. "
So because we post pics of ourselves to attract other people we must have confidence in how we look? I know from personal experience and also from talking to other people that this is not the case at all. So what if it is a thread looking for a bit of sympathy. We all need a bit of a pick me up from time to time and there’s nothing wrong with that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm feeling above average. Yeah, I've put on half a stone, I have grey hair at 40, and my skin isn't as wrinkle free as I'd like, but I'm feeling very OK about myself. I wish I'd felt this comfortable in my own skin back when I was young and pretty. What a lot of time and energy wasted worrying about inconsequential things. |
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over a year ago
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I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it. |
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over a year ago
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Not very and I don't think I ever will do. It's just not built in me and it's hard not to criticise myself. I've accepted who I am though so in that sense I'm happy. |
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"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it. "
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please "
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me "
Find it!
Read the Art of Seduction.
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"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work "
As good a time as any I guess. I have no such constraints  |
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I often feel attractive and I came from a background unfortunately where that was often made clear to me throughout my youth. But as time's gone by (etc etc) I think I've chosen in these type of areas to go a lot more by what other people feel about me than I do myself, and to be a lot more accepting when people say positive things about me. In the past I've paid a real price of being far too negative in this particular area (in one relationship esp sadly, where she really needed us both to feel both confident and attractive).
Some people find confidence itself attractive, and though that isn't a 'deal breaker' for a lot of people - a continual lack of confidence in this area does eventually become unattractive to a lot of people I feel. I think if people call you 'attractive' and you have no real reason not to believe them, this is an area where you can really think about going by what they say - whatever you keep telling yourself! --pt |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me
Tragic attention seeking bollocks.
Cool, what's it to you?
Eh?
I’ve been clear what it’s to me? Ask me another one.
Ok, why do you feel the need to kick someone when they're feeling down instead of passing the thread by? Remember, just because you can speak, doesn't mean you should
I agree. I found it very hurtful. I almost responded to ask he had preferred if I said something more negative about myself but I didn't as it would only make me feel worse.
Your profile picture has you semi naked, belt undone grabbing at your cock. That doesn’t portray someone who is body concerned, it’s actually saying “oi look at me” and I’m guessing no one is looking at you so you started this thread for sympathy “look you fabulous” comments.
If I’m wrong I don’t really give a toss.
I’m in my underwear on my profile pic, doesn’t mean I can’t feel a bit low or not myself.
Don’t be so judgemental "
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work
As good a time as any I guess. I have no such constraints "
Must get busy though in your graveyard?
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"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work
As good a time as any I guess. I have no such constraints
Must get busy though in your graveyard?
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work
As good a time as any I guess. I have no such constraints
Must get busy though in your graveyard?
I'm not a goth! Gees what must you think of me "
I'm not saying that...... ha ha
More Grim Reaper/ Dr Dark vibes |
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"I’ve been feeling myself for a while now. Considering I was quite self conscious when I was younger and I haven’t really changed much I’m really happy about it.
Save the "feeling yourself" for the onanism threads please
I usually save it for when the wife’s at work
As good a time as any I guess. I have no such constraints
Must get busy though in your graveyard?
I'm not a goth! Gees what must you think of me
I'm not saying that...... ha ha
More Grim Reaper/ Dr Dark vibes "
Ahhh okay then. I can live with that at least |
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over a year ago
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Generally I think I’m pretty ugly to average looking based on my experience in the world. I occasionally feel confident and attractive but that usually goes after looking on the mirror.
But I think I’m attractive for other reasons and I believe that there’s something about me because I have partners that like me and even love me. And I don’t doubt how they feel about me. Even if I don’t see myself the same way. Or most people don’t see me that way.
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"Generally I think I’m pretty ugly to average looking based on my experience in the world. I occasionally feel confident and attractive but that usually goes after looking on the mirror.
But I think I’m attractive for other reasons and I believe that there’s something about me because I have partners that like me and even love me. And I don’t doubt how they feel about me. Even if I don’t see myself the same way. Or most people don’t see me that way.
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I've met you Vicår. And I think you're the best looking clergyman in the parish. † |
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"Generally I think I’m pretty ugly to average looking based on my experience in the world. I occasionally feel confident and attractive but that usually goes after looking on the mirror.
But I think I’m attractive for other reasons and I believe that there’s something about me because I have partners that like me and even love me. And I don’t doubt how they feel about me. Even if I don’t see myself the same way. Or most people don’t see me that way.
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I've met you Vicår. And I think you're the best looking clergyman in the parish. †"
That’s high praise, Nero! I like praising.
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Fab has a way of making you feel even more unattractive.
I am sure this is the same for both sexes, and the "there is someone out there for you" quotes that get banded around really are just platitudes.
I accept that as a single male I rank pretty low in the grand scheme of things, I don't have the physique of an Adonis, but I am comfortable in my own skin.
I have empathy and compassion, and I am very much what you see is what you get.
I am happy to be someone's friend with no conditions.
I have made some wonderful friends on here who have helped me through some tough times, and I would like to think that they could come to me if the situation was reversed.
That to me is more attractive than looks alone |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
Yesterday I felt good about myself...went to the gym...went for a run (shirtless) ...went for a drink with a nice lady...I felt confident... attractive. Today I feel ugly as fuck, I don't like what I see in the mirror. Tomorrow...we shall see |
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over a year ago
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I'm quite happy with how I look. Took a long time to be able to say that, and yes I look better with make up on, but I'm also happy to not wear it.
I think I'm reasonably attractive and I'm proud of myself for being able to say that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I "know" I'm pretty darn attractive....
But don't always "feel" that ti be true. Sometimea I'm still the geeky 14yo need in my head ... Not the man I've grown into !
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I'm quite happy with how I look but I don't half notice how old I am lately in comparison to many.
I know age doesn't matter, it's just a number (flaming large in my case ), it's better than the alternative but ya' know... |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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Since school days as a male in an all boys school. Called a lot of names. Regarding my looks. So have really never thought of myself good looking etc. My biggest boost though . On a dating app. Matched with a female who a lot younger than me. We have seen each other in person frequently since then. Plus she has shown my face ,clothed body photo’s to her mum and her friends  . I have seen on her phone replies to photo’s from her friends. Yes have said about age , but also said look good for age and saying lucky her. Yet still do not feel attractive . ? Realise now some will find attractive , others will not . ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I've gotten better as I've aged, a little extra middle aged weight has probably helped as I was quite skinny when I was younger. Often I catch Mrs looking at me in a particular way and I feel like the sexiest man alive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh! My weight has massively bounced up/down over my life (I likes booze/cake)... Sometimes I've felt frickin awesome! (go me!), other times less so much?... Weird tho?!... I gain weight my tits get bigger, 'skinny' ish me is all flat chest Apparently not in my body orbit?...
Mostly these days I'm at the 'I do not really give a fuckity fuck' zone... Yet, I'm looking to rejoin a gym |
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me "
I'm just ugly fella u be ok ?? |
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Some days i feel amazing others i feel awful. Depends on my mood i guess. Im a curvy girl so do feel down with all the media pressure but then someone will compliment me and i feel amazing.
Thats women for you
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me "
Sorry you’re not feeling confident, I know it sucks.
I lost a good amount of weight last year and felt so good about myself but I’ve slipped and started to gain some back and it’s starting to make me feel crappy again. Sometimes I feel good and I’m happy with my body but there’s days I actually avoid mirrors.
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah not feeling so attractive here and that’s pretty much the norm. Not a fan of photos of me, rarely do I like what I see, and I struggle to really hear compliments as a) don’t belive it, b)don’t know how to take them or reply
Have the odd day when I’ll feel ok if I catch myself the mirror but generally I’ll avoid that ..! Can’t change it, so it’s accepted now and I know I’m good on the inside and that’s valued by people close which means a lot . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah not feeling so attractive here and that’s pretty much the norm. Not a fan of photos of me, rarely do I like what I see, and I struggle to really hear compliments as a) don’t belive it, b)don’t know how to take them or reply
Have the odd day when I’ll feel ok if I catch myself the mirror but generally I’ll avoid that ..! Can’t change it, so it’s accepted now and I know I’m good on the inside and that’s valued by people close which means a lot ."
You look great... Doubt folk tell you differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of 10? About 4. Sometimes I might hit 7. Usually after a few drinks or I'm surrounded by women. But then I remember I have a dad bod and don't have millions in the bank and I'm back down to 3-4. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This morning I looked in the mirror and I look like I’ve been dug up. But inside I feel like I am gorgeous.
That’s the deluded attitude I need to be a single guy on Fab right?
FAF? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel much more confident and accepting of myself since joining fab, but at the minute not feeling very attractive as I’ve put on a little too much weight recently and feel unhealthy/out of shape x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It fluctuates im guessing with mood and hormones.
I do feel the most confident I've ever felt and beginning to realise I was like the ugly duckling.
After years of being the ugly duckling though it's hard to see yourself as anything else and accepting compliments is hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've gotten better as I've aged, a little extra middle aged weight has probably helped as I was quite skinny when I was younger. Often I catch Mrs looking at me in a particular way and I feel like the sexiest man alive."
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I'm at odds. I feel the most attractive I've ever been. I'm happy, I can look at myself in the mirror or a photo and see someone I think looks beautiful for the first time ever.
Yet because I've taken this route I'm being passed over, excluded or seen as a weirdo. So because of this I'm not feeling attractive at all, as I'm not attracting anyone.
Life's awkward sometimes isn't it? |
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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago
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I seem to be going through a reclusive phase. I never felt particularly attractive before but I was actually relieved when the lockdowns came along so I had a perfect excuse for not going out and being social.
On the down side of that, like everyone, I gained a bit of weight and found that as the lockdowns eased I became more insecure about the way i look and feel about myself.
To the outside world I come accross as bubbly and happy but that's far from the truth. Like most, I stopped meeting during the pandemic but now there's no way I'd feel attractive enough to put myself back out there again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel very attractive, usually attractive, not so attractive or unattractive?
Right now, I'm feeling not so attractive. To be honest, I don't think I'm the attractive type and I'm not sure if there is anything attractive about me "
You're the cool tshirt guy. You make me smile. |
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