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Who here has made actual friends on the forums that you spoke to on here and then met up with now and again?
As for me, even though I've been on here since 2017 and posted some good threads, I don't think I have sadly. |
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Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
Is there a thread? |
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"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.
They all hiding from you ?  "
If they aren’t they probably should be |
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"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.
They all hiding from you ?
If they aren’t they probably should be "
Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night |
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"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.
They all hiding from you ?
If they aren’t they probably should be
Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night "
I should probably stop posting on the forums when we’re going. I did it 3 weeks in advance last time and there was cobwebs on the gloryhole  |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
Cake? Pah!!!! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Who here has made actual friends on the forums that you spoke to on here and then met up with now and again?
As for me, even though I've been on here since 2017 and posted some good threads, I don't think I have sadly."
Yep.
Met socially. Met for sex. Had a couple at our wedding and would have had more had they been free.
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"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.
They all hiding from you ?
If they aren’t they probably should be
Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night
I should probably stop posting on the forums when we’re going. I did it 3 weeks in advance last time and there was cobwebs on the gloryhole "
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
I'm coming one weekend if i can get my arse in gear!! |
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I've met a lot of friends on the forum at a group social and they were everything I expected. There is someone I message back and forth with almost every day who I would love to meet if the stars align  |
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Not from the forum, no. I've tried to meet a couple of people but it didn't happen.
One of my early meets on here was with someone I got chatting to on a "ask in private, answer in public" thread though, and he was a fantastic guy who I count myself fortunate to have spent a few weekends with. Sadly UNLOS and no longer swinging, but it was great while it lasted! |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
When are these events? |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?"
There was, last year
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Cake? Pah!!!! "
Well as you didn't turn up to the last one, I got extra cake  |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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"Do people talk to each other and make friends on here? Wow. If only!
Billy-no-mates here!
I think it should be Billy-no-forum-mates"
Yes, you're not wrong there |
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I'm not sure I'm hugely sociable really, but when I think about it I've got to know a few people on here and Fabguys who get in touch every now and again, and we'll either chat on the phone or meet for a drink or two of something - which I really appreciate. I'm just not that great in getting in touch myself, that's my problem. I know I turn a few people away from time to time, esp often sexually-incompatible men asking for friendship (there's a lot of lonely ppl on fab) - but when it just happens of course it's great. We all need these kind of pals I think, people you get on with who know some of your secret kinks! --pt |
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One of my best friends is from the forum.
There’s a lady from the forums who we’d see a lot of if she lived closer.
We chat to a few from the forums and would happily go for a drink with a number of them
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I have a couple I'm very good friends with. We met in the usual Fab way for the usual Fab things but they started a family and things fizzled out when they left here - but - we stayed in touch.
We see each other maybe 3 or 4 times a year now and, like I say, we're just friends. |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Cake? Pah!!!!
Well as you didn't turn up to the last one, I got extra cake "
Heres what you could’ve had Woody!!!  |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?
There was, last year
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Clique.  |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?
There was, last year
Clique. "
Or just friends meeting up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?
There was, last year
Clique.
Or just friends meeting up "
Sure |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?
There was, last year
Clique. "
Helluva clique then. There's a different group of people each time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Is there a thread?
There was, last year
Clique.
Helluva clique then. There's a different group of people each time. "
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x |
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Even I've got a friend that I met via the forum. Been chatting for years and meet up every now and then. It's not something I set out to do and wouldn't make a habit of it. Most of my friends are non forum. I prefer it that way. |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x"
I like cake but not coffee….am I excluded? 
But in answer to OP….I have indeed made friends and met folk from the forums, I find it’s a fun way to make convo with people |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x"
Il message you, lovely x |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"
Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite? |
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I met the best friend I could have ever wished for on fab. Covid got in the way but now I'm making up for lost time & getting back into going away for what will hopefully be many visits & nights out. It's nice to click & trust someone enough to move things beyond fab & into real life. |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite?"
As it's just a group of friends meeting up, I'd say it was by invite only. You're in Southampton, according to your profile, so I'd say it was a little far for you. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One, maybe. They know who they are, I hope "
This is the sort of comment that makes me never want to meet someone who posts regularly on the forum ever again! |
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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.
OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x
Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite?
As it's just a group of friends meeting up, I'd say it was by invite only. You're in Southampton, according to your profile, so I'd say it was a little far for you. X
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We visit Manchester, often ish, as one of us has family and friends there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been too on and off past few years to establish any connections, would love to remedy that tho. So i'll abuse your post for shameless self promotion... hands up who likes me!
Only works if you know the young ones lol |
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Manchester. 
And others that I have purely platonic relationships with but haven’t been lucky enough to meet them 
Gosh. People can really surprise you. 