There's no good rolling out the old fab statement 'no one wants to meet'. If you go by verifications popping up all over the place it's clear that meets on fab happen every day.
Only because someone says no to meeting you, it may not mean they don't want to meet, just you are not the person that they are looking for.
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over a year ago
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That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here. |
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here."
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that |
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"I've found some people are incredulous when you aren't looking for the same thing as them. Which os rather odd to me. As if you're deliberately wasting their time by being here."
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that "
Yes I do stand by that. I dont believe most profiles ask for hung or VWE and most threads started asking about cock size reflect this. The large majority do not care or have no preference. A small minority do want bigger and at the other end a small minority prefer smaller.
I actually looked into this last year, 300 female or couple profiles nearest me only around 12% specified VWE and nearly 20% specified no big cocks, the rest did not specify.
Not conclusive but a fairly representative picture I think. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that "
I agree that people are looking to live their fantasies but I’m neither good looking nor VWE, yet I’ve been meeting people for 9 years!
The idea that it’s only for the select few is an excuse that people tell themselves |
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"Profiles that say "I don't want to fuck the whole site" and then have no veris in 3 years. Why join?  "
Well the thing is with that one, only because they don't have veris doesn't mean they aren't meeting, some just don't like broadcasting it every time they meet someone for sex, but I do get your point. |
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that
Yes I do stand by that. I dont believe most profiles ask for hung or VWE and most threads started asking about cock size reflect this. The large majority do not care or have no preference. A small minority do want bigger and at the other end a small minority prefer smaller.
I actually looked into this last year, 300 female or couple profiles nearest me only around 12% specified VWE and nearly 20% specified no big cocks, the rest did not specify.
Not conclusive but a fairly representative picture I think."
Interesting, maybe it’s my own confirmation bias showing there. Thanks for the reply |
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that
I agree that people are looking to live their fantasies but I’m neither good looking nor VWE, yet I’ve been meeting people for 9 years!
The idea that it’s only for the select few is an excuse that people tell themselves"
Very true, I know a fair few gentleman who would describe themselves even less than average, but they struggle to fit parties, and meets in around every day life, they get so many invites. |
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Guys that think having a personality doesn't matter when it comes to sex.
Women who can't get the correlation of been bombarded with messages while having pictures of your bits out on a site full of horny men.
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that
Yes I do stand by that. I dont believe most profiles ask for hung or VWE and most threads started asking about cock size reflect this. The large majority do not care or have no preference. A small minority do want bigger and at the other end a small minority prefer smaller.
I actually looked into this last year, 300 female or couple profiles nearest me only around 12% specified VWE and nearly 20% specified no big cocks, the rest did not specify.
Not conclusive but a fairly representative picture I think."
Excellent bit of research  |
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"That a bigger penis does not guarantee more pleasure, more meets or automatically make you a better/more capable lover. Penis size is unimportant to the very large majority on here.
Do you really believe that? Most profiles I look at mention VWE or atleast well hung. Not forum users, but certainly most fab users.
I think the hard truth to accept is that for many women/couples fabs is about living their fantasies. That usually means very good looking, tall and hung guys. And with the ratio of men to women on here, they don’t have to settle for less then that
I agree that people are looking to live their fantasies but I’m neither good looking nor VWE, yet I’ve been meeting people for 9 years!
The idea that it’s only for the select few is an excuse that people tell themselves"
Fair enough, I just see a lot of profiles near me looking for hung. To the point that it’s “if you can show us 8 inches, you’ll get invited over”
Definitely a much easier way to get meets than the avenues taken if your not hung, but I think it might be confirmation bias on my part because I see these status a lot.
I don’t think it’s instant access to infinite meets, but I definitely think it checks a lot of boxes. But again, that’s probably confirmation bias. Not many people advertise looking for “nice, genuine people, penis size not fussed” in their status for instant meets |
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A: that not replying to a message means not interested
B: that replying to a message isn't a guarantee of sex
C: that being nearby doesn't mean I'm instantly available to fuck
D: that Mr is somehow lacking and that's why we're on here
E: that we're not fucking 24/7
Phew, getting it all out this morning!
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"People that think verifications guarantee sex.
Or people that think you're a time waster because you don't have any verifications "
I waiver on this one. I’m (very) well known in the scenes I circulate in. Was very well know in the clubs I used to attend. But on here I wonder whether I should/need to get verified, just to prove I’m a real person. But I’m coming down in the side of it really doesn’t matter as I don’t read other peoples verifications do figure I’m ok with it. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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That being passive and just accepting what lands in your inbox is only going to get you minimal returns.
If people are unhappy with the quality and quantity of messages, use your filters and go looking yourself |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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What other things do people seem to find hard to accept on fab?"
That bi guys aren't going to jump on the male in a couple and aren't able to play just as straight as them.
That club entry fees will never be equal for single men and women.
That no answer is an answer.
That people have to look at a profile to be able to decide if they're interested. Looking in itself means fuck all!
That less than 1% of site members use the forums so just because you think there's a 'clique' it won't stop you being able to engage with 1000's of other people.
That it IS a sex site for some, just as much as it's a swingers site for others. Equally it's a dating site too if people want it to be.
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By *ea monkeyMan
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What other things do people seem to find hard to accept on fab?
That bi guys aren't going to jump on the male in a couple and aren't able to play just as straight as them.
That club entry fees will never be equal for single men and women.
That no answer is an answer.
That people have to look at a profile to be able to decide if they're interested. Looking in itself means fuck all!
That less than 1% of site members use the forums so just because you think there's a 'clique' it won't stop you being able to engage with 1000's of other people.
That it IS a sex site for some, just as much as it's a swingers site for others. Equally it's a dating site too if people want it to be.
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"That I’m not sat around waiting for some guy to come and fuck me when he’s got a free hour. "
I agree with that one
But a hour free emmm in my experience
3 minutes feel like is it worth the hassle off getting ready
For a splat and run
I understand not everyone is superman and can go for hours
But there’s no shame in brakes and go again in 10-15 minutes
But splat and run is a big no no
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Hi Pablo! x
People can arrange to meet and seem keen to do so. Then cancel at the last minute. No problem, it happens and they might have good reason. Be polite if communicating afterwards and there might be another which will actually take place.
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"Hi Pablo! x
People can arrange to meet and seem keen to do so. Then cancel at the last minute. No problem, it happens and they might have good reason. Be polite if communicating afterwards and there might be another which will actually take place.
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A2 hello there you |
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