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Just curious as a single male some days I only get a few views and very rarely do I get someone message without me messaging first. I see peoples profiles (single ladies) saying they get 100s of messages a day 
Yesterday
6 views
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today so far 6 views and 4 messages but none of them “new” all part of ongoing conversations |
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If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11 views and 5 messages so far |
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By *ingo00Man
over a year ago
Cowley |
4 views, 1 message. Today is going to be a good day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far 2 views and woke up to 3 messages for ongoing conversations here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day "
You are hot though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day "
I guess they were always told persistent is the key then lol.
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
3 views and 1 message today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day "
Why not block them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP are you calling women liars? Just to be clear. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
Sorry OP, don't want to view ya as you have un penus. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I don’t get why people care about the who views them to be honest… I would view a profile if someone wrote something really interesting and it would give me a better wider understanding
That is why I now do all of my viewing in stealth! Brings much less hassle….  |
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No views today.
One view yesterday.
None the day before.
2 received messages in the last 7 weeks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get why people care about the who views them to be honest… I would view a profile if someone wrote something really interesting and it would give me a better wider understanding
That is why I now do all of my viewing in stealth! Brings much less hassle…. "
exactly, my views to people messaging me ratio must be less than half a percent. They clearly don’t like what they see when they look!
Although some are serial viewers … but never say a word!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get why people care about the who views them to be honest… I would view a profile if someone wrote something really interesting and it would give me a better wider understanding
That is why I now do all of my viewing in stealth! Brings much less hassle…. "
Because Fab shows you a view counter and some folk are interested. Maybe |
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2 views yesterday.
A few messages but that's someone I've been chatting with for a while. No prospective messages. |
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I'm the same I can go a whole week without a single message |
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4 days since last viewed, unless I have hundreds viewing by stealth, with only one message.
However that is just how it is with high odds, not point complaining, just keep rolling the dice and hoping.
Also I think the site is way more enjoyable when using the forums than searching on the main site, but maybe that is just me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I include men I get a lot. When I block single men from messaging me so it’s just women and couples I get about 10-20 a day. But it is what it issssss.  |
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I had 20 views yesterday and 33 the day before. This was only because I've been quite prolific on the forums this week. |
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84 views & 7 messages that got the Insta delete treatment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I include men I get a lot. When I block single men from messaging me so it’s just women and couples I get about 10-20 a day. But it is what it issssss. "
Messages again depends on if I block men. But most of the messages I get are from the forums. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"84 views & 7 messages that got the Insta delete treatment. "
I did well then the other day to get a nice reply |
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"84 views & 7 messages that got the Insta delete treatment.
I did well then the other day to get a nice reply "
Yep we always reply to a good message |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Just curious as a single male some days I only get a few views and very rarely do I get someone message without me messaging first. I see peoples profiles (single ladies) saying they get 100s of messages a day
Yesterday
6 views
0 messages "
There are serial ninja viewers though |
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"OP are you calling women liars? Just to be clear. "
No not what so ever, some are really hot and I can see why. Just curious to what the difference is between men and womens messaged x |
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9 views
2 lovely messages
I feel loved |
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Views mean nothing though as most people are in stealth mode. x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I had around 70 views and 7 messages yesterday. I posted a new picture though.
I’m currently on 12 views and no messages |
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20ish views yesterday and no unsolicited messages.
But my filters exclude views from most categories and messages from everyone. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
Double figures of views and the odd message most days.
OP, if you start comparing to women, you'll not enjoy yourself. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
Four views yesterday and no messages. Although I was not on forums much. Last week one day hit fifty views . Reason posted on some forum topics . But no messages  |
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"I had around 70 views and 7 messages yesterday. I posted a new picture though.
I’m currently on 12 views and no messages"
How do you see how many you had yesterday? It only comes up with looked at me today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9 views and 1 message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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106 views, must be because we updated our status haha
4 Messages today |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
1 view and 0 messages.
I am rarely on to be honest and not looking to meet or actively participating on the forums. |
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I've never seen any link between posting a new pic and views.
I can't remember the last time that little box went to double figures.
Last few pics I've posted had zero views on those days and only a couple of fabs which I've always assumed meant I'm not on many hotlists.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I had around 70 views and 7 messages yesterday. I posted a new picture though.
I’m currently on 12 views and no messages
How do you see how many you had yesterday? It only comes up with looked at me today "
I remember roughly what it was on last night, because I’m that cool. I don’t remember the exact number though |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I know how many views I had yesterday I didn't look and I had one message.
Today I've had 28 views and no messages.
I posted a pic a week or so ago and got about 300 views and about 7 messages.
I'm happy with that tho I personally don't want a load of messages on here that I won't look at or read. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I've never seen any link between posting a new pic and views.
I can't remember the last time that little box went to double figures.
Last few pics I've posted had zero views on those days and only a couple of fabs which I've always assumed meant I'm not on many hotlists. "
You're on my hotlist  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
To be honest though, the views mean nothing. It’s only when someone of interest messages and keeps messaging that things get engaging.
Views are just the people looking that aren’t interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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14 views and 2 messages but only because of a recent addition of a couple of pictures. I don't attract much attention but I don't have a problem with that |
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"Views mean nothing though as most people are in stealth mode. x "
Stealth mode? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP are you calling women liars? Just to be clear.
No not what so ever, some are really hot and I can see why. Just curious to what the difference is between men and womens messaged x"
I think everyone’s views and messages are different. Some men will get quite a lot and some won’t. Views certainly don’t reflect anything, neither do messages. They really don’t mean that much unless you are interested in the person sending or viewing you at the end of the day…
Not all women get hundreds of views and messages either.
For me it all depends if I upload a photo or video then I’ll get a few messages and views.
Then if someone I’ve met uploads and gets on the hot pics - People that view them often look at who they’ve met and that’s how I sometimes get views… but at the end of the day it’s merely someone just having a look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest though, the views mean nothing. It’s only when someone of interest messages and keeps messaging that things get engaging.
Views are just the people looking that aren’t interested "
I pretty much just wrote that out! I totally agree |
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9 views yesterday and 6 messages (but only replies to messages I sent ) |
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"Views mean nothing though as most people are in stealth mode. x
Stealth mode? "
Yeah you can turn it off somewhere so people can’t see if you looked at them. Mines always been off |
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"I had around 70 views and 7 messages yesterday. I posted a new picture though.
I’m currently on 12 views and no messages
How do you see how many you had yesterday? It only comes up with looked at me today
I remember roughly what it was on last night, because I’m that cool. I don’t remember the exact number though"
Oh I see!  . |
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"I've never seen any link between posting a new pic and views.
I can't remember the last time that little box went to double figures.
Last few pics I've posted had zero views on those days and only a couple of fabs which I've always assumed meant I'm not on many hotlists.
You're on my hotlist "
My work here is done  |
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"If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day
Why not block them?"
Can’t be assed wasting time with it for multiple profiles. Just delete / ignore. Really makes no odds to me tbh Speed and efficient time is the aim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP are you calling women liars? Just to be clear.
No not what so ever, some are really hot and I can see why. Just curious to what the difference is between men and womens messaged x"
I was asking because I've seen women called liars before for this. Most women are in ninja mode I suspect and there are so many more men than women - it will always be massively unequal.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am on 140 views so far, about 10 messages. I have strict filters.
I do view men I'm interested in, but in ninja mode and I am unlikely to message them unless it's just to be friendly. Risk-averse. |
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548 views and 105 messages so far today. 98 friends requests and 168 winks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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22 views.
14 fabs.
0 messages
It means nothing if nobody wants to talk does it? |
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8 views now, the power of a dick pic huh |
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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire |
85 messages and 370 views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 views yesterday
No messages.
I'm not here for meets currently so I'm not that bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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33 views and no messages so far today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 views yesterday, two messages. |
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"548 views and 105 messages so far today. 98 friends requests and 168 winks. "
Wow, although you’ve got more pics showing than I think I take in a whole year |
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So far today I’m on:
1 View
1 Message
Which is almost a record for the last few months. I had a few views at the weekend, but only on message which was to tell me they weren’t interested.
Onward and upward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 views
0 Messages
Pretty standard really lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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39 views
6 messages
We’re not meeting and we’ve wrote that on our profile and changed our profile pic to just my (Mr’s) legs. That’s a lot less than usual so it’s clearly working. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as a single male some days I only get a few views and very rarely do I get someone message without me messaging first. I see peoples profiles (single ladies) saying they get 100s of messages a day
Yesterday
6 views
0 messages "
O and O here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically people with a female appearance/form get more views and Msgs then people with a male appearance...
This is how it’s always been |
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"Views mean nothing though as most people are in stealth mode. x
Stealth mode?
Yeah you can turn it off somewhere so people can’t see if you looked at them. Mines always been off"
I did not know this! Wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if you look at the hot pics the highest rated picture for a female is 1787 likes… the mens highest is 151. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
So far today...
70 views
10 messages |
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11 views and 3 messages, 2 of which we’re existing convos |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I don’t get why people care about the who views them to be honest… I would view a profile if someone wrote something really interesting and it would give me a better wider understanding
That is why I now do all of my viewing in stealth! Brings much less hassle….
Because Fab shows you a view counter and some folk are interested. Maybe "
And in people used the stealth function there could be a million people looking and you would never realise, and people would still complain about a mythical “views to message “ ratio
So again… why do much angst when if people can opt out anyway.. it’s not actually a true reflection of anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 views 1 new message |
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29 views yesterday, 51 the day before. The most messages is likely around twenty, most of it with one person. I most fabs I've counted was a bit over twenty. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
Today, it is 7 views and 0 messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never look at views.
Messages - usually single figures. Not including ones from people I already chat with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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27views
2 messages
1 wink |
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"I never look at views.
Messages - usually single figures. Not including ones from people I already chat with. "
Can hardly beleive that |
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K. |
10 views
2 messages
0 winks.
I can tell that I haven't been posting in the forums much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I post a pic and goes well I can get over 1000 messages easily in a day Usually prob rumble along 100-150 messages including the repeat messages from same person about 10 times in a day "
Everyone has their knockers |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I've had 200 views and 10 messages so far today. I've got filters set to my preferred age bracket, no newbies, must be site supporter etc.
Without the filters it just gets too much to cope with.
I also view people in ninja mode, as many women do, so gents you never have an accurate figure of how many do view you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"33 views and no messages so far today "
60 views and one message now  |
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We have had 162 views so far today and 8 messages. |
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"I've never seen any link between posting a new pic and views.
I can't remember the last time that little box went to double figures.
Last few pics I've posted had zero views on those days and only a couple of fabs which I've always assumed meant I'm not on many hotlists. "
If we post a new pic the views hit 3-4K although never made it to page 1 of hot pics as we don’t have many friends. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
95 views and 6 messages |
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"I never look at views.
Messages - usually single figures. Not including ones from people I already chat with. "
You would have thought you would have seen mine 2 weeks ago then lol probably filed in B1N  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had 11 today
And my profile is hidden
I used to get more , more so if being active in the forums |
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4 views 2 messages..Good day for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 views 2 new messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow a massive 0 and 0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 views and 0 messages today.
4 views and 1 reply yesterday. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
6 views
5 message
1 reply. Whoooo a good day. |
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10 views and 7 very beautiful Face pic Friday messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people don't show that they've looked me including |
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1 yesterday, 0 messages.
1 today, 0 messages.
Pretty much the same every day. |
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Can fluctuate daily, all depends how active I am on here, if I put up a new pic or status etc, but all in all I do pretty well on here |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
I am getting 30+ views per day and 3-5 messages.
I have to say it’s 85% are single guys, 10% couples, 5% single ladies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 views 1 message |
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3 views and 1 message at the moment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 people viewed me so far today.
No one has messaged me.
I would say generally I have to initiate about 90% of message conversions on here. I tend to get messages when I’m more active in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yesterday 76 views , 0 messages & 0 winks |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
Well, with a high ratio of men to women on here, doesn't suprise me really |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
7 views and 1 proper message but it is still before 7am.
Several other messages in response to forum game |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
Yesterday
34 views
4 messages
This was mainly as I was posting dodgy pics through the day and then when on cam i the chat rooms in the evening. Normally it is far less if any. |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
Yesterday.
2 views
1 pic like
2 messages (lots of messages just with 2 people)
This is a good day for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today:
16 views (so far)
1 wink
0 messages
1 fab
But the day is still young….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yesterday I had 22 messages.
19 were from straight guys  |
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Yesterday 13 views 1 catfish message. Unfortunately I fell for it |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Northwich (just visiting) |
Yesterday
About 25 messages and 500ish views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
I’m hidden |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
East Midlands |
Normally, views are between 100-200 and less than 2 messages a day. More if we put a pic up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
0
Will hide profile for while soon |
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About 15 views, 1 message and 1 wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 and 0 right now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today
2119 people viewed
257 messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Views ave usually 20 per day messages from lasses i dont know is 0 today but normally 1 or 2 usually simply to compliment my profile as funny but thats only gonna get a cheers
Rest is ongoing conversations or thread related |
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"Today
2119 people viewed
257 messages "
That's a fair few x |
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Today: 2 views 1 forum related message.
Yesterday: 1 view 2 forum related messages.
That's my August total. |
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Yesterday 68 views, 6 messages (from a friend I was in mid conv with)
Today 24 views, 4 message (from another friend I've been chatting to for a while) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This week-0 views
Last week-9 views
Messages-0
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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380 views so far today
78 messages
Will get more as we have put up a status and pic
We try to reply to most but some do get deleted (no pics-veris) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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53 views and 12 messages so far |
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5 views today. Probably would have gotten zero if I hadn't put myself on the 'meet me today' list. I rarely break double figures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 view 0 message |
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"Just curious as a single male some days I only get a few views and very rarely do I get someone message without me messaging first. I see peoples profiles (single ladies) saying they get 100s of messages a day
Yesterday
6 views
0 messages "
296 views
No idea on messages tho as we answer them all |
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I always get around 20-30 views but messages are kinda rare
Although start of this year I decided I was done sending messages and just made it clear on my profile I don’t message first. The amount of messages I’ve received has about tripled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero views for more than a week and zero messages from anyone I haven’t been talking to for awhile already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0. 0. 0.
And it’s only midweek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same
I got one view so far woohoo
But I gets lots a views of I go on cam, I'm talking sometimes in the low teens lol
And I even get a reply here & there when I send a message 1st, like I said whoohoo |
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0 and 0 here......nothing unusual lol |
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"0. 0. 0.
And it’s only midweek "
I viewed there x |
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"0 and 0 here......nothing unusual lol"
Viewed now |
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Not bothered about views or messages. I am here for the social side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today
2119 people viewed
257 messages "
Plus one more view lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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63 views
3 messages all from the same person
0 winks
About 20 odd fabs |
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"0 and 0 here......nothing unusual lol
Viewed now "
Thanks....but it's going to spoil my record now pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0. 0. 0.
And it’s only midweek
I viewed there x"
Your too kind. Every little helps. |
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4 views , and zero messages, so not a bad day on fab for me hahahah |
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By *as4121Man
over a year ago
dartford |
Rarely a view
And can't remember the last time I had a message. |
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5 yesterday.
All by guys. 0 today
And 0 messages. Single guy life sucks |
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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago
East Lincs |
333 views
16 messages
Did put a couple of new pics on this morning. That does make a big difference to both views and messages on a given day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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12 views in the last 24 hours but only because of a fairly new picture. Its normally less. And one message from a regular chatter |
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"0. 0. 0.
And it’s only midweek
I viewed there x
Your too kind. Every little helps. "
Your welcome x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another day and guess what same old 0 views 0 messages winning all round then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 view in the last 24hrs and no messages. I rarely get more than a couple of views,if that, and even rarer that it's a woman. I never get spontaneous messages, I have always initiated the conversation. |
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4 views,1message today .message was from 30yrs old Californian female wanting to add my Skype name, I don't do Skype. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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667 views
1067 unread messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 views 1 message 1 wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today 72 messages in my inbox.
I just mark all my old messages as unread. - top tip |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Due to a family bereavement not been on here for a over a week so have a grand total of
7 views
0 messages
1 wink from about 6 days ago |
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I used to get more views and messages when I lived in London. Now I live just outside, there's far fewer women within my radius. Some London based women only want London based guys, so it's not surprising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on cam in the chat & got 3 whole views whoohoo lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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336 view
139 messages unread
23 messages today
Will sift through messages and reply or delete. Just need a large drink to get me through most of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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105 views and 14 messages |
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So far today;
3 views
0 messages.
An average day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thursday 895 views and hundreds of messages.
Today 25 views and 1 message.
Fabulous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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14 views
1 ongoing chat
1 new chat but going nowhere.. probably a single guy (gut feeling) disguised as a couple wanting to talk about what we could do with his wife.. we have all come across them in the past |
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Hundred or so views per day.
A few ongoing chats. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
600 views, 600 messages cant get through them all,, cant cope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
0? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Views 90
Messages 3 (none of which had read my profile) |
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I had over 3000 views on Wednesday |
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