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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great idea op. And I love your sentiments  
But I do read profiles. And I take everything as it appears now. When someone says they’re not meeting, I accept it. No men shorted that 5’9. Why should I bother? And I could go on.
There’s a reason I don’t message everyone on here, those I’ve liked I do not fit what they want. They’ve made crystal clear lists of wants and dislikes.
But, I do have a mindset of similar you yours. If they haven’t laid out a line in the sand, some things are a grey area and might move if I start talking to them. But that brings me back to my first point. I don’t message.
The stereo type women on fab will not reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Great idea op. And I love your sentiments
But I do read profiles. And I take everything as it appears now. When someone says they’re not meeting, I accept it. No men shorted that 5’9. Why should I bother? And I could go on.
There’s a reason I don’t message everyone on here, those I’ve liked I do not fit what they want. They’ve made crystal clear lists of wants and dislikes.
But, I do have a mindset of similar you yours. If they haven’t laid out a line in the sand, some things are a grey area and might move if I start talking to them. But that brings me back to my first point. I don’t message.
The stereo type women on fab will not reply. "
I agree, there is a degree to what men are willing to ignore profile requirements. Now the degree varies from man to man. But assuming men don't read profiles I think is a bit exaggerated or at least not the hard and fast rule. |
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OP, I'm afraid I don't ignore things in profiles or assume I can overcome them - that way disappointment leads, but maybe that's just me. But I can and will chat to anyone, and agree that the right chemistry is the most important factor and can be there even if outside strict online parameters. I think that's more likely in person than online though, as I wouldn't message someone whose profile explicitly ruled me out! I didn't understand the rest about hooks and fish and medals, but agree there's a big world outside Fab to meet people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read profiles.
How else an I going to find out if you're moody or annoying? Can't tell that from a vag photo.
Yes you can. "
Never posting a vag photo with you two around  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read profiles.
How else an I going to find out if you're moody or annoying? Can't tell that from a vag photo.
Yes you can.
Never posting a vag photo with you two around
Yes you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read and respect, personally. It's rude not to I feel.
I think the only time I would consider ignoring is if i was a touch out of their age limit. ie, theirs is 45, and ive been 46 for like a week, that kind of thing
and even then I might make it only a wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great idea op. And I love your sentiments
But I do read profiles. And I take everything as it …….
The stereo type women on fab will not reply.
I agree, there is a degree to what men are willing to ignore profile requirements. Now the degree varies from man to man. But assuming men don't read profiles I think is a bit exaggerated or at least not the hard and fast rule."
My rule is hard and fast.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing "
Up to a point… but why are you assuming that was isn’t important to you isn’t important to them… everything is written for a reason
So it’s all well and good saying shoot your shot, but that just end up with people outside of a criteria sending messages when it was specifically laid out….
So for everyone where you have told people to shoot… I would say to the person on the receiving end “don’t settle!” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would seem many do read profiles.
There are though those (and there are a lot) that don't read profiles.
Since we've changed our profile, messages have dropped a lot, however there are still too many asking if we want to meet today.
When people complain about those not reading profiles, these are the ones they have in mind.
Personally, we can choose to see that as a filter. |
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Must be stricter with my boundaries, must be stricter with my boundaries, must be stricter with my boundaries...ah f**k that shit, I give in to my children all the time - why change habits of a lifetime
(Note to self - now I know why the little shits never give up ) |
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"I read profiles.
How else an I going to find out if you're moody or annoying? Can't tell that from a vag photo.
Yes you can.
Never posting a vag photo with you two around
Yes you are.
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I know, but it's just the way it is now.
See, me and the lads had a meeting. Down in the bunker, like. And we voted to ban 'how are you?' and only use messages based on the entirety of a person's profile from now on.
Which means if we ever need to put together an emotional support circle that is bespoke to needs, we'll need to see more vag.
I was heavily opposed to the motion, if it helps. 50% of my copy/paste messages just got Thanos-snapped.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read profiles.
How else an I going to find out if you're moody or annoying? Can't tell that from a vag photo.
Yes you can.
Never posting a vag photo with you two around
Yes you are.
I know, but it's just the way it is now.
See, me and the lads had a meeting. Down in the bunker, like. And we voted to ban 'how are you?' and only use messages based on the entirety of a person's profile from now on.
Which means if we ever need to put together an emotional support circle that is bespoke to needs, we'll need to see more vag.
I was heavily opposed to the motion, if it helps. 50% of my copy/paste messages just got Thanos-snapped.
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I think I am too old to know what Thanos-snapped even means. "How're you" banned is great news. I don't believe for a second you opposed the motion - minutes please! |
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"So men read profiles? Just blatantly choose to ignore them?? Well then that's obviously even worse than not reading them. Just a clear waste of time for both people"
This . I get age related messages constantly. Then salty messages when I don’t reply or delete |
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I don't send messages so there's no correlation between reading a profile and contacting someone.
I only ever read profiles if someone contacts me and I check to see if we are compatible.
More often than not their profile is the complete opposite of what I've clearly set out in my bio so I will reply but it will be a short conversation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing "
Or, you could assume that they have taken the time to write the things in their profile Because they mean them.
Sort of like when a woman says “no” she doesn’t mean “maybe” or “keep trying”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t, straight to the pics and then send a message asking if I can assist in the smashing in of the old back doors 
Can confirm
You never did get back to me with your availability. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing
Or, you could assume that they have taken the time to write the things in their profile Because they mean them.
Sort of like when a woman says “no” she doesn’t mean “maybe” or “keep trying”."
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing "
This is actually the approach a lot of couples take.
At least half the couples who have contacted me over the years have made some comment in their opening message about how my profile is only for show and they know I don't really believe any of it. Either that orI don't have options at my age and can't afford to be choosey. |
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing "
I also look at the profiles of published verifications to see who they have met and if there is any room for manoeuvre for instance if I am 1 year older than their stated preference but they have met somebody older than me then I might send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""I only meet tall vwe men with a big cock" and when you click on her pictures and videos you see her sucking an old guy with a small cock, way to go "
Don't forget short... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing
This is actually the approach a lot of couples take.
At least half the couples who have contacted me over the years have made some comment in their opening message about how my profile is only for show and they know I don't really believe any of it. Either that orI don't have options at my age and can't afford to be choosey. "
WTF. The entitled brass neck. |
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Why would someone exaggerate what they are looking for
It's hard enough to find a good fit on here why would anyone add a bunch of requirements they aren't looking for
By choosing to ignore someone's profile and hoping you can get them to change what they are looking for to suit your requirement your adding to the angst of the thousands of single guys on here struggling to get messages opened because the few females on this site (compared to guys) are being inundated by messages from inappropriate suitors
This is honestly the list ridiculous piece of advice I've read on here
Just read a profile if you tick their boxes & you like them, message them if you don't even if one thing is out, move on, even a message saying nice pics is potentially ruining a more promising guys chances as you're just adding to an already overloaded inbox |
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You make some good points. My recommendation though is to acknowledge where you don't fit and your plan to overcome that. But I would say focus your energies on women you may fit with better.my distance thing for example may sound silly to some but I have just found that the a bigger the distance the less likely it is to become regular and long-term. |
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This is why women are getting fed up on Fab!
If you don't read my profile you send a message when you are the complete opposite of what I want and then I get grumpy reading loads of messages from men I don't want to meet |
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When I get to the pearly gates...... and God says to me .... Fucking Hell Gran! you must have said 50 Hail Marys to take the lift up!
We have two rooms.
One is for the people who sent messages without reading profiles.
Two is for the people who complained about it.
Which room do you want to spend eternity in ....... ?
No contest. It has to be room one. |
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"When I get to the pearly gates...... and God says to me .... Fucking Hell Gran! you must have said 50 Hail Marys to take the lift up!
We have two rooms.
One is for the people who sent messages without reading profiles.
Two is for the people who complained about it.
Which room do you want to spend eternity in ....... ?
No contest. It has to be room one. "
Pretty sure that's not heaven you've rocked up to Granny, if those are the only rooms available.
If that is heaven then I'll take the escalator downstairs where we're all too busy having sex with people who meet our requirements to worry about what's going on elsewhere.
An occasional poker up my bum (it is hell, after all) is a small price to pay I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But we choose to ignore a few things which we assume we can overcome. The degree of assumption varies from man to man. Also the assumption that every lady sticks strictly to what she wrote as her requirement is a bit exaggerated. For the right chemistry everyone has room for a slight adjustment.
It's just the first impression. The presentation, if it sparks any interest, all is good.
So shoot your shot men, if it doesn't work, remember nothing is perfect even in the animal kingdom. Now, how much you remain within the gentleman's limits and bounds is up to you. The higher of course the better. There is a sex life outside fab you enjoy I believe and fab doesn't give any medals for being the best hook by the number of fish you get.
So keep calm and keep fabbing "
Are you the same guy that starts threads about women being stuck and not replying to messages. |
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