I’ve told my story a few times so won’t bore you again with it …
But due to unfortunate circumstances an Illness made me lose a lot of important years growing up (this is not a sob story ) and as a result I haven’t experienced as much of life as your usual nearly 30 year old 
Which as a result leaves me wanting to experience and explore what I’ve missed    
Does the lack of experience put you off ?
Don’t get me wrong . I have a bit of experience but not as much as I would of liked at this age
If you knew this in a potential partner would it raise a red flag or would you be intrigued and excited that you can point them in the direction specifically to your preferences ? |
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over a year ago
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Just be yourself Op and the right people will connect with you.
There are people with much more experience then you and there are people with much less experience then you.
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Not sure whether you’re referring to sexual experience or life experience, but personally don’t think it makes a difference.
For me, I always felt that I missed out on things growing up due to my circumstances so in my 30s when I f started to feel regret at missing out, I packed in my job and went travelling on my own for 3 months. It was liberating and would highly recommend it! |
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"Not sure whether you’re referring to sexual experience or life experience, but personally don’t think it makes a difference.
For me, I always felt that I missed out on things growing up due to my circumstances so in my 30s when I f started to feel regret at missing out, I packed in my job and went travelling on my own for 3 months. It was liberating and would highly recommend it! "
The life thing …. I’ve already started catching up on that
Been working out of the country in quite a luxurious industry travelling and getting payed well 
But sexually I’m still looking to catch up on experience and fulfilling my fantasies and helping others to fulfill theirs  |
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"The life thing …. I’ve already started catching up on that
Been working out of the country in quite a luxurious industry travelling and getting payed well
But sexually I’m still looking to catch up on experience and fulfilling my fantasies and helping others to fulfill theirs "
Don’t put pressure on yourself, when you meet the right person you’ll know and be able to explore all you want and need to and it will be natural rather than forced - which should make it all the more fun.  |
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I was a carer for various family members from the age of 12 so I didn't experience my teens at all and various responsibilities after that meant that I had very little sexual experience before turning 50.
I can't say I've been making up for lost time since because I'm still very choosy in who I explore with.
The biggest surprise was discovering that despite having little or no experience I was able to do everything instinctively and it has never been an issue.
I've always said in the 5 years I've been here that I'm not interested in sex for the sake of it and much prefer to meet people who are on the same path but also at a similar place on that path. |
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"I was a carer for various family members from the age of 12 so I didn't experience my teens at all and various responsibilities after that meant that I had very little sexual experience before turning 50.
I can't say I've been making up for lost time since because I'm still very choosy in who I explore with.
The biggest surprise was discovering that despite having little or no experience I was able to do everything instinctively and it has never been an issue.
I've always said in the 5 years I've been here that I'm not interested in sex for the sake of it and much prefer to meet people who are on the same path but also at a similar place on that path."
I’m searching for a friend that’ll help open my eyes to what’s out there and what I’ve been missing |
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By *ad NannaWoman
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I met a 20 year old from here about 8 years back, who was one of my most memorable experiences.
There was no 'I watch a lot of porn' element to it, or him trying to get me to cum.
It was lovely and he did something that only 4 men have done that I love. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I was a carer for various family members from the age of 12 so I didn't experience my teens at all and various responsibilities after that meant that I had very little sexual experience before turning 50.
I can't say I've been making up for lost time since because I'm still very choosy in who I explore with.
The biggest surprise was discovering that despite having little or no experience I was able to do everything instinctively and it has never been an issue.
I've always said in the 5 years I've been here that I'm not interested in sex for the sake of it and much prefer to meet people who are on the same path but also at a similar place on that path."
More men should go by their instincts I think.
Look at what's in front of them and enjoy each other's bodies.
Stop thinking it's all about the orgasm. |
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"I met a 20 year old from here about 8 years back, who was one of my most memorable experiences.
There was no 'I watch a lot of porn' element to it, or him trying to get me to cum.
It was lovely and he did something that only 4 men have done that I love."
I’d really like to know what that thing was ? |
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