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over a year ago
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Neither yes nor no.
I dont mind what gender someone is and neither do I mind what genetalia they have. So just like everyone else, I make a judgement based on their profile about whether or not I think we will get on and enjoy playing with each other.
However I do love variety in my sex life, so it is a special treat find someone I clicked with who has both boobs and a cock for example, or a masculine energy and a vulva, or cute enbys who flit around all assumptions! 
But the person and the connection is always the most important thing and is a precursor to play. Trans people are people. Not playthings (unless they specifically request that  )
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Neither yes nor no.
I dont mind what gender someone is and neither do I mind what genetalia they have. So just like everyone else, I make a judgement based on their profile about whether or not I think we will get on and enjoy playing with each other.
However I do love variety in my sex life, so it is a special treat find someone I clicked with who has both boobs and a cock for example, or a masculine energy and a vulva, or cute enbys who flit around all assumptions!
But the person and the connection is always the most important thing and is a precursor to play. Trans people are people. Not playthings (unless they specifically request that )
Fay x"
What this wise woman said...
Fetishisation of anyone makes me feel more than mildly uncomfortable. It dehuminises someone to purely one aspect of who they are, not taking into account the rich depth of who they are. |
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There are some but it’s a minority. 13 years experience living / working as a trans woman in uk : usa / eu .
On fab it’s rare to find single women profiles purely into trans. Most seem part of a couple of hsve a lurking guy that wants to play inevitably I find.
Always a treat though when you do find one  |
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"Neither yes nor no.
I dont mind what gender someone is and neither do I mind what genetalia they have. So just like everyone else, I make a judgement based on their profile about whether or not I think we will get on and enjoy playing with each other.
However I do love variety in my sex life, so it is a special treat find someone I clicked with who has both boobs and a cock for example, or a masculine energy and a vulva, or cute enbys who flit around all assumptions!
But the person and the connection is always the most important thing and is a precursor to play. Trans people are people. Not playthings (unless they specifically request that )
Fay x"
100% this!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither yes nor no.
I dont mind what gender someone is and neither do I mind what genetalia they have. So just like everyone else, I make a judgement based on their profile about whether or not I think we will get on and enjoy playing with each other.
However I do love variety in my sex life, so it is a special treat find someone I clicked with who has both boobs and a cock for example, or a masculine energy and a vulva, or cute enbys who flit around all assumptions!
But the person and the connection is always the most important thing and is a precursor to play. Trans people are people. Not playthings (unless they specifically request that )
Fay x"
You put this perfectly! (thank you for mentioning masc people with vulvas as well, much appreciated  )
We get treated like a bit of "something to be had" rather than people sometimes and it is exhausting. We're on here for our own pleasure, not to cater to chasers. If a trans person is into that, that's their decision but people need to stop assuming every trans person likes being fetishized! |
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