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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello fellow fabbers
So do any of you go into meets with expectancy?
Are there certain things you definitely want to happen each time and go with the flow with additional bits?
Or are you a ‘whatever happens happens’ kind of folk…
Just for interest …. |
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We can certainly have hopes, but if we met somebody for the first time we would never expect something to happen. If it's been spelled out beforehand then we're happy to expect nothing to happen.
This doesn't apply to people we have got jiggy with before. We have a date lined up with a lady we had a threesome with and we expect that will happen again, but definitely not in an entitled way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We can certainly have hopes, but if we met somebody for the first time we would never expect something to happen. If it's been spelled out beforehand then we're happy to expect nothing to happen.
This doesn't apply to people we have got jiggy with before. We have a date lined up with a lady we had a threesome with and we expect that will happen again, but definitely not in an entitled way. "
I guess I meant are there certain things you like to do on each meet… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I go in with some expectations, but no entitlement. You have to read the vibes as chatting is one thing, reality can be very different."
very true… sense the feeling  |
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"I go with no expectations x"
Not necessarily expectations… but more along the lines of are there certain things you like to do on a meet ? That you tend to do each time if that makes sense  |
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I tend to imagine what my meet would do to me / like me to do, but ultimately I go with the flow once I’m there and if I’m lucky enough to get a second meet that’s when I might try to realise some of those fantasies |
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"I go with no expectations x
Not necessarily expectations… but more along the lines of are there certain things you like to do on a meet ? That you tend to do each time if that makes sense "
As each meet is individual then no, what I do with one may differ from what I do with someone else.
I think it's a bit robotic you always do the same thing.
Saying that...the only thing I am consistent with is that the first meet will not end up with us having sex x |
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