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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"People who don't think conversation is a 50/50 affair and just want to be entertained.
Oh! And bullshit  "
What he said  & when they can't hold a conversation replying with 1 word answers. They go straight in the trash bin haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One sided conversations or when I feel I’m being messed around, also trust plus a big part for me too."
Oh absolutely this, there's only so much of a conversation you can carry with one or two word answers. I just tak it as a hint they aren't interested anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bookmarking  watching for answers that make me feel wonderful.
People come and go out of peoples lives, I get it, fab is a weird place so my answer is not the same as it would be in here compared to my real world.
I lose interest if I am giving my energy to people when I don’t feel I’m getting anything back, it’s that simple. We would then probably drift apart. And who knows, in the future our lives might interact in the same way it once did.  |
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"Bookmarking watching for answers that make me feel wonderful.
People come and go out of peoples lives, I get it, fab is a weird place so my answer is not the same as it would be in here compared to my real world.
I lose interest if I am giving my energy to people when I don’t feel I’m getting anything back, it’s that simple. We would then probably drift apart. And who knows, in the future our lives might interact in the same way it once did. "
I have had this happen several times. I'm not always impressed though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People being ignorant
People fallowing people just because one person got the hump
See it all the time
Will not talk in public
Icore when people are watching
See them in person they all over me
Sorry not interested
Run back to them tell them how stupid yous have been
Thanks for shown me your toxic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Minimal response, we are fully capable of making conversation, if we can't get that back how do we expect to hold conversation between bouts of fucking and foreplay? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bookmarking watching for answers that make me feel wonderful.
People come and go out of peoples lives, I get it, fab is a weird place so my answer is not the same as it would be in here compared to my real world.
I lose interest if I am giving my energy to people when I don’t feel I’m getting anything back, it’s that simple. We would then probably drift apart. And who knows, in the future our lives might interact in the same way it once did.
I have had this happen several times. I'm not always impressed though."
It’s jarring at first, especially when you may feel you valued them highly. But I do get it, like some above said. People can be fickle, and anything can make people lose interest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we’re talking Fab, what makes me lose interest is hypocrisy, and when someone appears to think of themselves or their opinions to be better than everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting comments. Normally it's something I've done (my personality isn't for everyone I'm afraid lol) but a turn off would be a woman who expects me to chase after her. Like I always have to be the one to txt, call, male plans etc, attraction and interest should be mutual, not one sided, anytime I feel I'm chasing after a woman, I just stop contacting them. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Constant drama especially when someone plays the victim all the time yet never seems to have a good word to say about anyone .
Telling different stories to different people about the same thing.
Falseness, being sworn enemies with someone one minute then best buddies the next.
Making every conversation about sex.
Blowing hot and cold and just basically playing games.
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In a relationship it’s when they act as if the own me or my time. I believe in putting in time to allow a relationship to grow but it always comes with a compromise. Unfortunately hypocritical attitudes happen all the time when they find out I crossdress. Suddenly someone who’s all for freedom of expression but not in her partner.
On here it’s when I don’t accommodate I don’t just let anyone into my home. So conversations get stunted or suggestions of meeting elsewhere are ignored. Basically I feel like I’m someone’s dirty little secret, hidden away to be used whenever they’re Randy…fuck that ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With men when they think they can be demanding and approach with demanding questions expecting me to do as they say without any communication….
Couples - when you only talk to the male
Bullshit - I’m pretty good at working it out in a couple of messages now. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
People expecting instant replies. I had someone message me and say “I have seen you’re online a few times and as you haven’t replied I will now be blocking you”…
I’m a busy guy and sometimes if I’m really interested I want to take my time to give a proper reply! |
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"People expecting instant replies. I had someone message me and say “I have seen you’re online a few times and as you haven’t replied I will now be blocking you”…
I’m a busy guy and sometimes if I’m really interested I want to take my time to give a proper reply!"
This seems to be more of a female behaviour as I have never had a guy do that too me but several men report that they have. Lucky escape quite frankly as who wants to deal with such entitlement. However take 3 months to respond and I will have lost interest. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
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This seems to be more of a female behaviour as I have never had a guy do that too me but several men report that they have. Lucky escape quite frankly as who wants to deal with such entitlement. However take 3 months to respond and I will have lost interest."
Oh yeah I agree with that sentiment if someone takes months to reply. I usually reply within a day or two.
I agree, it is a lucky escape! |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
Hidden agendas.. ie., after a few weeks of conversing via here and telephone...
'Can't wait to fuck you tonight it's taken a while to find someone to cuck us"
From a single female profile who never mentioned cucking never mind a hubby. You gotta laugh
I go into conversations now expecting there to be a catch. |
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When you realise they are just looking for sock puppets to use in their personal soap opera.
When they say one thing in private and the complete opposite in the forums.
When they have different versions of the same story to suit their audience.
When you realise they are working their way through the verifications of someone they absolutely despise. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"When the initial rush of the chase fades and I realise we have little in common or are looking for different things entirely.
That or their voice/hair/height/shoe size/neediness/car/etc"
... car??!  |
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"When the initial rush of the chase fades and I realise we have little in common or are looking for different things entirely.
That or their voice/hair/height/shoe size/neediness/car/etc
... car??! "
Yep. Forever broken and always wanting a ride . . . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many things. As well as a lot of the ones already mentioned, I'll add incompatible kissing styles and the wrong smell. I don't mean them smellng bad, but some people smell amazing and others not so much. Pheromones I presume. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Many things. As well as a lot of the ones already mentioned, I'll add incompatible kissing styles and the wrong smell. I don't mean them smellng bad, but some people smell amazing and others not so much. Pheromones I presume."
Yes! It's such a thing. I remember a social with a beautiful man but I thought he smelled like goat underneath his admittedly nice aftershave. It didn't go any further. Sometimes people (esp when they've worked up a bit sweat) smell to me like they should be fucking me. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Persistent negativity
Inconsistency
I get the vibe they’re a shit shag
Too stuffy
Clingy, needy, bossy
Just no chemistry
Incompatible humour
Unable to handle me when I become a handful
The list goes on…. |
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"Many things. As well as a lot of the ones already mentioned, I'll add incompatible kissing styles and the wrong smell. I don't mean them smellng bad, but some people smell amazing and others not so much. Pheromones I presume."
Yes! Kissing! It's amazing how something so unbelievable can be such a turn off if you don't gel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many things. As well as a lot of the ones already mentioned, I'll add incompatible kissing styles and the wrong smell. I don't mean them smellng bad, but some people smell amazing and others not so much. Pheromones I presume.
Yes! It's such a thing. I remember a social with a beautiful man but I thought he smelled like goat underneath his admittedly nice aftershave. It didn't go any further. Sometimes people (esp when they've worked up a bit sweat) smell to me like they should be fucking me."
Oh no, poor Goat Man!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unable to handle me when I become a handful"
I read that and I immediately thought of the pic of your arse in those tight leggings. Now that's a whole different kind of handful  |
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"Constant drama especially when someone plays the victim all the time yet never seems to have a good word to say about anyone .
Telling different stories to different people about the same thing.
Falseness, being sworn enemies with someone one minute then best buddies the next.
Making every conversation about sex.
Blowing hot and cold and just basically playing games.
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Exactly the same for me  |
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