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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.
I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything  and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.
How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Terrible swinger because I meet for sex things but I enjoy having actual relationships with other people and dating them. I embrace all the feelings.
I enjoy the forums because there are people like you on here  |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Terrible swinger because I meet for sex things but I enjoy having actual relationships with other people and dating them. I embrace all the feelings.
I enjoy the forums because there are people like you on here "
Feeeeeels are good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment, we're enjoying the use of the site only, the forums, occasionally uploading pictures, messaging with those we've already connected, with the odd messaging conversation with some others
Normally, we would also meet.
We've not visited a club and had just a couple of social meets |
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We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.
Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.
Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment  |
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I go to clubs alone or with friends and sometimes do socials, often with a by-the-hour hotel nearby. My best experiences have been threesome and group play in clubs with people I had chatted with online. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Erm…
All of it I guess!
I go through stages of different aspects, sometimes just lurking on the forums, occasionally meeting folks, attending the odd large social. Other times I attend clubs, event nights and indulge in that aspect. Sometimes I just hide away and don’t do anything.
They’re all things that I enjoy, it’s just about how I’m feeling at the time.
I find that this lifestyle is the most immersive and ‘best’ when there’s a balance between all of them as they’re all very different experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a having fun on the forums and chatting to people user.
I’d love to find a couple of local profile for more but I’m picky and that clearly doesn’t help too lol
Never been to a club, not sure if it’s me or not. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I'm a bit of everything really. I do meet people privately and go to clubs.. not as often as I want to although I like to change that. May as well take the opportunity to make as much friends as I can really as I don't have many in real life lol |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"At the moment, we're enjoying the use of the site only, the forums, occasionally uploading pictures, messaging with those we've already connected, with the odd messaging conversation with some others
Normally, we would also meet.
We've not visited a club and had just a couple of social meets"
Ohhh they have some hot pictures every one!! But respect their current non meeting status and be nice if you message them…remember there is two of them not just a hot lady so address them both!  |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.
Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.
Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment "
See I thought I’d be easy to meet couples if you were a couple. Confusing 
Forums are fun and sometimes funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m one of those weirdos that actually wants to meet people I get on with. A social or straight to the nearest bed we can find
But I find I linger on the forums where I chat up people that are only here for the forums
Clubs? I might try them one day, (at least people are there to say hello to) but I get the feeling they are more of a good time for couples rather than single males. |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit of everything really. I do meet people privately and go to clubs.. not as often as I want to although I like to change that. May as well take the opportunity to make as much friends as I can really as I don't have many in real life lol"
You make a good point about friends there. As we grow up the concept of friendship changes and we grow apart from childhood friends. This is nice that you can find new ones here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We see swinging as our social life. We use the chat rooms on here to keep in touch with long distance friends,we regularly attend our local club to socialise with friends and meet new ones( it’s cheaper than the pub). We play in whatever way takes our fancy,with or without whom we choose whenever we feel like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.
I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.
How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums? "
Forum lurker & serial question answerer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a pretty shit swinger, only had a few 1 to 1 social meets, a group social and been to a club once.
I think I mostly just use the forums as it distracts me from trying to put myself out there more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.
I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.
How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums? "
I'm a lurker. Never been to a club, they are all too far for a simple trip across.
I'm a Hetrosexual married male, so 'sexythings' don't happen for me on here. Not even a socialise happens  cause I work weekends and have a family |
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"We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.
Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.
Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment
See I thought I’d be easy to meet couples if you were a couple. Confusing
Forums are fun and sometimes funny "
It's tricky finding couples we both want to meet. And then we have pretty awful available hours which don't suit a lot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.
Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?
Erm... *Raises hand*  "
You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I've never claimed to be a swinger and often wonder if I belong here really.
But I've got nowhere else to go so y'all are stuck with me. Sorry about that
(Plus, I like the pretty pictures) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to the club but not that often. As for meets, I've not had an actual one on one for a few years. Don't know how I feel about this any more. I've probably been on here too long x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.
Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?
Erm... *Raises hand*
You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really. "
What list it is determines my level of worry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.
Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?
Erm... *Raises hand*
You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really.
What list it is determines my level of worry "
My to do list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.
Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?
Erm... *Raises hand*
You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really.
What list it is determines my level of worry
My to do list. "
Best not procrastinate then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically not a swinger as I’m single but if did become coupled up reckon I’d be a pretty awesome swinger!
But in answer to the question I enjoy this lifestyle, go to clubs, have delved into the bdsm kink side which I’m enjoying learning about and attend lots of group socials and have made some pretty amazing friends. I’m not so good at the 1-1 meets, I like a connection and it’s harder to find than I thought it would be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.
I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.
How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums? "
I've never been to a club. Maybe I'll check on out b4 the end of the year. I'm pretty laid back, I've been through a lot this year so haven't been meeting much people tbh with you. But hopefully in the coming weeks that will change.
Naturally I prefer single ladies (less drama) but cuckolding is something I'm very much into and it turns me on to know I can fuck a man's wife/gf better than him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums? "
I have been to a club last year, I do have social meets and I lurk a lot I like perving profiles and pics….
Each to their own really |
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I’m not a swinger. I like the forums (sometimes). I am enjoying organised socials more lately and I adore the people I get jiggy with. It’s all been rather perfect for me for someone who probably really doesn’t belong on a swingers site  . |
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We are very cautious swingers. We take a long time working out if we want to meet somebody.
The only club we like is BGHS. We're contemplating trying a more standard one.
We've had several social but only one sexual meet, but that was a super-hot one and we're looking forward to seeing the lady in question again in a few weeks. Curiously we have always found chatting with and meeting women way easier than finding a couple that we click with.
It doesn't particularly matter that we don't meet often when the meets we've had have been really good. |
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