 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Are you asking for longitudinal and latitudinal references for this particular "line"?  "
Maybe for the future but for know want to see peoples opinions.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
That's a great question. I am not an expert in kink world though I am a member of it. There is this list called safe, sane and consensual. I agree that what one person considers sane may not be sane for others. Maybe we can draw a line at things that cause permanent damage to body? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.
Or it's making you unhappy.
(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago
Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove |
"Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for?  "
…
Anything goes except that which is illegal, wholly immoral, you’re addicted to or is making you physically / emotionally / mentally unwell or unstable |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for?
…
Anything goes except that which is illegal, wholly immoral, you’re addicted to or is making you physically / emotionally / mentally unwell or unstable "
Very good thread and very good answer. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
"
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim. "
Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.
Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month. "
And he’s fictional |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.
Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.
And he’s fictional "
Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Tim wouldn’t be renting with that money
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.
Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.
And he’s fictional
Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"That's a great question. I am not an expert in kink world though I am a member of it. There is this list called safe, sane and consensual. I agree that what one person considers sane may not be sane for others. Maybe we can draw a line at things that cause permanent damage to body?"
Good point!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.
Or it's making you unhappy.
(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)"
What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Love the Tim example, made me smile (:
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.
Or it's making you unhappy.
(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)
What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?
"
Why would you want to be with someone who is happy for you to do something that they know makes you unhappy, just because they like it? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.
Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,
Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.
Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.
Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.
And he’s fictional
Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games. "
Tim refusing to pay his rent due to his landlord not fixing his place is different to the original point of Tim not having enough money to pay his rent.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.
Or it's making you unhappy.
(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)
What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?
Why would you want to be with someone who is happy for you to do something that they know makes you unhappy, just because they like it?"
It was an example but, know examples from real life and beats me why... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.
"
Cute girls don't have stinky feet... (: |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
