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"Isn't this the third or fourth time you've posted this? If you think age is your issue hide it. If you think your pics or text is your issue change it. Tinder isn't awful. It isn't great. I'm 40 plus and have had likes from ladies 10 or 12 years either side of me. To the right person it really is just a number. Are you sure your profile isnt hidden? Not sent to liked only?" Before I was just generally wondering about others experiences of tinder, but yesterday I started to wonder if my age was an issue. And no, it's definitely showing  | |||
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"Can I ask what sort of pics you use on tinder? " I'm using a mix of face pics, full body pics (with clothes on ) and me out with friends | |||
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"Go with Bumble. Women message first if they are interested, that way you know for sure. " I used that just before I used Tinder, and had the same result | |||
"Go with Bumble. Women message first if they are interested, that way you know for sure. I used that just before I used Tinder, and had the same result" POF is your only hope then. Sorry for your loss x | |||
"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me "I think bumble and hinge are miles better. If you can’t get a sniff on tinder then I would hazard a guess that your blurb is crap and your standards aren’t reflective of reality? Why don’t you do an hour of only right swipes, zero no’s. | |||
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"Can I ask what sort of pics you use on tinder? I'm using a mix of face pics, full body pics (with clothes on ) and me out with friends"Ok ditch the mates pics. Looks immature and tells her she’ll be fighting for your time. | |||
"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me
I think bumble and hinge are miles better. If you can’t get a sniff on tinder then I would hazard a guess that your blurb is crap and your standards aren’t reflective of reality? Why don’t you do an hour of only right swipes, zero no’s. "If your not mega swiping right for days on end your doing it wrong. Swipe right now and do the picking later. | |||
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"What happened to actually going out and talking to people?" Me too movement | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people?" Are you crazy! Also, every fucker is attached to their phone, plus fear of rejection! | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement " Ah yes, women reporting their sexual harassment and sexual assault experiences has definitely been the cause of people not talking to each other irl | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement " I’ve been in a relationship/married for 10 years so I’d be fucked if I ever have to date again. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Are you crazy! Also, every fucker is attached to their phone, plus fear of rejection! " Fear is for pussies. | |||
"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me "Bro, it’s just online dating. I’ve had the same experience on several apps (Bumble, POF, Happn, OKcupid) - Only likes come from bots. Starting to wonder whether I’m past it. However. I did read somewhere that the algorithms on these sites are tuned to matching under 25s or there abouts that everyone else is a ‘second class’ citizen. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people?" Have you read / watched the news in the last decade? Women DO NOT want or like to be approached. No way I’m being labelled creepy or a pervert thank you very much. M | |||
"I did read somewhere that the algorithms on these sites are tuned to matching under 25s or there abouts that everyone else is a ‘second class’ citizen. " Mwahahahahahahaha | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people?" Male violence | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Are you crazy! Also, every fucker is attached to their phone, plus fear of rejection! Fear is for pussies." Misogynist | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Have you read / watched the news in the last decade? Women DO NOT want or like to be approached. No way I’m being labelled creepy or a pervert thank you very much. M" You can strike up conversation naturally without being creepy or a pervert. I’m married and not trying to pull but still do it regularly. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement " What does this even mean 
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"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Male violence " Yes male violence stopped all conversations  | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Have you read / watched the news in the last decade? Women DO NOT want or like to be approached. No way I’m being labelled creepy or a pervert thank you very much. M" I get approached by women almost every time I’m having a night out. Even if I’m on my own. They’re perverts obviously. Even the ones asking for makeup tips | |||
"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me
Bro, it’s just online dating.
I’ve had the same experience on several apps (Bumble, POF, Happn, OKcupid) - Only likes come from bots.
Starting to wonder whether I’m past it.
However. I did read somewhere that the algorithms on these sites are tuned to matching under 25s or there abouts that everyone else is a ‘second class’ citizen. "Jeez, if a buff, good looking guy like you is having trouble getting likes, I'm really screwed. Haha | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Are you crazy! Also, every fucker is attached to their phone, plus fear of rejection! Fear is for pussies. Misogynist " Who’s she? | |||
"OP, your posts and comments are always really negative towards how you look, come across, cock size, how you have no luck anywhere. Try and have a positive outlook and things might change? After all, you've had fab meets, and youre not the elephant man with a 0.5 inch penis. You just moan a lot (and not in a good way) "Yep, try positivity. Nobody likes a negative Nelly. Also, it’s a vibe you can give off, and do. Nobody wants that energy around them or in them. Pics smiling, a funny profile text. Back yourself, it’s dog eat dog but you ain’t getting eaten. | |||
"OP, your posts and comments are always really negative towards how you look, come across, cock size, how you have no luck anywhere. Try and have a positive outlook and things might change? After all, you've had fab meets, and youre not the elephant man with a 0.5 inch penis. You just moan a lot (and not in a good way) "I mean, my pics are what they are, and my bio isn't negative or moaning at all | |||
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"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me
Bro, it’s just online dating.
I’ve had the same experience on several apps (Bumble, POF, Happn, OKcupid) - Only likes come from bots.
Starting to wonder whether I’m past it.
However. I did read somewhere that the algorithms on these sites are tuned to matching under 25s or there abouts that everyone else is a ‘second class’ citizen.
Jeez, if a buff, good looking guy like you is having trouble getting likes, I'm really screwed. Haha"You latched onto the one profile you could draw a negative comparison | |||
"Turned 33 in April. Been using Tinder for just over a month now and have had zero likes. It's made me wonder whether 30s is like a lost middle ground on there? The way I figure, most women in their 20s will consider me too old, and women in their late 30s/early 40s might consider me too young. This leaves women within a year or two of me in either direction, and reduces my overall potential matches. Would be keen to hear from others 30 and up about their experience? I'm prepared to face the fact that it's just me
Bro, it’s just online dating.
I’ve had the same experience on several apps (Bumble, POF, Happn, OKcupid) - Only likes come from bots.
Starting to wonder whether I’m past it.
However. I did read somewhere that the algorithms on these sites are tuned to matching under 25s or there abouts that everyone else is a ‘second class’ citizen.
Jeez, if a buff, good looking guy like you is having trouble getting likes, I'm really screwed. Haha"I get likes, in your town, and I've got 10 years on you. If it's not working change something. Doing the same over and over is the definition of insanity. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Have you read / watched the news in the last decade? Women DO NOT want or like to be approached. No way I’m being labelled creepy or a pervert thank you very much. M You can strike up conversation naturally without being creepy or a pervert. I’m married and not trying to pull but still do it regularly." Yeah and the difference is you’re married ..I assume you wear a ring, which will make it obvious. Married mate of mine says exactly the same thing. Once married very easy to approach and talk to women. Even gets approached by women. Anyway, I’m not complaining - as someone pointed out - it’s the fault of some men. The rest of us just have to bear it. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Have you read / watched the news in the last decade? Women DO NOT want or like to be approached. No way I’m being labelled creepy or a pervert thank you very much. M You can strike up conversation naturally without being creepy or a pervert. I’m married and not trying to pull but still do it regularly. Yeah and the difference is you’re married ..I assume you wear a ring, which will make it obvious. Married mate of mine says exactly the same thing. Once married very easy to approach and talk to women. Even gets approached by women. Anyway, I’m not complaining - as someone pointed out - it’s the fault of some men. The rest of us just have to bear it. " A lot of the time they don’t notice the ring. I’m a naturally chatty person though and must seem approachable. | |||
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"Swipe swipe and more swipe right, lose the mates pics, if that appears a lot swipe left as they don't know who the profile belongs to. Keep the blurb simple, double check your settings that you're seeing everyone and they're seeing you, you're not ugly so I doubt you're not getting any swipes, you may just not be swiping them back "I made sure my group pics (2 of them) appear after plenty of solo ones .
And I am swiping mostly right. Whether it's a nice pic or a good bio with similar interests listed, I swipe right. | |||
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"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
"Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty "#hottake | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty "Oh duh! Isn’t it weird that women call out sexual harassment and suddenly men are scared to yo them. As if they’re actually annoyed they can’t keep getting away with what they’re used to? 
Nah I’m being ridiculous | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake"Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
Oh duh! Isn’t it weird that women call out sexual harassment and suddenly men are scared to yo them. As if they’re actually annoyed they can’t keep getting away with what they’re used to?
Nah I’m being ridiculous"The very IDEA OMG. | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry. "It’s the Barry
Fucking hell Baz mate | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry.
It’s the Barry
Fucking hell Baz mate"He's a character, that one | |||
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"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry. "Think this sounds like the same Barry who can't say anything anymore as, you know, PC's gone mad... | |||
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"Really ? The last time I used tinder was last year,and honestly I had more meets with tinder than with fab...not sure age is the problem ..." You're in really good shape and from pics can tell you're really good looking. That might be helping right enough. Haha | |||
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"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry.
Think this sounds like the same Barry who can't say anything anymore as, you know, PC's gone mad..."Barry curses feminists too | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry.
Think this sounds like the same Barry who can't say anything anymore as, you know, PC's gone mad...
Barry curses feminists too"He thinks Feminists cursed him first. Because they’re witches right? | |||
"OP no offence but either you're making these threads to get daily asspats or you really are just fucking exhausting "My impression is that it’s the latter | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry.
Think this sounds like the same Barry who can't say anything anymore as, you know, PC's gone mad...
Barry curses feminists too
He thinks Feminists cursed him first. Because they’re witches right? "Oh yes  | |||
"OP no offence but either you're making these threads to get daily asspats or you really are just fucking exhausting
My impression is that it’s the latter "How come? | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry. "Light-hearted joke no need to cry Cinderella | |||
"What happened to actually going out and talking to people? Me too movement What does this even mean
Women standing up against sexual harassment means menz can't get booty
#hottake
Amirite though? I see men on here use this excuse all the time. "I don't dare touch a woman now". Ok, Barry.
Light-hearted joke no need to cry Cinderella "Alright Barry | |||
"Go with Bumble. Women message first if they are interested, that way you know for sure. " This might be better then OP? | |||
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