I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery. |
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over a year ago
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You shouldn’t have to do that because people are horrid. I’m sorry you’re feeling self conscious. Sending lots of love. I am sorry I am not much help but I think you should be you- I like you as you are.  |
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"You shouldn’t have to do that because people are horrid. I’m sorry you’re feeling self conscious. Sending lots of love. I am sorry I am not much help but I think you should be you- I like you as you are. "
aww thank you Steve  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't.
I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.
If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.
I wouldn't explain it on my profile. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I wouldn't.
I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.
If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.
I wouldn't explain it on my profile. "
What a div I am. I had surgery on my left nipple.
Don't know my left from my right |
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"I wouldn't.
I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.
If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.
I wouldn't explain it on my profile. "
my sensation came back somewhat but it took years. |
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"They must have led very sheltered lives to not have any scars of their own.
...which makes them seem pretty fucking boring to me. "
I have to say I think scars can be quite beautiful they tell a story of a life lived. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."
Nope
It's your personal business no need to,if people are unable to think outside the box and not question it and accept you as you are without having to ask to explain.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don’t allow ignorant and stupid hurt your feelings...!
it’s the little quirks that makes us all special, so enjoy being you and don’t give a fuck about what someone says about your lovely boobs... |
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"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."
Sorry they made you feel that way lovely. I say bugger them and carry on. Nothing wrong with your pics at all. Xxx |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Nothing wrong with scars at all !!! If your boobs had scars I'd love them lick them I've got scars on my back from a car crash looks like I was in a lions cage.. and one big one in the side of my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."
Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?
All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!
Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.
But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed! 
Sending a huge hug!!
Fay x |
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"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery.
Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?
All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!
Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.
But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed!
Sending a huge hug!!
Fay x "
Thank you beautiful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery.
Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?
All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!
Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.
But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed!
Sending a huge hug!!
Fay x "
can confirm i very lucky fay share if you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.
Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.
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I couldn't have put it better 
I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.
Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.
NBVN x |
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By *iltomMan
over a year ago
swansea |
"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."
Hi Leanda,
It js such a shame you are getting these messages.
Personally I would block them. You are a beautiful woman and you have so much to be positive about. Your breasts are amazing by the way. Keep on being positive. Xx |
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By *iltomMan
over a year ago
swansea |
"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.
Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.
I couldn't have put it better
I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.
Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.
NBVN x"
Exactly this. NBVN, you are a very beautiful lady. Xx |
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"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.
Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.
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Well said, Dan! You'll need to cut and paste this for a few threads, I think.
OP, sorry people have made you feel self conscious. You have no reason to, and certainly no need explain anything to anyone unless you choose to! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My initial reaction to this post was utter disgust at how nasty some people can be. It's completely ok to not like how people look, we all have our preferences, but it's super rude and outright nasty to message someone just to be hurtful. I'm so sorry you've had that experience.
My advice is not to react to it. Frankly it's no business of anyone to know you've had surgery and your reasons behind that. And starting any form of relationship on the premise of 'excusing' something that doesn't need excusing is a sign it's a relationship you don't need.
For the record, I think you look gorgeous as you are, and anyone should feel privileged being with you. Consider these messages as a jerk alarm, delete and block. Fill your world with people that appreciate you, give them your energy and ignore the haters.
Hope you have better experiences in the future x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.
Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.
I couldn't have put it better
I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.
Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.
NBVN x
Exactly this. NBVN, you are a very beautiful lady. Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your tits look absolutely fine. Nothing to explain, just live your life. It’s your own business, nobody else’s. "
Totally this ….ignore any negative comments hun |
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"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."
Fuck em all. They look fine |
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