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By *shley79 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think some people nevee intend to meet up sadly ,it's an awful thing to do though and please report them op."
It’s just such a waste of my time
My time is so precious so when someone has agreed to meet it’s so disappointing when they don’t.
But if they have a genuine excuse it’s ok, but when there’s nothing….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard for some people to tell you that they aren’t going to attend the meet or social you’ve arranged with them….
So so annoying!"
Because some people are massive arseholes.
Is annoying but look at it like you’ve swerved a nut job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly happens to us all. But if it’s a frequent occurrence, I would think about your approach to seeking up a meet.
I usually ask the lady “ if for any reason you need to cancel, could you just send me a quick message’
I also send a message stating , I’m heading to the date. Usually 30 minutes before the date . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were let down by about 5 guys once for a gangbang. It's so rude. We blocked everyone that didn't give notice. Even blocked their profiles when they've returned to Fab!"
I’ve organised a fair number of GB meets. Only 3/10 people will turn up. The number increases if you’ve met them before .
I know it’s disheartening. |
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Well I was getting paranoid, I have had 4 no shows over the years, with no apology given or reason, usually when you try and contact its ignored or profile deleted or even blocking me.
Agree with OP its also expensive, if its hotel meet I usually organise a nice room with some space, such a shame to waste the space with a no show not to mention expense.
Now I am more cautious about a meet. Such a shame as it tarnishes ones view of FAB. I do wonder how many turned up had a look and decided otherwise!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I was getting paranoid, I have had 4 no shows over the years, with no apology given or reason, usually when you try and contact its ignored or profile deleted or even blocking me.
Agree with OP its also expensive, if its hotel meet I usually organise a nice room with some space, such a shame to waste the space with a no show not to mention expense.
Now I am more cautious about a meet. Such a shame as it tarnishes ones view of FAB. I do wonder how many turned up had a look and decided otherwise!
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Sorry to hear the wasted expense of a hotel room.
I usually only book the hotel room once the lady has arrived. It does mean the cost is more.
I wonder if single ladies get the same from men no showing . |
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Not sure why some people choose to do this without having the decency to cancel and let the person know.
Fake profiles maybe or they just get off on having a wank over pictures but the reality is a lot more different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens a lot unfortunately, really does affect your mental health, just feel like shit or worthless, best to just block and move on! Wish there was a way a no show can be reported, like 3 strikes and your out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened to my twice, different women in different areas,but same situation,she'd suggest meeting in her local pub,I'd drive forty miles,sit in what turns out to be a right dump of a pub for an hour then when she doesn't show up drive another forty miles home. Very annoying especially with current cost of diesel. They both apologised & have what was probably a genuine excuse,but why not message me as soon as they realise they're not going to make it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try and work a meet into other plans. Social combine it with doing other things etc hotel meet make sure there’s decent places to go in the area etc. you can report no shows through their profile or messages.
I don’t meet often but if I say I’ll be somewhere I’ll be there. |
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