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How many verifications ….?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think there is too many?
People can get quite a few from one social or club visit alone. - If you have been doing this for sometime, you might have quite a lot then if you regularly attend them.
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off    
Why would they put you off?"
Some people don’t want someone that’s had a tonne of different partners
Just asking 
Some will like the fact they’ve had a tonne of experience
Each to their own   |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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I have over 300, from going to socials, hosting in clubs and obviously going to clubs.
Most are social. Some are naughty.
Doesn’t bother me what people think of it.
At least it shows I am how I am and do what I do.
I love looking at veris.
The only time I get put off is when I’ve seen some of the people they have been with. That can be really off putting.
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off
Why would they put you off?
Some people don’t want someone that’s had a tonne of different partners
Just asking
Some will like the fact they’ve had a tonne of experience
Each to their own "
Oh I agree. Loads of sexual ones and I’d be put off. We all like different things |
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"I have over 300, from going to socials, hosting in clubs and obviously going to clubs.
Most are social. Some are naughty.
Doesn’t bother me what people think of it.
At least it shows I am how I am and do what I do.
I love looking at veris.
The only time I get put off is when I’ve seen some of the people they have been with. That can be really off putting.
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Oh definitely |
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"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.
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However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.  "
What did it make you think ?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off "
4 maximum showing.
Don't care if they are fuck reviews or social veris. |
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"I don’t think there is too many?
People can get quite a few from one social or club visit alone. - If you have been doing this for sometime, you might have quite a lot then if you regularly attend them.
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I think somebody mentioned early it’s maybe the content rather than number? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off "
It's not about amount really...its more about what they displaying and being proud of |
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"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.
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However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.
What did it make you think ? "
400 people can’t be wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the content. One could totally put me off. "
I agree with this. I'd probably display more social ones that 1 really graphic one if I ever received it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted. "
Did you verify him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted.
Did you verify him? "
Well I got excited when he asked me if I wanted sauce on it.
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"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.
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However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.
What did it make you think ? "
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It made me think that I need to get my arse to Grimsby, pronto! |
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We've been swingers for 25 years.we go to clubs. Our veris are barely a snapshot of our lives . Veris are simply there to verify the person or persons as real. Many of ours come from social events anyway.
Either way, if someone sees an account and thinks "that's too many" then they are pretty niave don't you think? People do meets without fabs involvement. Loke i said, we just want to know if a person or persons are real. Makes no difference if its 1 or 100 veris on their account. If someone else takes issue with numbers then they're on the wrong site surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been swingers for 25 years.we go to clubs. Our veris are barely a snapshot of our lives . Veris are simply there to verify the person or persons as real. Many of ours come from social events anyway.
Either way, if someone sees an account and thinks "that's too many" then they are pretty niave don't you think? People do meets without fabs involvement. Loke i said, we just want to know if a person or persons are real. Makes no difference if its 1 or 100 veris on their account. If someone else takes issue with numbers then they're on the wrong site surely?"
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"We've been swingers for 25 years.we go to clubs. Our veris are barely a snapshot of our lives . Veris are simply there to verify the person or persons as real. Many of ours come from social events anyway.
Either way, if someone sees an account and thinks "that's too many" then they are pretty niave don't you think? People do meets without fabs involvement. Loke i said, we just want to know if a person or persons are real. Makes no difference if its 1 or 100 veris on their account. If someone else takes issue with numbers then they're on the wrong site surely?"
No. If someone meets lots of people in a short amount of time then they definitely won’t be for me. Doesn’t mean I’m on the wrong site. |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t like really graphic ones and, as other posters have said, sometimes who someone has met can be off putting too. A huge number in a short time is a bit of a red flag unless the person has been to a social or a club night.
I (and we) have had meets and not left/received a veri through mutual agreement. Each to their own, but as long as people can see I’m genuine as a single since Rich died then I’m happy with that. I’ve done more (and we did more) than my profile would suggest. |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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Over 20 and I might start to feel intimidated as being compared to them
But in reality I'm a quiet, thoughtful, calculated person.
So I'm unlikely to get along with a regular partygoer with dozens of veris.
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"Depends on the content. One could totally put me off. "
Like me you seem to value verifications as an addition to the person's profile write-up, which is often of limited value.
Verifications give a clue to their quirks, reliability and looking at the writers whether one wants to join them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn’t a limit that sort off thinking is closed minded and shouldn’t be on here
So what if someone meet 300 2000 or 5 they still the same person
At the end off the day I am single and free to do as I please
If someone has a problem with that it’s there probable
It’s the reason I don’t show mine
As this closed mind thinking is bad around here
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They could be mainly cam or social veris
Or maybe the person has been on here for 10yrs collecting verifications as they go
Some people go to clubs and collect 20 veris in one night, they've likely played with nine of them and they'll all just be people they chatted to in the bar
I don't think any specific number would put me off, as others have said context is key |
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I'm not put off by loads of veris as could have been clubs or socials etc, I am by huge numbers of meet veris over a short period of time, also the content of them if they're overly graphic, then they're not for me either. My perogative though |
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Wouldn't annoy me how many verifications someone had as its basically verifications to say someone is genuine not how many people they have been with!!
Most people don't get that! All mine are genuine verifications not one is someone I've been with! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Inevitably some people will frequent more social events than others because they enjoy that environment not every verification means you’ve fucked that individual, plenty of people on here have friendships as well as more
Verifications like fabs are a ego boost for some, it’s nice to read what someone thinks of you, perhaps you want to share that to give an indication of how you come across in person, your kinks or what not
I think in any aspect it’s your profile you run it how you wish, if I come across something not to my taste be it a pic or explicit veris I just bypass it x |
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"Inevitably some people will frequent more social events than others because they enjoy that environment not every verification means you’ve fucked that individual, plenty of people on here have friendships as well as more
Verifications like fabs are a ego boost for some, it’s nice to read what someone thinks of you, perhaps you want to share that to give an indication of how you come across in person, your kinks or what not
I think in any aspect it’s your profile you run it how you wish, if I come across something not to my taste be it a pic or explicit veris I just bypass it x"
The voice of reason and experience |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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987,438,601 verifications given on the same day is too many. Because some are almost certainly going to be fake.
Any less and I only care about content, and who they're from. If they're obviously play veris all from women the polar opposite to my shape, size, location etc, I'm going to assume that I'm not for that person. And if they're all cam veris that describe play, I'm unlikely to be interested as I don't do that.
But there are exceptions to that as well. Because I'm changeable and flighty with my hormones. |
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This kind of post always makes me giggle!
The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..
If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!
Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This kind of post always makes me giggle!
The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..
If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!
Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…
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This
I have a lot of veris but only display current ones. Over half are social meets and club meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This kind of post always makes me giggle!
The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..
If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!
Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…
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Acceptance and open mindedness. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off "
I'd be more put off by someone where it states they've been here more than a year without having any verifications.
That would indicate that nobody wants to meet them for some reason......
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off "
there is no upper number. As I don't think for one minute it represents how many people they have met |
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I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.
There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.
I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often. |
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I've never yet seen a veri that would encourage me to ignore everything else and just meet someone based on that alone but I've seen plenty that would encourage me to avoid at all costs.
The overall number doesn't matter but numerous repeat verifications would put me off.
How many times do you have to tell everyone how amazing someone is before it starts to look like they are either struggling to convince people otherwise or there is a lot of streetlight urination going on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not toooooo many. Spaced well. Depends on the whole picture of the person, what's said and who they've been with. I know it can only take one person to pass on something, but I care about my health. I'm talking about sexual meet ups, not social of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can’t trust verifications here some meet loads of partners and don’t swop veri’s
I know one couple who often started a new profile to start again
their verifications list was nearly in four fingers |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I do a quiz every week as a fab social, organise pre drinks before club nights and attend clubs regularly. I often have social verifications and sometimes several in the same week. I’ve been here 11 years so it ends up averaging not that many in a year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.
There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.
I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often."
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"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.
There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.
I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often."
Of course but you can see you have verifications even though you don’t display. People who have been on over a year that have none is a red flag for me |
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"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.
There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.
I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often.
Of course but you can see you have verifications even though you don’t display. People who have been on over a year that have none is a red flag for me "
I reckon they should make it a tally/poll verifications....like outta 10 ...or like how we apply interests on our profile bios tick boxes lol .....
? genuine
? great sense of humour
? looks like their pics
? easy on the eye
? happy to split hotel bill
? like to meet several times etc etc
That kinda verifications would be awesome....
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And same idea for those who aren't genuine...
? didn't turn up no message to say why...
? too quiet
? not as tall as they said they where
? noway was that fella 49
Etc etc
Then add your own at the end lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone "
They might just be private about the strangers they are fucking around with.  |
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"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone
They might just be private about the strangers they are fucking around with. "
They are not for me then. Prefer people to be open and honest if I'm going to be fucking them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shouldnt matter.
I've got 300, displaying almost 200.
I'm a social person, who attends clubs weekly (I do also work there), hosts her own events and goes to festivals. Most of mine are social and I'm bound to meet lot of people, weekly.
If it puts people off, that's their issue to deal with isn't it |
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"Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them.
So why show your verification summery?
Play nicely
I wasn’t being not nice. Just asking a question. "
Didn't know I was, but thanks.
Don't usually have profile on show, must have been feeling brave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find most off putting tbh, i can see someone and think oh yeh shes tidy, then click on varies and onto their varies varis and im put off 100% rate so far i just find them abit crass  |
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Frankly I’d see it as a good thing, means they person or people behind the profile seem legit and show that they actually get out there and meet people face to face in person.
Content of the verification itself, rather than the number of them is also important to consider |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't be put of by any amount of verifications I'd rather met someone I find attractive who is patient and respectful regardless of how many verifications they have
I don't think the swinging world is the place to be if you're going to judge someone based on their body count tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off
Be it socials or meets
We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world
I find when people complain about this sort off thing
Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing
Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter
People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine
I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off
Be it socials or meets
We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world
I find when people complain about this sort off thing
Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing
Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter
People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine
I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people "
Hear hear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off
Be it socials or meets
We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world
I find when people complain about this sort off thing
Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing
Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter
People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine
I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people
Hear hear! "
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Imo u can't have to many? I like collecting them! I make no excuses weather they are cam social or more! They are there for anyone to make their own mind up if I'm not for peeps all is cool move along the bus x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of mine are from socials.
I like to see a decent number if I'm considering meeting someone, I don't think there's "too many" but I'm not into giving, receiving or reading super graphic ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off.
Preferably none showing on their profile at all. "
I agree with you.
They feel like Amazon reviews for products, for me. Dehumanising… |
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"How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off.
Preferably none showing on their profile at all.
I agree with you.
They feel like Amazon reviews for products, for me. Dehumanising…"
This. I find it off putting, rating someone on how sexy/'good'/satisfying they were. No thanks. |
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Yeah doesn't bother me like I've been verified by 84 people and showing a good 50 of those some are repeated as I've met them via social events a few times...I've literally met and played with a handful of folk who just leave me genuine verifications not detailed meets!
Most people seem to think the numbers mean the amount of meets this person has had! Which I think is ridiculous  |
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Haha, great question! As a newbie on here my first in-person meet was with a lady who had 36 veries, and I have to be honest - yes, I was intimidated by that! He-he! I found myself a little bit shy and overwhelmed on that date (purely because of what was in my own head!), but I'm glad to say she gave me a very nice veri so thanks! x |
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"Are too many…
I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?
How many would completely put you off "
For me it's not the number, I appreciate a guy with many positive verifications but it's the content of veris that might dissuade me |
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"I skip all the webcam ones and read the in person ones... "
I got cam verifications from being on here during covid times. I got a vanilla bf so the verifications stopped but I have met afew but not all wrote a verification. The ones who did have left the site since then. People need to not take things too face value. As having this doesn't make the person bad |
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"Does it really matter how many Verifications one has , this is a Sex site "
But for me I like to know how others been treated by that person, how reliable and real that person is. I must admit if the verification is given by someone who been on here for ages, no profile content and only written one veri, I would be dubious. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone "
I give a verification after a social meet but rarely give a verification after meeting for fun. I don’t really want to read about what other people and I’m not sharing what I did on a meet. |
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too much ? 
Why is 42 the magic number ? 
*including me 
100s of meet to play veris on other hand, yeah can be a turn off if I’m being honest! But good thing with fab is choice 