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FAB, what is everyone seeking, social dating or spontaneous sex

By *nglishCharm OP Man over a year ago

Midlands

Hi I'm Connor, do we want sex, build up important of course yet the hoops to meet can be so boring, what's your thoughts, spontaneous sex or long build up.....

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

I just simultaneously want and dont want attention

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

A quick social, then a meet not long after. Can't be doing with long build ups, I lose interest.

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By *imply DeeWoman over a year ago

Wherever

Here to rediscover what I like and what I want.

It’s not as easy as it sounds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like something a bit more datey

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

A combination of all the above

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I want grammar and correctly formed, cohesive sentences.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman over a year ago

…

I think mainly socials/dating/some sex when in the mood and actually feeling sexy

But I also change my mind a lot and struggle to know what I want hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here to tie someone up and have my way with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want grammar and correctly formed, cohesive sentences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just simultaneously want and dont want attention "

Relatable

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By *nglishCharm OP Man over a year ago

Midlands

Clearly a wider variety on this,personally chat meet and go with the animal attraction should it be there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want dates mostly. But I’m open to casual sex. Spontaneous stuff blah blah.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spontaneous combustion.

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By *ylonattireTV/TS over a year ago

BUXTON

In the moment

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By *dventurous biMan over a year ago

tesside

I’d like to make a connection with someone in some form or other.

Meet for coffee and an exploratory snog and then see where it takes us.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

If the hope are boring you are probably not compatible so move on.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

"If the hope are boring you are probably not compatible so move on."

Hoops*

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By *rostgiantMan over a year ago

Chippenham

I want less back pain from carrying conversations all the time

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By *r SensualMan over a year ago

London

I’m here to make friendships, NSA sex with said friends and social dates

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A connection is very important for me, I don't see the build up as jumping through hoops, but then I have never had a one night stand or one off play meet other than in a club, which is a whole different ball game, excuse the pun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me someone kinky or kink curious that is based in or around London. Social connection, fun dates and lots of sexy time .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some good old fashioned adult fun and frolics......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want it all

And I want it now

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

Dates, socials, clubs, fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im mainly here to be here incase im needed but other than that i need inspiration to act on impulse one or two have been close but either calenders or my head gets in the way

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By *nnasHammerCouple over a year ago

The Upside Down

Ideally meets with MF couples. Still looking for that single lady for an MFF though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be wanted by someone I want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be wanted by someone I want

"
in a nutshell this fits perfectly

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Local couples or singles…for fairly regular meets.

Easy…

(it’s not!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing. If you expect nothing you’re never disappointed right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I came on here looking for casual sex but decided many years ago that I’d like a full blown swinging relationship. Had one before for a couple of years. I had been chatting with Elfie on and off in chat rooms for 10 years. Then we finally met and were engaged within 2 months. We have a normal relationship but we also attend our local club where we play and we have friends we play with when the timing is right

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman over a year ago

WSM

Dates, leading to long term, without having to wait to bring up non vanilla subjects with someone just to find it’s not going to work

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By *nglishCharm OP Man over a year ago

Midlands

All responses are individual and agree with each of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s a complicated question

Sometimes looking for friends

Sometimes just want chat

Sometimes I am just showing off pics

Sometimes I am looking for a social

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am just looking to get banged and have them zip up and leave

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Social first to see if there is a mental connection is #1 for me.

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By *edheadjMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

You forgot the ones who are here to make it look like they're interested but really just want to push their only fans

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You forgot the ones who are here to make it look like they're interested but really just want to push their only fans "

You say that likes it's a bad thing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A quick social, then a meet not long after. Can't be doing with long build ups, I lose interest."

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"You forgot the ones who are here to make it look like they're interested but really just want to push their only fans "

Oooh, or the ones that will only meet you if you have joined their only fans! Surely that's prostitution?

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By *heMightySpud69Man over a year ago

Milton keynes

I expect nothing nothing. Anything is a bonus that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I for one enjoy the whole build up to being with someone.

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By *ixiePoisonWoman over a year ago

Darlington

I want a regular guy, for socials as well as meets, for like a FWB, am I on the wrong site?

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By *aughty but nice...Man over a year ago

Staffs

A bit of a mixture of everything..though I've found my FWB so now the next chapter for me in this bonkers lifestyle is exploring spontaneous meets with her by my side

...I'm bursting with excitement

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Just Friends Social Dates

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Clearly a wider variety on this,personally chat meet and go with the animal attraction should it be there

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Lucidity also helps.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *interfoxWoman over a year ago

maesteg

Soical dates,Fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both really, done with the right person will make either that bit more exciting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just here for the slow cooker recipes.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I'm just here for the slow cooker recipes. "

Haven't you heard? It's all airfriers now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just here for the slow cooker recipes.

Haven't you heard? It's all airfriers now!"

I don't think I can fit one of those in my cupboard though.

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By *edheadjMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

"You forgot the ones who are here to make it look like they're interested but really just want to push their only fans

You say that likes it's a bad thing..."

Because it is...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dates, socials and naughtiness. Anyone in East Sussex interested, say hi on here. X

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By *KG12Couple over a year ago

Burnley

Nice social that could lead to more. Regular meets with same couple where sex isn't always on the table.

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By *r easy1981Man over a year ago

leeds

Love a bit of build up

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

"Im mainly here to be here incase im needed but other than that i need inspiration to act on impulse one or two have been close but either calenders or my head gets in the way "

It’s that big helmet that gets in the way but I like a big helmet

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

...the female version of myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Initially it was to find a regular FB but hoo-boy did that get spectacularly get shot down in flames.

Now I'm not too sure what I'm looking for and just seeing what happens

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

An escapism from the norm, the day to day crap - so in short I’m seeking fun, fuck all drama, friendship and frolics with those who I connect with, who I can explore different sides of my sexual curiosities with and who I can socially be around, all about a balance and doing what makes me happy xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...the female version of myself "

I have the moves...