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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In a none swinging, childless relationship of less than 5 years how much sex is a reasonable amount to expect?
Me and an ex couldn’t even manage once a week. If we did have more it was always me making the effort and would often not include foreplay or at least not to me and rarely include oral. There was also rarely kissing and other affection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no normal amount for any relationship. We are all different so making comparisons isn't helpful. We just enjoy each other when we can, life can get in the way sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long is a piece of string? It varies from couple to couple. What is reasonable is dictated by the couple together "
Or by the woman in this case ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Birthdays and anniversary and maybe Xmas when you are d*unk (not as a surprise or anything)
Or everyday because you simply look athen and see they are the most sexiest creature your eyes have laid eyes on, all you want to do is sexually please her in the hope she will feel what she makes you feel.
But she’s probably had a long day, so try again tomorrow. |
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"Birthdays and anniversary and maybe Xmas when you are d*unk (not as a surprise or anything)
Or everyday because you simply look athen and see they are the most sexiest creature your eyes have laid eyes on, all you want to do is sexually please her in the hope she will feel what she makes you feel.
But she’s probably had a long day, so try again tomorrow. "
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"How long is a piece of string? It varies from couple to couple. What is reasonable is dictated by the couple together
Or by the woman in this case ??"
As a couple these things should be discussed together to find if you are compatible or not. |
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Sounds like my ex
18 years with her
Sex about 6 times a year and shockingly boring
No matter how much effort i put in
Luckily some other poor guy has to wake up next to her now. Im living my best life with my fiancée whos more mojo than me |
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I’m curious have you ever sat down and spoken with her about the lack of sex and affection between you and how it’s making you feel?
It’s entirely possible that she may not realise it’s even a problem? Which I would say is fairly common in a lot of non kink relationships |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m curious have you ever sat down and spoken with her about the lack of sex and affection between you and how it’s making you feel?
It’s entirely possible that she may not realise it’s even a problem? Which I would say is fairly common in a lot of non kink relationships"
Well I know in mine I most certainly did have many Frank and basically pointless conversations on the subject. Turned out she was shagging anything else that moved which is also fairly common in alot of non kink relationships 
Bad bitch had the same issue with her ex husband as well. |
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