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over a year ago
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If you’re talking extra-marital affairs (as I guess you are), then as don’t know the reasons or journey the individuals have been through to decide to have an affair or the completeness and happiness of their relationship on the non-sexual side otherwise etc etc, then it’s impossible to form one generic view I think.
Others will jump to a definitive conclusion: everyone who has one is a c*nt.
What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private   |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private "
Thats clique bait  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re talking extra-marital affairs (as I guess you are), then as don’t know the reasons or journey the individuals have been through to decide to have an affair or the completeness and happiness of their relationship on the non-sexual side otherwise etc etc, then it’s impossible to form one generic view I think.
Others will jump to a definitive conclusion: everyone who has one is a c*nt.
What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last three women I have been with were married. I know one had told her husband and he knew about me and it was officially open. The other two said they were in open marriages, but honestly I have no way of knowing if that’s true. And one from a few years before that was definitely cheating but made sure I knew it was just sex and that she was otherwise happy with him.
So given that I can’t always know the details on the other end, my view is that whatever happens is staying discretely between us, and if she wants to have fun with me, that’s something we share privately. I’m not going to go and cause her trouble, and I’ll enjoy it for what it is until a time comes where other conversations need to happen if anything changes. But I’d never disrupt her home life as I know I’m the other man, and I’m not going to try to change the rules of how we got playing by changing that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My view is that these things are rarely as black and white as some people seem to think "
Thus is true
Don’t jump to conclusions
I don’t judge
Never will
Each to there own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ? "
We decided to have extra-marital sex together to remove the interest. I guess lots of us on here did that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is a very judgemental place.
We don't know other peoples stories. Lets keep it simple and have fun  "
This. And these same people wouldn’t want to be judged by others for being members of a swinging community lol . |
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"Fab is a very judgemental place.
We don't know other peoples stories. Lets keep it simple and have fun
This. And these same people wouldn’t want to be judged by others for being members of a swinging community lol ."
Fun,fun, despair.
Everything has a price! |
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"An affair is usually with someone you care about, in my opinion. There’s feelings, romance and intimacy.
Being on here isn’t quite the same. I don’t judge and I have met many attached guys. "
Not always, sometimes it’s just uncomplicated sex. |
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