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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is
Genuinely being desired for the person you are - rather than a photo on a site
Anyone can be desired for the latter - Steve , you are desired because you’re cute , YES, but also because you’re damn lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it  the word deep reminds me of this as for your question
Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy |
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Tits and pussy
Blokes need a profile that looks like it could be read out by David Attenborough or Stephen Fry, to entertain the nation…to maybe garner the occasional interest.
Women- don’t even need a picture or text and they’ll be knee deep in enquiring cock shots.
So get yourself off to the nearest gender reassignment clinic and you’ll be beating off the offers with a shitty stick! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi op.
I don’t think there’s one definitive answer - but I think part of it is definitely ‘knowing your worth’.
I’ve only cottoned on to this very recently. "
Hello
Makes me think of a headie one bar.
‘it’s true when these [redacted] say know your worth’ |
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"i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it the word deep reminds me of this as for your question
Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy "
Lifeguards are very desirable to someone who can't swim and find themselves in deep water. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
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"Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
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Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure. "
I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful.  |
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"Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure.
I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful. "
Ok now I've googled  . He doesn't fit my idea of desirable or beautiful
The most physically beautiful man I have ever seen was in Asda by Brighton Marina. Everyone, literally every damn one, turned their head. |
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"Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
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And are they the same for those who are blind or deaf or have other sensory challenges? |
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
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"Desirable in what way OP? A lustful desirability? Someone you want to have children with? Someone who will give you stability?"
Nah, none of that, just to rack up the highest body count feasible.
All about getting as much hot ass as possible... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi op.
I don’t think there’s one definitive answer - but I think part of it is definitely ‘knowing your worth’.
I’ve only cottoned on to this very recently. "
I completely agree
This, and being comfortable in your own skin, although that can be tough sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i remember going for a job as a life guard and they thu a brick i had to save in this dark depth pool it hurt my ears but i got it the word deep reminds me of this as for your question
Its a combination of self belief and confidence with a dash of comedy
Lifeguards are very desirable to someone who can't swim and find themselves in deep water. "
and dont forget bricks im sure it was grateful too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting Q isn’t it?
Everyone finds different things attractive, influenced by many things but of course I think there are some universally attractive or desirable people. I wonder what qualities they posses?
Power whether it be by dint of wealth, birth, fame or politics. Charisma. Some indefinable sexual allure.
I now understand why A$AP Rocky is so beautiful.
Ok now I've googled . He doesn't fit my idea of desirable or beautiful
The most physically beautiful man I have ever seen was in Asda by Brighton Marina. Everyone, literally every damn one, turned their head. "
Doubt he was more attractive than A$AP but fair play
Amongst people I interact with ASAP, Anthony Joshua, Damson Idris, Dave, Jack Harlow and Ruben Loftus Cheek are like everyone’s type. I’m trying to be like them in life.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you."
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them. "
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take your finger, slowly and seductively press those buttons..
On your phone and order me chinese food."
I text your girlfriend late at night
But my names saved as Chinese takeaway- Krept
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng "
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet? "
This isn’t about me this time tbf. Just wondering what makes people that are like objectively super desirable, desirable? You know? Is it just looks? Is it something else? Can you become it or are you just it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet? "
But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about |
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?
This isn’t about me this time tbf. Just wondering what makes people that are like objectively super desirable, desirable? You know? Is it just looks? Is it something else? Can you become it or are you just it? "
General desirability I don't think there's an equation to it. Johnny Depp isn't stereotypical desirable but is. Wrestlers who have amazing physiques aren't always that desirable. I think as humans we like having something in common with others so will pick out the celebrity that is most similar to who we find attractive. So like in boy bands you'll have those who liked mark Owen Vs Ribbie Williams.
I can think someone is hot but I can't desire them without knowing them. So maybe I'm not beat qualified to answer this question |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?
But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about "
Then you are destined to fail.
You can be liked, tolerated or accepted by many (and hated or disliked by many more), but you will only ever be desired by a few.
The other thing to realise is that you have to find happiness in yourself. If you believe that by being desired by everyone it will bring you happiness in your life you are in for a rude awakening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By not trying to be desirable to the many faces on the internet who really don’t give a fuck about you.
Nobody cares about what strangers on the internet think of them.
Most of the people on the internet don’t like me but I still think I’m peng
That's kinda the thing though OP. Do you want want to appeal the majority or find the few that think you are the most desirable person on the planet?
But to answer this, I want to be desired by everyone. Or almost everyone. One less thing to be anxious about
Then you are destined to fail.
You can be liked, tolerated or accepted by many (and hated or disliked by many more), but you will only ever be desired by a few.
The other thing to realise is that you have to find happiness in yourself. If you believe that by being desired by everyone it will bring you happiness in your life you are in for a rude awakening."
I hear you. I was kidding. I am happy with how desirable I am. It’s working for me so far in life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To become more desirable you have to become more attractive and you can do this by raising your vibration. #simples"
This is genuinely the most sense anyone on this thread has made.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To become more desirable you have to become more attractive and you can do this by raising your vibration. #simples
This is genuinely the most sense anyone on this thread has made. "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
P"
Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
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Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor "
You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P
Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P
P |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
P
Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor
You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P
Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P
P"
Or… I could borrow C’s bottle  |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
P
Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor
You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P
Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P
P
Or… I could borrow C’s bottle "
You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
P
Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor
You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P
Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P
P
Or… I could borrow C’s bottle
You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd
P"
That’s hilarious sounds like that famous meme of the man turning to look at the woman and his gf is disgusted love that meme |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lynx Africa.
Mr TMN
Will it get me into one of your spontaneous gangbangs you advertise on your status
Yes. Spray at the door and entry will be granted.
Mr TMN "
Oh nice |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Dior Sauvage or to really crank it up a notch Eau Sauvage
P
Fuck me, P, you think I’m rich? Hasn’t C told you how much I hate capitalism? It’s because I’m poor
You think we're rich? Haha C had a voucher from Boots for something like £15 off and ended up with a prepaid card or something to that effect. He either paid about a fiver for it or had a fiver left in the end :P
Ask for it for Xmas, it's not far off ;P
P
Or… I could borrow C’s bottle
You get one spray lmao. I couldn't believe it the other day, he wasn't wearing it in London but someone walked past wearing it and I almost gave myself whiplash turning towards it. Never realised how much I rely on it to identify him in a crowd
P
That’s hilarious sounds like that famous meme of the man turning to look at the woman and his gf is disgusted love that meme "
Thankfully C just laughed at me, I didn't even see the other guy but my nose was hooked. But yeah you don't really need to worry about it regardless.
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"Not sure but multi millionaires seem to have found a way
"so Debbie, what was that it that first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?" "
What would multi millionaire, world famous, Mick Hucknall be if he wasnt the lead singer of Simply Red?.
Single, for starters |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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You my lovely take time for yourself, love ad nurture yourself until you heal and then you’ll remember the confidence you have in yourself and it will shore brightly for others to be a beacon for.
You will get there SG |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"#deep. "
To whom?
Do you wish to be desirable to many?
Or to someone in particular?
Just be you. At least you’ll then be genuine and not some sort of parody of someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You my lovely take time for yourself, love ad nurture yourself until you heal and then you’ll remember the confidence you have in yourself and it will shore brightly for others to be a beacon for.
You will get there SG "
You’re so special |
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