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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you’re being too keen?
Where’s the line between interested and pest?
Do you like an eager beaver or are they just annoying and off putting?
Open to all I am sure it perhaps works both ways?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they like you and want you. You will sure know about it.
Silence can mean many things.many,many options,shite test.
The list goes on. I think we most know deep down whats what.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
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Like the purple colour taste.  |
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"When you’re being too keen?
Where’s the line between interested and pest?
Do you like an eager beaver or are they just annoying and off putting?
Open to all I am sure it perhaps works both ways? "
Bear in mind that a lot of women get lots of messages. I get anywhere from 100 on a slow day to over 500 if I've posted a photo that people like more than the others.
I have to delete my read mail often, even if I'm chatting to the person, because when they reply, the chat history will reappear. Its a shame you can't sort the messages, or have folders you can put messages in to keep or categorise as a yes, no or maybe.
I also read messages and leave them to reply to later once I've finished getting rid of the rude, aggressive, demanding, vague or downright ridiculous messages from other people.
Also, I lose messages fast. I could have been speaking to someone last night but when I wake up there's 100 messages from others since, which pushes the conversation off the page and makes it harder to find.
Just my perspective, as far as I'm concerned, I would say "no thank you" if I wasn't interested. If my "no thank you" is ignored or argued with, I block. Some people go straight to the block without any message at all if the message they've sent me is ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
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Haha that must be some message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message "
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared "
You hiding them in the cellar? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you’re being too keen?
Where’s the line between interested and pest?
Do you like an eager beaver or are they just annoying and off putting?
Open to all I am sure it perhaps works both ways?
Bear in mind that a lot of women get lots of messages. I get anywhere from 100 on a slow day to over 500 if I've posted a photo that people like more than the others.
I have to delete my read mail often, even if I'm chatting to the person, because when they reply, the chat history will reappear. Its a shame you can't sort the messages, or have folders you can put messages in to keep or categorise as a yes, no or maybe.
I also read messages and leave them to reply to later once I've finished getting rid of the rude, aggressive, demanding, vague or downright ridiculous messages from other people.
Also, I lose messages fast. I could have been speaking to someone last night but when I wake up there's 100 messages from others since, which pushes the conversation off the page and makes it harder to find.
Just my perspective, as far as I'm concerned, I would say "no thank you" if I wasn't interested. If my "no thank you" is ignored or argued with, I block. Some people go straight to the block without any message at all if the message they've sent me is ridiculous. "
Good use of the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar? "
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar?
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear "
This is what I mean…. Too keen? Not keen enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too keen will be different for different people won't it? For me if someone keeps pushing to meet or for a friend invite - thats too keen. When I've already said I don't rush into either. If someone is still chatting and engaging with you - all good IMO. If they're straddling you...you're on your own!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar?
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear
This is what I mean…. Too keen? Not keen enough? "
That depends on who I talk to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too keen will be different for different people won't it? For me if someone keeps pushing to meet or for a friend invite - thats too keen. When I've already said I don't rush into either. If someone is still chatting and engaging with you - all good IMO. If they're straddling you...you're on your own! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too keen will be different for different people won't it? For me if someone keeps pushing to meet or for a friend invite - thats too keen. When I've already said I don't rush into either. If someone is still chatting and engaging with you - all good IMO. If they're straddling you...you're on your own! "
It’s why I asked… I line differing opinions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar?
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear
This is what I mean…. Too keen? Not keen enough?
That depends on who I talk to "
Well…lucky are the ones being straddled haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar?
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear
This is what I mean…. Too keen? Not keen enough?
That depends on who I talk to
Well…lucky are the ones being straddled haha "
Metaphorically |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell
I think I play it too cool sometimes … then this minx takes over and I’m literally straddling them in my messages
Haha that must be some message
I’d say you could ask them … but they’ve disappeared
You hiding them in the cellar?
Gosh no …. They just seem to disappear
This is what I mean…. Too keen? Not keen enough?
That depends on who I talk to
Well…lucky are the ones being straddled haha
Metaphorically "
Yes of course …. But still the interest |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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Its hard on here. Normally wait for me to respond - if I'm going to, one prompt is enough in case I've forgotten or they've been lost in a barrage.
I'm utterly useless messaging and mainly only on here as a boredom buster. However, when I'm utterly direct and suggest a meet soon, most guys run a mile making me think many are just passing time with no genuine intentions. In the cases where I message random ppl and suggest a meet I'm often clearly not their type. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its hard on here. Normally wait for me to respond - if I'm going to, one prompt is enough in case I've forgotten or they've been lost in a barrage.
I'm utterly useless messaging and mainly only on here as a boredom buster. However, when I'm utterly direct and suggest a meet soon, most guys run a mile making me think many are just passing time with no genuine intentions. In the cases where I message random ppl and suggest a meet I'm often clearly not their type. "
Fab world is a toughy to figure out right? Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its hard on here. Normally wait for me to respond - if I'm going to, one prompt is enough in case I've forgotten or they've been lost in a barrage.
I'm utterly useless messaging and mainly only on here as a boredom buster. However, when I'm utterly direct and suggest a meet soon, most guys run a mile making me think many are just passing time with no genuine intentions. In the cases where I message random ppl and suggest a meet I'm often clearly not their type.
Fab world is a toughy to figure out right? Ha"
Seems the world at large. A new age trend. The wind has crossed over and touched fab too.
All to do with mindsets confidence,& intentions. |
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"If you message someone and they don't reply. Leave it at that...never send a second message."
I agree with this on first messages. If it's read or deleted without reply, that's a polite "thanks but no thanks". No reply's a reply and all that.
But, for me, much less obvious when you know someone a bit and chatting for a while (on here or elsewhere). I still err on the side of 'less is more' as I don't want to bombard anyone, but guess I might come across as disinterested to those who like lots of messages!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Start as you mean to go on.
Don't bombard with texts/messages, then, when you've got your dick wet, only send one text when you wake up horny.
She'll know. "
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