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I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this |
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"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this "
In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .
Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not. |
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"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this
In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .
Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."
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"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this
In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .
Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."
Maybe so but she couldn’t wait to get her mouth round my cock x |
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Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"
For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.
Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely. |
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"Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"
For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.
Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely."
You do agree though you wouldn’t meet without being attracted to that person though x |
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"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this
In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .
Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."
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If someone tells me I can’t kiss them before we meet, I don’t think we are going to get along very well sexually.
I love a good smooch when I fancy someone  |
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"If I don't like them enough to let them stick their tongue in my mouth, then they definitely aren't sticking their dick anywhere."
This would be too easy.
But that’s how I see. Each to their own how they meet, but it’s definitely couples who might feel that kissing is something is something they’d like to keep for themselves.
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This is why it’s important to talk about these things before you take things further so if kissing is essential to you then you can choose not to meet them.
We have no issue with kissing but I can understand couples that choose not to. |
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We cancelled a meet because of this, we had planned the time, hotel etc, then we received a message saying that they were into most things but kissing was their special thing only between them, which we totally respect but it just wouldn't have felt right for us. |
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I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.
Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. |
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Kissing is very intimate, more so than actual sex at times. Depends on the couple and what their boundaries are I suppose. If it's important, best to find out before the meet. As with any meets on here, we probably all have our no go areas. |
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"Kissing is essential! How does one ‘get going’ without a snog?"
actually really easily. I don't now have a completely no kissing rule but it's still very rare I do. To be fair most meets have not really noticed it's absence.
I rarely kiss guys I meet at all... couples it's about 50/50. Reasons are my own and do well with people wanting repeat meets so |
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I've met one person who didn't say he wouldn't kiss in advance and I've never do it again. Too detached for me.
I can totally understand that some people wish to distance themselves a little - kissing is so intimate. |
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"No kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry...
Got to have the cherry, its what makes it sexy..
I pick the cherry off and bin it "
This made me giggle  |
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"Couple here. We always think to ourselves "why do you want to?"
For me kissing is more intimate than sex and is reserved for the one I love. Of course sex is better with someone you love but also sex is for fun and pleasure, especially if others are involved and again some things are reserved.
Kissing for us is a more loving display of affection most definitely.
You do agree though you wouldn’t meet without being attracted to that person though x"
Would never meet anyone I wasn't attracted to. |
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When we started out we said no kissing. We were still trying to work out what our boundaries were and were still quite new as a couple. Kissing is intimate and we weren't prepared to let someone in that close.
We never had a problem with guys even trying, once I was on all fours and they had a choice of end kissing didn't seem to be what they wanted anyway.
We have evolved a lot since then and are confident in both us and our desires and kissing has become a big part of what we want . Some meets are still very much just lust and sex and kissing isn't in the equation but others are more sensual and kissing is needed. When either of us meet alone kissing is actually very important. It's my biggest turn on  |
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"I've met one person who didn't say he wouldn't kiss in advance and I've never do it again. Too detached for me.
I can totally understand that some people wish to distance themselves a little - kissing is so intimate. "
Mine is nothing to do with distancing myself from meets, just a preference like oral or anal. I do on occasion with people I know well... but otherwise it makes me feel very awkward and even uneasy |
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"Yea seems odd but takes away the likelihood of romance starting so can see why! "
does it... I don't really kiss guys..yet have been told I couldn't fake the passion and feelings when I've gone 121... had way to many think that because I was how I was... that there could be more.... and I certainly didn't kiss them. Hence I now don't do 121 |
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"If kissing isnt an option then I’m not interested in a meet"
You wouldn’t change your tune if a hot 18-99 year old wanted you to fuck her right now?
No kissing - no meet seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose to me  |
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"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.
Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch."
probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x |
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"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.
Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x"
Not what you said in my inbox  |
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We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table. |
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I could definitely meet without kissing, and in fact certain types of meet work well without it (I mean my experience isn't exactly extensive but have a specific set of scenarios in mind).
It's more, I would always prefer it as I enjoy the passionate kissing side of things. Good reasons for regular visits to the dentist too. |
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"We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table. "
I prefer Max to Mark |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?  "
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along  |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along "
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet "
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you |
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"I have met a few couples now and had some fantastic fun but none of them let me kiss the female x I know this is intimate but just seems strange to me that nothing else was off limits x
Maybe a lot of couples like this
In my experience it depends on the situation of the meet, is it a sensual 3 sum or a bull meeting a wife and her cuck or a hot wife meet. Or part of the gangbang. And of course there might be a natural preference .
Some meets the lady literally doesn’t fancy the guy and just endures as it’s too late . I suppose there are a multiple of reasons; rationale and not."
That's a bit worrying 'she endures as its too late'!
Its never too late to stop! |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you "
That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.
God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss. |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you
That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.
God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss. "
Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?
Makes no sense to me but each to their own. |
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"We started with a no kissing rule as Mark felt it was too intimate / personal and wanted to keep some things for us. Max wasn’t comfortable with the wham bam approach though so kissing was soon put back in the table.
I prefer Max to Mark"
This has creased me hahaha |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you "
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you
That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.
God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.
Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?
Makes no sense to me but each to their own."
That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much… |
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you
That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.
God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.
Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?
Makes no sense to me but each to their own.
That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much… "
Not sure what you mean in if the genders were reversed? You mean if a guy said he wanted to kiss and I didn’t? I haven’t been in that situation. I’ve never turned down a guy who I found attractive because he was into something I wasn’t. There’s been a discussion and an agreement to do the things we both enjoyed. I certainly wouldn’t be so black and white about it. There’s always room for discussion in sex as it’s rare to find two people who find each other attractive and are into EXACTLY the same things sexually. |
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Mrs C. won't kiss on meets as she finds it too intimate/close, Mr C. loves a good snow but has a close FWB where kissing doesn't happen with our solo meets as it makes us feel far too much like we're a couple.
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"Ladies and gents who won't meet without kissing, I absolutely respect your preference and would never ask to meet you. We're simply not compatible I accept that . But come on, you'd rather fuck a hole in the fence, wham bam, transactional . Do you think we turn up, penis in vagina and go, really?
If kissing is what people rely on to make rubbish sex great, then I don’t want to meet them either!
If you can’t blow my mind without kissing involved, please move along
I get that people want and need kissing I'm not knocking it.
I just get a bit fed up of being told they by default won't meet me when I haven't asked yet
I find that it is said a lot in the forums but in the reality of my inbox, it’s a very different story so it amuses me.
Particularly when the same guys who have posted here “no kissing - no meet” are in my messages saying it doesn’t matter, I’d still meet you
That’s because people have their laurels but as soon as they see a glimpse of any female attention all laurels go completely out the window. It’s actually quite funny how contradictory some can be.
God honest truth I’ve walked away from a woman in the club once the minute she said to me she doesn’t kiss.
Unless you didn’t find her that attractive anyway, that seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose. You could have had mind blowing sex but for the lack of a few minutes of kissing to kick it off, you passed it up?
Makes no sense to me but each to their own.
That wasn’t the case at all. I did find her attractive but the element of kissing not being part of the equation was a turn off. If that’s me cutting off my nose to spite my face then so be it. Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? I doubt that very much…
Not sure what you mean in if the genders were reversed? You mean if a guy said he wanted to kiss and I didn’t? I haven’t been in that situation. I’ve never turned down a guy who I found attractive because he was into something I wasn’t. There’s been a discussion and an agreement to do the things we both enjoyed. I certainly wouldn’t be so black and white about it. There’s always room for discussion in sex as it’s rare to find two people who find each other attractive and are into EXACTLY the same things sexually. "
Okay, maybe my comment came across a little inflammatory so I apologise if it did, but yes that’s what I meant. It’s just I prefer to not to partake in sex with someone if they’re not into some of the same things I am because then I’m not going to enjoy myself which is the aim of the game is it not? I’m happy to compromise on certain things but I like sex to be intimate, yes you can be attracted initially to someone aesthetically but for me a good kiss (or shall I say snog), solidifies the sexual attraction in someone so if that element is removed then there’s very little to no appeal. That’s just me personally. |
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"I'd find it very transactional
In what respect?
In that it would not be a natural (for me) way to interact intimately with someone "
The transactional aspect being the negotiation of likes and dislikes? |
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"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.
Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x
Not what you said in my inbox "
if I remember I said something completely different cheeky |
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"If kissing isnt an option then I’m not interested in a meet
You wouldn’t change your tune if a hot 18-99 year old wanted you to fuck her right now?
No kissing - no meet seems like the ultimate cutting off your nose to me "
I wouldnt, even if she looked like Lady Amelia Windsor  kissing is a important part to me  |
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"I have never, ever been turned down for a meet because I won’t kiss them - ever.
Lots say “no kissing, no meet” but it’s funny how that falls to the wayside when it comes to the crunch. probably because your very attractive ! But am a man true to my word and I still wouldn’t meet you x
Not what you said in my inbox if I remember I said something completely different cheeky "
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It is slightly strange when you go down on someone and you haven't even kissed them but not much stranger than having relations of any kind with someone you don't really know.
I think kissing definitely turbo-charges arousal but it's not an absolute prerequisite to a good rogering |
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My wife and I have been in both situations. Watching her with another man without kissing is amazing, but more of just a physicial act with little emotion.
But wen she is with another man and they are kissing passionately too it's like I'm watching them make love.
And watching my wife making love to someone else in front of me is the most erotic thing. She much prefers when kissing is included too. |
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I love kissing, so a meet without it would be very difficult. The initial kiss as the build up, then the deep hard kisses as you fuck,
They are an integral part of sex for me. |
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