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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been that way for awhile. But I'm beginning to bust loose of it.

I wish the same for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes ….. sometimes I do - it’s natural .

If it’s ongoing, I’d say you might need a little chat with the dr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been that way for awhile. But I'm beginning to bust loose of it.

I wish the same for you."

It makes me incredibly happy to hear you’re getting free of it. Honestly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a bit of a wobble this week.

I’ve no idea why, or what to do about it. I just crack on as I’ve always done.

Man hugs coming your way Steven

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes ….. sometimes I do - it’s natural .

If it’s ongoing, I’d say you might need a little chat with the dr. "

Are you alright today? Hope you’ve had a good one.

If it gets bad I recommend dr Google. They’re great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had a bit of a wobble this week.

I’ve no idea why, or what to do about it. I just crack on as I’ve always done.

Man hugs coming your way Steven

Sorry about your wobble! Sending love and hugs back at you!

How was your day today?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes ….. sometimes I do - it’s natural .

If it’s ongoing, I’d say you might need a little chat with the dr.

Are you alright today? Hope you’ve had a good one.

If it gets bad I recommend dr Google. They’re great.

Shut up !! No Google

Yes, I’m ok my lovely

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

Yes I do! I just came out of a recent grey funk. It was tough but I made it.

You got this. You can get through it. We are all here to support you and my in box is a safe space anytime you need it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes ….. sometimes I do - it’s natural .

If it’s ongoing, I’d say you might need a little chat with the dr.

Are you alright today? Hope you’ve had a good one.

If it gets bad I recommend dr Google. They’re great.

Shut up !! No Google

Yes, I’m ok my lovely

Google keeps telling me my depression and anxiety is actually something far worse and a sign I’m dying lol!

Glad you’re ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I do! I just came out of a recent grey funk. It was tough but I made it.

You got this. You can get through it. We are all here to support you and my in box is a safe space anytime you need it.

I’m super glad you came out of it! You’re so strong I love it

I appreciate you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i suffer from feeling inferior.if it kicks in it can stop me meeting. Recently i met a guy and while on the meet he told me that an ex wanted him to fuck her while she filmed it on camera to send to another ex to make him jealous. He agreed to it then told me in detail what they did.i didnt want to hear it to be honest. No woman on a meet wants to hear that,do they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm yeah things don't feel good right now. Lonely, bored, hating work, nothing to look forward to at all. And Covid to the mix too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out."

Man, that’s so real. It really feels like that sometimes.

I think a football session with my boys should whip me into shape.

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

"Yes I do! I just came out of a recent grey funk. It was tough but I made it.

You got this. You can get through it. We are all here to support you and my in box is a safe space anytime you need it.

I’m super glad you came out of it! You’re so strong I love it

I appreciate you

xx"

And I appreciate you my little pickle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything? "

I was born with it. I'm used to it now. Its like putting on a coat when I go out. I can take it off and be me when I get home

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i suffer from feeling inferior.if it kicks in it can stop me meeting. Recently i met a guy and while on the meet he told me that an ex wanted him to fuck her while she filmed it on camera to send to another ex to make him jealous. He agreed to it then told me in detail what they did.i didnt want to hear it to be honest. No woman on a meet wants to hear that,do they?"

Sorry you suffer from that. First of all, you should know you’re amazing! You have to feel that, genuinely!

Also yeah no nobody wants to hear that lol what?! Blimey.

Hope you’re ok today and had a good one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup, the clouds build and bad weather arrives. Sometimes I blame it on aspects of my life and hurry around trying to make things better, or otherwise I curl into a ball under a blanket and hide from the world until it passes.

Then a few days later, everything brightens up again.

It helps when I remember that it is temporary. Everything changes. Its sometimes hard to remember that when in the midsts of it though!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Meh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hmmm yeah things don't feel good right now. Lonely, bored, hating work, nothing to look forward to at all. And Covid to the mix too!

Sorry to hear this pal? I am sending you lots of love

Wanna talk to us all? Tell us about your day if that’ll help? What did you have for dinner?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

I'm usually pretty Teflon-like, but the current combo of my Dad in hospital, work, my Grandad's Estate, it being half term (so childcare issues), is really getting to me. We had a nice day out today but then my Dad phoned in the middle of tea to shout at me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a bit of a wobble this week.

I’ve no idea why, or what to do about it. I just crack on as I’ve always done.

Man hugs coming your way Steven

Sorry about your wobble! Sending love and hugs back at you!

How was your day today? "

I’m good today my friend.

Bless you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I do! I just came out of a recent grey funk. It was tough but I made it.

You got this. You can get through it. We are all here to support you and my in box is a safe space anytime you need it.

I’m super glad you came out of it! You’re so strong I love it

I appreciate you

And I appreciate you my little pickle

I don’t deserve you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

I was born with it. I'm used to it now. Its like putting on a coat when I go out. I can take it off and be me when I get home

Missy x"

Makes me think of the Sociologist Erving Goffman. His work is great. It’s a tough old world to navigate isn’t it?

Also, Missy, how’re you today? Had a good one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out.

Man, that’s so real. It really feels like that sometimes.

I think a football session with my boys should whip me into shape.

For some reason time with the boys makes the world of difference. Like my mood for the days/week following is completely different.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Shit day today.

Shafted at work which has in turn screwed a colleague. Being away means I see less of my daughter. There's people at work that have had more time off and done less work but muggins here is the one away right now and not them.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry you suffer from that. First of all, you should know you’re amazing! You have to feel that, genuinely!

Also yeah no nobody wants to hear that lol what?! Blimey.

Hope you’re ok today and had a good one? "
thank you and yes am good.i hope you are too? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yup, the clouds build and bad weather arrives. Sometimes I blame it on aspects of my life and hurry around trying to make things better, or otherwise I curl into a ball under a blanket and hide from the world until it passes.

Then a few days later, everything brightens up again.

It helps when I remember that it is temporary. Everything changes. Its sometimes hard to remember that when in the midsts of it though!

It’s always hard to remind yourself that it won’t last forever. But it doesn’t does it? Some holes are months, years even, long though and they’re tough to get through.

Hope you’ve had a good day?

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything? "

Can't say I do

I'm okay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmm yeah things don't feel good right now. Lonely, bored, hating work, nothing to look forward to at all. And Covid to the mix too!

Sorry to hear this pal? I am sending you lots of love

Wanna talk to us all? Tell us about your day if that’ll help? What did you have for dinner?

Just watched the Test match all day.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman over a year ago

bolton

Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Meh."

You’re a good egg! Hope you’ve had a good day today? What’s the verdict?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hmmm yeah things don't feel good right now. Lonely, bored, hating work, nothing to look forward to at all. And Covid to the mix too!

Sorry to hear this pal? I am sending you lots of love

Wanna talk to us all? Tell us about your day if that’ll help? What did you have for dinner?

Just watched the Test match all day. "

I didn’t catch it but sounded like a good day of cricket. I’ll check out the highlights later

Any particularly impressive performances for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

I was born with it. I'm used to it now. Its like putting on a coat when I go out. I can take it off and be me when I get home

Missy x

Makes me think of the Sociologist Erving Goffman. His work is great. It’s a tough old world to navigate isn’t it?

Also, Missy, how’re you today? Had a good one?

An average day, a few hours with my Dad (alzheimers) completely wore me out

Seeing my fb Saturday so properly looking forward to that

Trooping made me smile too x

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Meh.

You’re a good egg! Hope you’ve had a good day today? What’s the verdict? "

Been very flat today. Was late for work due to Sunday service buses, urgh. Made a whole quid in tips

and had acid reflux all day. I've seen the bookings for tomorrow and I'm already exhausted just looking at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm usually pretty Teflon-like, but the current combo of my Dad in hospital, work, my Grandad's Estate, it being half term (so childcare issues), is really getting to me. We had a nice day out today but then my Dad phoned in the middle of tea to shout at me."

Life is relentless. It feels like it never gets its foot of your neck. I’m glad you had a good day out though. And Sending lots of love and strength to you and your lovelies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had a bit of a wobble this week.

I’ve no idea why, or what to do about it. I just crack on as I’ve always done.

Man hugs coming your way Steven

Sorry about your wobble! Sending love and hugs back at you!

How was your day today?

I’m good today my friend.

Bless you

Glad to hear it pal. Loving the eyes pic too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out.

Man, that’s so real. It really feels like that sometimes.

I think a football session with my boys should whip me into shape.

For some reason time with the boys makes the world of difference. Like my mood for the days/week following is completely different."

It’s the weirdest thing but I’m so much happier when I see them often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over"

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?"

I am on the wine yes. It's a bank holiday afterall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry you suffer from that. First of all, you should know you’re amazing! You have to feel that, genuinely!

Also yeah no nobody wants to hear that lol what?! Blimey.

Hope you’re ok today and had a good one? thank you and yes am good.i hope you are too? xx"

I’m not good, Denise, but thank you for asking. I’m enjoying doing this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?

I am on the wine yes. It's a bank holiday afterall."

I bet your wine is better than mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?

I am on the wine yes. It's a bank holiday afterall.

I bet your wine is better than mine."

It's screw cap, so yes, yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

Can't say I do

I'm okay "

You seem alright. I love that for you.

Hope you’ve had a good day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though "

I’m sorry my love. I know this feeling. It’s like you’re in a room full of people but feeling alone?

Sending love

What are you listening to right now?

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to? "

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman over a year ago

North West

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything? "

I'm usually pretty good thanks Steve. I've worked hard to understand myself.

Sending you love & positivity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?

I am on the wine yes. It's a bank holiday afterall.

I bet your wine is better than mine.

It's screw cap, so yes, yes it is. "

Mines a Spanish Merlot with a cork. It tastes like mahogany.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

I was born with it. I'm used to it now. Its like putting on a coat when I go out. I can take it off and be me when I get home

Missy x

Makes me think of the Sociologist Erving Goffman. His work is great. It’s a tough old world to navigate isn’t it?

Also, Missy, how’re you today? Had a good one?

An average day, a few hours with my Dad (alzheimers) completely wore me out

Seeing my fb Saturday so properly looking forward to that

Trooping made me smile too x"

Bless you. Sounds like a good but tiring day. Hopefully the days to come are less tiring or tiring in a different way if you know what I mean.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Yep.

I'm autistic and I think some of the challenges that raises, along with the depression, kinda create a vicious cycle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out.

Man, that’s so real. It really feels like that sometimes.

I think a football session with my boys should whip me into shape.

For some reason time with the boys makes the world of difference. Like my mood for the days/week following is completely different.

It’s the weirdest thing but I’m so much happier when I see them often. "

I’m exactly the same. We’re all grown so don’t see each other as much but when we do it’s like we’ve never been apart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Meh.

You’re a good egg! Hope you’ve had a good day today? What’s the verdict?

Been very flat today. Was late for work due to Sunday service buses, urgh. Made a whole quid in tips

and had acid reflux all day. I've seen the bookings for tomorrow and I'm already exhausted just looking at them

Bloody hell that sounds like a day. Hugs

Spend your quid on a bag skittles! It’ll cheer you up

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By *iromancergirl1Woman over a year ago

bolton

"Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though

I’m sorry my love. I know this feeling. It’s like you’re in a room full of people but feeling alone?

Sending love

What are you listening to right now? "
i can’t help but feel by surfaces

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse."

Been offshore myself recently - Abu Dhabi - fucking awful, so I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That last month or so I feel like I have. Happy on the outside but still sad on the inside.

That’s some real shit. I hear that.

How was today though? You on ze wine?

I am on the wine yes. It's a bank holiday afterall."

Exactly. Wine is good. Hope you enjoy it

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Meh.

You’re a good egg! Hope you’ve had a good day today? What’s the verdict?

Been very flat today. Was late for work due to Sunday service buses, urgh. Made a whole quid in tips

and had acid reflux all day. I've seen the bookings for tomorrow and I'm already exhausted just looking at them

Bloody hell that sounds like a day. Hugs

Spend your quid on a bag skittles! It’ll cheer you up

Taste the rainbow.

You've just reminded me I have a blue jolly rancher in my trouser arse pocket. Blue tongue time.

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

local, but not too local

Forgot my tablets this morning like a chump, tomorrow will be better.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse."

It's one of the reasons Mr KC got out of offshore work. Too many people accidentally missing flights and keeping him off for 4, 5, 6 weeks at a time, even if he'd booked annual leave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse."

I hope it doesn’t pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like there’s this grey cloud of sadness over you all the time and even when things are good, it’s just round the corner?

Same.

Anyway- Tell me wagwarn. What are you sayin? Fancy a chat? About anything? About everything?

I'm usually pretty good thanks Steve. I've worked hard to understand myself.

Sending you love & positivity. "

I love that for you! Hope you’ve had a good day?

Thanks for the love and positivity. Appreciate you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yep.

I'm autistic and I think some of the challenges that raises, along with the depression, kinda create a vicious cycle. "

Ah I’m sorry about the cyclical nature of it. I hear you.

How was today though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have my moments. I have everything a man could want but sometimes I just feel like there should be more to life.

I’m a just get on with it type so I usually just push myself harder in the gym or go meet up with friends and that sorts me out.

Man, that’s so real. It really feels like that sometimes.

I think a football session with my boys should whip me into shape.

For some reason time with the boys makes the world of difference. Like my mood for the days/week following is completely different.

It’s the weirdest thing but I’m so much happier when I see them often.

I’m exactly the same. We’re all grown so don’t see each other as much but when we do it’s like we’ve never been apart."

Basically, the boys can cure anything

especially drinks with the boys

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse.

It's one of the reasons Mr KC got out of offshore work. Too many people accidentally missing flights and keeping him off for 4, 5, 6 weeks at a time, even if he'd booked annual leave. "

It's just stupid busy right now. Compounded by the loss of experience due to covid. Those of us that can do specific jobs are being shafted all because of shortsighted middle management.

Can't win

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though

I’m sorry my love. I know this feeling. It’s like you’re in a room full of people but feeling alone?

Sending love

What are you listening to right now? i can’t help but feel by surfaces

I’m listening to a Led Zeppelin playlist but queuing this song

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Meh.

You’re a good egg! Hope you’ve had a good day today? What’s the verdict?

Been very flat today. Was late for work due to Sunday service buses, urgh. Made a whole quid in tips

and had acid reflux all day. I've seen the bookings for tomorrow and I'm already exhausted just looking at them

Bloody hell that sounds like a day. Hugs

Spend your quid on a bag skittles! It’ll cheer you up

Taste the rainbow.

You've just reminded me I have a blue jolly rancher in my trouser arse pocket. Blue tongue time."

Boom! Go and enjoy that bad boy! I’m well happy for you

tomorrow is definitely gonna be a better day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Forgot my tablets this morning like a chump, tomorrow will be better. "

Was it an ok day though at least? Tomorrow will be better for sure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse.

It's one of the reasons Mr KC got out of offshore work. Too many people accidentally missing flights and keeping him off for 4, 5, 6 weeks at a time, even if he'd booked annual leave.

It's just stupid busy right now. Compounded by the loss of experience due to covid. Those of us that can do specific jobs are being shafted all because of shortsighted middle management.

Can't win"

I nearly had to marry a cardboard cutout of him, because it didn't look like he'd get out of Israel in time

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse.

It's one of the reasons Mr KC got out of offshore work. Too many people accidentally missing flights and keeping him off for 4, 5, 6 weeks at a time, even if he'd booked annual leave.

It's just stupid busy right now. Compounded by the loss of experience due to covid. Those of us that can do specific jobs are being shafted all because of shortsighted middle management.

Can't win

I nearly had to marry a cardboard cutout of him, because it didn't look like he'd get out of Israel in time

Israel, the only place harder to get out of than get in

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm very ok, with my baby at his uni, then fetching him home for the summer. Ask me again in a couple of weeks how I am...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Shit day today.

I'm normally level and realistic but for some reason today has really bugged me.

Rant over

Hope you feel better after that

Sounds like it’s tough. I don’t have the answers so I’m sorry for that. But tomorrow and the weekend will be better I hope? What you up to?

Not really. And it's not likely to get any better either.

I'm offshore, sat in the middle of nowhere. Will be here for the next 10 days or so, so things can only get worse.

It's one of the reasons Mr KC got out of offshore work. Too many people accidentally missing flights and keeping him off for 4, 5, 6 weeks at a time, even if he'd booked annual leave.

It's just stupid busy right now. Compounded by the loss of experience due to covid. Those of us that can do specific jobs are being shafted all because of shortsighted middle management.

Can't win

I nearly had to marry a cardboard cutout of him, because it didn't look like he'd get out of Israel in time

Israel, the only place harder to get out of than get in

It's even harder when you're on a gas rig in the Med

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

Pickle, sending you a big hug. Here if you want to talk. Seriously, no gifs, a listening ear and space to reflect. Love you dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm very ok, with my baby at his uni, then fetching him home for the summer. Ask me again in a couple of weeks how I am...

I won’t forget to ask you.

Hope he’s had a good year so far! And if he’s got exams hope they go well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pickle, sending you a big hug. Here if you want to talk. Seriously, no gifs, a listening ear and space to reflect. Love you dude."

Estella, I appreciate you a great deal! I’m not gonna dump because it’s all heavy but still

How’re you? You still away on holibobs? How was your day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel like that every day but I put on a brave face when out and at work

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I feel like that every day but I put on a brave face when out and at work

It’s exhausting isn’t it?

How was today? Was it a decent day?

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"Pickle, sending you a big hug. Here if you want to talk. Seriously, no gifs, a listening ear and space to reflect. Love you dude.

Estella, I appreciate you a great deal! I’m not gonna dump because it’s all heavy but still

How’re you? You still away on holibobs? How was your day? "

The offer stands. I can deal with heavy if it makes you lighter, but also respect boundaries of a no. X

No more hollibob, back home and currently laid up with a bad back but I’m still smiling and doing ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I feel like that every day but I put on a brave face when out and at work

It’s exhausting isn’t it?

How was today? Was it a decent day? "

50/50. Was working it but got away at half three and did a bit of shopping so not too bad I guess x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep its been a long time since iv not had a little ache in my gut but i use it to fuel me now to be the best i can be for when im needed to be a superhero happiness eludes me but im capable of fleeting joy and that's enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pickle, sending you a big hug. Here if you want to talk. Seriously, no gifs, a listening ear and space to reflect. Love you dude.

Estella, I appreciate you a great deal! I’m not gonna dump because it’s all heavy but still

How’re you? You still away on holibobs? How was your day?

The offer stands. I can deal with heavy if it makes you lighter, but also respect boundaries of a no. X

No more hollibob, back home and currently laid up with a bad back but I’m still smiling and doing ok.

You’re such a lovely human. I’m glad you’re here

I like your smile. Glad you’re smiling. Hope the back gets better xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I feel like that every day but I put on a brave face when out and at work

It’s exhausting isn’t it?

How was today? Was it a decent day?

50/50. Was working it but got away at half three and did a bit of shopping so not too bad I guess x"

I love shopping. Makes me feel better. Did you treat yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yep its been a long time since iv not had a little ache in my gut but i use it to fuel me now to be the best i can be for when im needed to be a superhero happiness eludes me but im capable of fleeting joy and that's enough"

What’s your superhero name?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been that way for awhile. But I'm beginning to bust loose of it.

I wish the same for you."

I'm glad you're seeing the light at the end of the tunnel

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By *iromancergirl1Woman over a year ago

bolton

"Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though

I’m sorry my love. I know this feeling. It’s like you’re in a room full of people but feeling alone?

Sending love

What are you listening to right now? i can’t help but feel by surfaces

I’m listening to a Led Zeppelin playlist but queuing this song

"
can’t beat a bit of led zep

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I’m in a bit of a funk atm feeling like the lonlyest person in a room full of people I know it will pass though

I’m sorry my love. I know this feeling. It’s like you’re in a room full of people but feeling alone?

Sending love

What are you listening to right now? i can’t help but feel by surfaces

I’m listening to a Led Zeppelin playlist but queuing this song

can’t beat a bit of led zep"

I’ve woken up playing it too

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By *hinstrapMan over a year ago

Barnsley

Everyday is a new day....ripe to be enjoyed and explored. Seize it and live it the best you can.

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