And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you 
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
Very well said. Sometimes there is some serious toxic posts on this forum, this however is a very nice positive post. I'm fat too and I've had it with people calling me I'm fat, I am what I am it's never stopped me doing things and it certainly hasn't stopped me being a swinger. |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me.
Very well said. Sometimes there is some serious toxic posts on this forum, this however is a very nice positive post. I'm fat too and I've had it with people calling me I'm fat, I am what I am it's never stopped me doing things and it certainly hasn't stopped me being a swinger. "
Live your life xx |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me.
Very well said. Sometimes there is some serious toxic posts on this forum, this however is a very nice positive post. I'm fat too and I've had it with people calling me I'm fat, I am what I am it's never stopped me doing things and it certainly hasn't stopped me being a swinger.
Live your life xx "
Amen to that sister x |
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Love this 
I’m fat and I have no problem describing myself as such. When people come into my dms projecting their insecurities onto me telling me to lose weight or join a gym etc it’s just embarrassing!!
One of my favourite poems is ‘I say I am fat he says no you are beautiful, I wonder why I cannot be both’ ever since I read it it changed my life.
Fat people’s existence isn’t political and I wish more people understood that! |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
Maybe you are but your hot also |
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Absolutely spot on. I am fat also. I give my exact weight and height in the first part of my profile to out anyone who's looking for a skinny girl.
My photos are deceptive because I'm not standing next to a "normal" sized person but if I were, I'd look huge next to them.
And I'm perfectly fine with that. I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there is someone for everyone, fat, thin, short or tall.
Love that you own your curves. You're lovely, and anyone who has the audacity to message you saying otherwise isn't worthy  |
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I am also fat! There, I said it!! I wasn’t before i started having to take steroids and autoimmune medication, but thus is life and I’ve actually never been happier than how I am now!
I jumped on the scales a couple of days ago and to my surprise had lost about 1.5stone - something I’ve massively struggled to do in the last 8 years since diagnosis!
Would I like to be slimmer? Yes. But actually, like I said, I’ve never been happier than how I am now and never felt more confident. |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
You're not fat. You have fat. As does everyone in varying proportions.
Why people make an issue out of it is beyond us.
Live your best life. X |
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Exactly being fat isn't the worse thing in the world its mainly just a preference for ppl.
I prefar to be fat than skinny no matter how many ppl call me fat it won't make me change my mind!! The problem is with them not me!!
If you don't like bigger ppl then scroll on and leave them alone...as I would skinny folk!
People's weight shouldn't affect you unless they are sitting on our face simple lol
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"Are you fat ? You might be technically overweight or carrying excess fat , I don’t know!? but you are not ‘fat’ fat is a liquid ! "
I am chunky, I am fat, am overweight and I like weebles. We are harder to push over with a lower centre of gravity and also harder to steal away.
Just do you and try to be happy to be you |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
"Are you fat ? You might be technically overweight or carrying excess fat , I don’t know!? but you are not ‘fat’ fat is a liquid ! "
Fat is also a solid, which can be heated to turn into a liquid, but when it's cooled or cold it goes back to a solid or semi solid state. |
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over a year ago
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As a fat person, I know first hand that you can only lose weight or do whatever achievement you want to do if you’re truly committed .
Nobody should make you feel bad . Only you can make yourself feel bad . Stop caring what others think, they’re not important. Or make them unimportant to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fat. After my last heart attack, the paramedics had to call another crew to help get me down the stairs. I vowed that any future heart attacks I have will take place downstairs. |
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"I'm fat. After my last heart attack, the paramedics had to call another crew to help get me down the stairs. I vowed that any future heart attacks I have will take place downstairs."
A solutions man. I like it. |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
Well that's your choice - we all have choice - I dont choose fat people as partners - if that makes me bad then so be it x |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
People can be such dicks 
But we’ll say this: We’re both bigger people and there were five of us last night So to those who think someone’s size makes them unattractive to everyone - fuck you. They’re just the kind of sad acts who can’t get laid by anybody because of their bad attitude.
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me.
Well that's your choice - we all have choice - I dont choose fat people as partners - if that makes me bad then so be it x"
Who said it makes you bad? Where in my post did I allude to people choosing sexual partners? I think this is you projecting a little lol
As long as you are happy in your choices and respect all others then the work will go on turning. |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me.
Well that's your choice - we all have choice - I dont choose fat people as partners - if that makes me bad then so be it x"
Literally no asked if you choose fat people as partners or not lmao |
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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
Love this!!!  |
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"Love this
I’m fat and I have no problem describing myself as such. When people come into my dms projecting their insecurities onto me telling me to lose weight or join a gym etc it’s just embarrassing!!
One of my favourite poems is ‘I say I am fat he says no you are beautiful, I wonder why I cannot be both’ ever since I read it it changed my life.
Fat people’s existence isn’t political and I wish more people understood that!"
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"Absolutely spot on. I am fat also. I give my exact weight and height in the first part of my profile to out anyone who's looking for a skinny girl.
My photos are deceptive because I'm not standing next to a "normal" sized person but if I were, I'd look huge next to them.
And I'm perfectly fine with that. I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there is someone for everyone, fat, thin, short or tall.
Love that you own your curves. You're lovely, and anyone who has the audacity to message you saying otherwise isn't worthy "
You have always been my cup of tea |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me.
Well that's your choice - we all have choice - I dont choose fat people as partners - if that makes me bad then so be it x"
I think you ought to read the Post again....too much anger in you! |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
By existing we don't promote a behaviour; we only do that through our actions.
OP, through this thread, you are promoting self belief, courage and positivity... Being you is a good thing, not just for yourself but also for others. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Are you fat ? You might be technically overweight or carrying excess fat , I don’t know!? but you are not ‘fat’ fat is a liquid !
Fat is also a solid, which can be heated to turn into a liquid, but when it's cooled or cold it goes back to a solid or semi solid state. "
It can also be vapourised in an air fryer, but it can’t walk around or post on here , unless it’s those Dr Who little fat monsters |
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"This is a very strange thread   "
It’s not, we don’t care who you are or what you are it’s about the human inside of you , if that is gorgeous then so are you |
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"And I exist. Sorry to disappoint some of you
My existing is not me telling you to be fat.
Be who you want to want to be.
Love yourself as you are now. There are lots of people who hate you, don't be one of them.
If you are fat and want to be less fat, do it for you. Don't project your reasonings on to other fat people.
If you are slim and want to put on weight, do it for you.
Don't assume the health and fitness of people you don't know. My Dr and I know exactly what's going on with me and that's all that matters.
I am fat but I am also funny, loving, happy, strong, loved, respected, hard working (most days). I love to sing and craft and laugh and smile.
I am existing. Not promoting. I am me. "
Here here, go you, you're fabulous xx |
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I’m fat too. Again not promoting it, but I’m comfortable in my body (after many years of trying unsuccessfully to change it). We all need to look after our health and well-being, but that’s as much about mental health as it is cholesterol and BMI. I simply wasn’t happy when I was constantly trying to be someone I couldn’t.
People pick partners for all kinds of reasons - and it’s not our job to judge them for it. But I agree with the OP - if we’re not your thing, move on… |
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