Not for me. Instant turn off when someone sends a sixteen page message that sets out exactly what scenario they want to see me in, what they're going to do to me and how I'm going to react.
Instablock here too. |
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I'm not a fan, particularly in an opening message.
If you wouldn't say it to a woman you'd just met in real life then don't use it to open a conversation with me on here.
I appreciate other people may feel differently, but I'm clear in my profile those are the messages I'm most likely to delete without response. |
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over a year ago
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Usually when this happens, it's someone trying to live out their sex novels. I can't imagine any woman would appreciate just being an extra in their fantasy. |
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over a year ago
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"Really explicit messages?
Instablock for me but do they ever work?
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Never had one as a opening message, but im open to offers if anyone wants to test me 
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over a year ago
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I think as a first message it's showing disrespect, the the person who receives it, I always send a message introducing myself, then letting the lady set the tone as to how our messages proceed there after, reading their profile normally gives me an idea as to how a approach a lady |
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If the fifteenth or twentieth message is explicit, I quite like it so long as there has been some build-up. A first explicit message could come from Eva Green or Ava Gardner and it would still turn me off. |
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"If the fifteenth or twentieth message is explicit, I quite like it so long as there has been some build-up. A first explicit message could come from Eva Green or Ava Gardner and it would still turn me off."
Of course, what with Gardner being dead, I would notice. |
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over a year ago
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Very rarely. Usually they make me want to hurl. Occasionally though, when timed correctly and just the right subject matter from the right type of guy they’ve worked  |
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over a year ago
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"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time. "
We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely? |
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over a year ago
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Does nothing for me.
These messages tend to be cut and paste jobs, totally impersonal and about as erotic as reading the phone book (showing my age with that reference lol) |
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over a year ago
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depends on if they’ve bothered to read your profile, match likes/dislikes, given thought to their message and sincerity...
whilst the realms of fantasy are sometimes fun to read I do prefer to keep it real (can do and will do) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From someone I really fancy? Yes
From someone I don’t fancy? No "
 yep, it’s the same criteria that distinguishes someone from flirting or harassing, or being “cheeky” to being a creep |
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"Usually when this happens, it's someone trying to live out their sex novels. I can't imagine any woman would appreciate just being an extra in their fantasy."
Maybe they just want to share given they have read a profile fully |
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over a year ago
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"Really explicit messages?
Instablock for me but do they ever work?
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Some people do like them so they will work for them.
Site is full of sex pics, sex menus, sex reviews. Not surprised they send sex chat. |
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over a year ago
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"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time.
We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely? "
Cut and paste job. Exactly the same each time |
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Hate it! I had an explicit message earlier off this guy & I replied did he think it was right to send a message like & he replied back what did I expect something from 50 shades of grey he’s now blocked! |
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"I had a lengthy Mills & Boone sent 3 times by the the same guy. They were deleted each time.
We’re they the same chapters or the story progresses? You need to know how it ends surely?
Cut and paste job. Exactly the same each time "
Noooo. I thought it was going to be progressive and worth sticking with.  |
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I don't send them back. I just fix them then delete them