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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try to reply where I can. I’ve only ever had one or two guys then respond badly, but that’s what block and report is for. Most have been pretty polite and reasonable about it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Denting someone's ego can make them lash out in various ways. Rejection is taken as a personal attack as all our insecurites get brought to the forefront and people see it as confirmation they aren't good enough. Sometimes you are just the punch bag of the straw that broke the camals back.. just walk away and don't engage in conflict. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block. "
Same goes for women, ive experienced many women getting the hump & firing abuse at me for declining.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block.
Same goes for women, ive experienced many women getting the hump & firing abuse at me for declining. "
I apologised!!! Sheesh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Hey beautiful, love the profile and the sexy pics, was just wondering if you’d like to meet?”
“Hey there, thanks for your message, ah that’s very kind but I’m not looking to meet right now, but have a wonderful weekend.”
“Ah you stupid fat ugly bitch, I never wanted to meet you anyway you fucking whore.”
Why?! Just why?!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block.
Same goes for women, ive experienced many women getting the hump & firing abuse at me for declining.
I apologised!!! Sheesh "
YOU
BROKE
MY
HEART
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never had a nasty return off a guy after I say no.
I’m sure woman and other men may find a different experience, just because of all the other variables. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worst I had was a couple
They asked for a face pic
I sent it and asked for one in return. They refused to send one.
They kept pushing for the meet but I said no as I wouldn't meet without the pic first.
They got abusive and stated calling me a time waster and other not so nice things |
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It does appear that some guys seem to think they've some sort of entitlement because of the site. Some are totally astounded when they're turned down for whatever reason even if they're 200 miles away and states they cannot travel on their profile |
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"“Hey beautiful, love the profile and the sexy pics, was just wondering if you’d like to meet?”
“Hey there, thanks for your message, ah that’s very kind but I’m not looking to meet right now, but have a wonderful weekend.”
“Ah you stupid fat ugly bitch, I never wanted to meet you anyway you fucking whore.”
Why?! Just why?! "
Have you got access to my
Block lists inbox?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi gorgeous, how're you? Love your pics"
"Thank you but not interested. Happy fabbing."
"Stupid cow, I didn't even ask you. Wouldn't want you anyway."
This is quite common.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer to be told thanx but ...... so I can sort things out change things if needed I would reply with a thanx for the advise"
I hate it when ask "but why not...?"
They can't change their height, face, arse, width, marital status, cock size, sexuality..... |
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I appreciate being politely turned down!
It's actually a compliment, when someone has the Patience to read the message you sent, look at your profile, consider(however briefly) your compatability and then take the time to write back to you.
Why on earth would you be rude to someone like that! |
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"I would prefer to be told thanx but ...... so I can sort things out change things if needed I would reply with a thanx for the advise
I hate it when ask "but why not...?"
They can't change their height, face, arse, width, marital status, cock size, sexuality....."
As well, no one is OWED that. (No one is owed anything, actually.) |
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"Being bi I can honestly say women are worse when they get turned down
I’ve had some truly awful responses after a no thanks to women. Never had it with guys "
This I have experienced especially from couples but yeah some female profiles all of a sudden go full on homophobic/trans rant 
I am like shall I pass you some more salt dear for those tears  |
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block. "
Rules of site specify no answer means no. So by ignoring you, or blocking you they are giving you an answer.
As for the hangry or bitchyness, the amount of abuse women get on here, well it’s not nice shouldn’t happen to both sides, but it does. Thicker skin should help. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I would prefer to be told thanx but ...... so I can sort things out change things if needed I would reply with a thanx for the advise
I hate it when ask "but why not...?"
They can't change their height, face, arse, width, marital status, cock size, sexuality....."
Height - heels/platforms
Fave - mask
Arse - pads
Width - spanx/girdle
Maritsl status - plaster over the ring/ring mark
Cock size - strap on/sheathe
Sexuality - lie |
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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? "
No,it doesn't encourage some to be rude
Some just are rude.
Rude. Self entitled.
Arrogant. Presumptuous.
Any number of adverse adjectives,I just find their attitude laughable.
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"If you politely turn someone down, do you think it encourages them to be rude? Usually i just ignore or ignore and block, but when I politely decline, i always seem to get the hangry gehay bitchyness and block. "
Surely just reaffirms your decision to turn them down? |
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