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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very interested to know. I've had a lot of guys on here who say they are straight looking for couples or females, so I'm intrigued why I'm getting messages. I'm not complaining though. Mmm  |
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I also think some guys get frustrated at not getting sex with women so will just opt for anything ro get a suck ...
also add in porn is all about the male cock being priority piece in shot in most videos. so guys are wired to look at dick in a fashion lol |
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over a year ago
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On the contrary I’ve had men messaging me first just to be transphobic and tell me that they only want to keep things simple between a man and a woman and like uhhh okay not sure what that has to do with me or why you’re in my dms  |
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Whilst reading about “monkey pox” several sources refer to the prevalence of the disease affecting gay men , bi sexual men and here’s the interesting one “ men who have sex with men” maybe they’re from that third group…
I still can’t work out the distinction from the first two groups..!! |
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"Some people won't meet bi men so they lie on their profiles. "
Plus plenty of bi men do it to reduce the amount of problematic men messaging them.
Exactly the same as some women and couples say not interested in single men, but then approach them. |
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"Yes same, many are closeted gay and bi men, others generally curious. Not truly straight are they…."
Would you still meet them though if you were attracted? Or do you not like the fact they hide it? |
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"Im straight guy and i get bi or gay message me why dont they read profile
Men in general don't read profiles it's not exclusive to bi or gay men"
'People' in general don't read profiles.
It's just the vast number of people on here are men, so it seems like it's just men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im straight guy and i get bi or gay message me why dont they read profile
Men in general don't read profiles it's not exclusive to bi or gay men
'People' in general don't read profiles.
It's just the vast number of people on here are men, so it seems like it's just men. "
I never said it was just men but ok.... |
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I get DM'd by a fair few gay men thinking "send a DM, BLOW JOB in 25 mins from cos he's local!" I'm flattered, but I thought if you wanted just jump to gay cock sucking, Grindr is a better option and more expectant of instant gay gratification and Fab was more about variety of interests and sex acts. |
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"Im straight guy and i get bi or gay message me why dont they read profile
Men in general don't read profiles it's not exclusive to bi or gay men
'People' in general don't read profiles.
It's just the vast number of people on here are men, so it seems like it's just men.
I never said it was just men but ok...."
I know, and I didn't say you did.
You just said it's not exclusive to bi or gay men, and I just expanded on what you said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People tell all kinds of lies on here.
I even had an experience of meeting a guy who posed as a couple's profile and was really just a single bi man who for some reason thought that if you lie to a straight guy and somehow arrange a meeting, you can seduce him and turn him into bisexual. Luckily found out he was telling lies before anything happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes same, many are closeted gay and bi men, others generally curious. Not truly straight are they….
Would you still meet them though if you were attracted? Or do you not like the fact they hide it?"
Yes I would still meet, it does not put me off if they are in the closet, met fair number like that. I would be put off if they hated themselves for having man on man sex though |
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"Yes same, many are closeted gay and bi men, others generally curious. Not truly straight are they….
Would you still meet them though if you were attracted? Or do you not like the fact they hide it?
Yes I would still meet, it does not put me off if they are in the closet, met fair number like that. I would be put off if they hated themselves for having man on man sex though "
I guess every bi guy has to recognise and admit it to themselves at some point, and they may want to deal with it privately rather than publicly to all of Fab.
Who really cares. As long as when they meet they strict to the boundaries, the same as everyone else should then, does it really matter what they list themselves as? |
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"Yes same, many are closeted gay and bi men, others generally curious. Not truly straight are they….
Would you still meet them though if you were attracted? Or do you not like the fact they hide it?
Yes I would still meet, it does not put me off if they are in the closet, met fair number like that. I would be put off if they hated themselves for having man on man sex though "
Yeah I’ve heard that happen before. Not just man on man sex. The whole guilt thing I suppose for whatever reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found such men who hate themselves or feel guilt are no good in bed either. I do feel for them and some I invested energy in over the years to make themselves accept what they are without that level of negativity, with decent success level. It puts me off wanting sexually though. |
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"I have found such men who hate themselves or feel guilt are no good in bed either. I do feel for them and some I invested energy in over the years to make themselves accept what they are without that level of negativity, with decent success level. It puts me off wanting sexually though. "
Must be horrible to feel like that though. For them. But yeah I get why you wouldn’t want the hassle of that especially if it’s just for fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found such men who hate themselves or feel guilt are no good in bed either. I do feel for them and some I invested energy in over the years to make themselves accept what they are without that level of negativity, with decent success level. It puts me off wanting sexually though.
Must be horrible to feel like that though. For them. But yeah I get why you wouldn’t want the hassle of that especially if it’s just for fun x"
I think in these modern times people should at least be accepting what they are, even if they do not shout it from the rooftops, it is strange so many are still like it. I came to terms with it in 1996 and it was pretty bad back then for homophobia it took big balls. But things are definitely much better now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because some people have trouble coming to terms with their sexuality for a multitude of reasons.
I can shout from the roof tops that I'm a vegetarian . But if you open my fridge and are met with a Cumberland sausage then the evidence suggests otherwise. |
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"People tell all kinds of lies on here.
I even had an experience of meeting a guy who posed as a couple's profile and was really just a single bi man who for some reason thought that if you lie to a straight guy and somehow arrange a meeting, you can seduce him and turn him into bisexual. Luckily found out he was telling lies before anything happened."
Jeez guy sounds like he is on a path of getting his wobbled all over the floor if not careful doing that ..
I find this sometimes with Trans women like myself that use the term "stealth sex a guy" they dont realise no vagina until its too late ... my friend does this alot and has been punched out a fair few times over it .. danger games some people play with not being upfront ...
I live legally as a woman and function in society as a woman , no one rarely realises I am a transgender woman , as well we dont walk around with our genitals out ... though if I am talking to someone off a vanilla meet up etc and I felt I was abit of spark going , then I would just say it and see how the reaction goes ..
surprisingly in real life scenarios many people are pretty cool with it and will continue ..
I think with fab its vert different to real life and such rules can be twisted to suit ... I have male friends that have two profiles on here one straight and one bisexual .. the two profiles next mix .... as he says its just about statistics to improve the odds of chatting to people ..
Think we have all been there with meeting/ chatting to a couple/woman someone that turns out to be not what they claimed lol |
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The only way I can judge someone is to view their profile.
If it says straight, but they are contacting me looking to meet its a no.
I get why men do it, but please if you aren't honest on your profile then its a no from me.
I have nothing else to judge except what the profile says.
I do get more " straight " than bi messages. |
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"The only way I can judge someone is to view their profile.
If it says straight, but they are contacting me looking to meet its a no.
I get why men do it, but please if you aren't honest on your profile then its a no from me.
I have nothing else to judge except what the profile says.
I do get more " straight " than bi messages."
I agree. I prefer to know someone’s sexuality. To me,no matter what the reasons, it’s just lying. It’s no different to people saying they’re single when they’re married. If someone said they were straight and they weren’t I would end it for no other reason than they lied and I cannot abide liars in any way shape or form. |
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"The only way I can judge someone is to view their profile.
If it says straight, but they are contacting me looking to meet its a no.
I get why men do it, but please if you aren't honest on your profile then its a no from me.
I have nothing else to judge except what the profile says.
I do get more " straight " than bi messages.
I agree. I prefer to know someone’s sexuality. To me,no matter what the reasons, it’s just lying. It’s no different to people saying they’re single when they’re married. If someone said they were straight and they weren’t I would end it for no other reason than they lied and I cannot abide liars in any way shape or form. "
How would that work in a club though .... this is the issue with fab vs real world interactions .. a real world club is just on fly of moment .. |
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"The only way I can judge someone is to view their profile.
If it says straight, but they are contacting me looking to meet its a no.
I get why men do it, but please if you aren't honest on your profile then its a no from me.
I have nothing else to judge except what the profile says.
I do get more " straight " than bi messages.
I agree. I prefer to know someone’s sexuality. To me,no matter what the reasons, it’s just lying. It’s no different to people saying they’re single when they’re married. If someone said they were straight and they weren’t I would end it for no other reason than they lied and I cannot abide liars in any way shape or form.
How would that work in a club though .... this is the issue with fab vs real world interactions .. a real world club is just on fly of moment .."
Yes it is, but I don't meet people in a club, nothing wrong with that.
I was replying in the context of the question asked. X |
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"The only way I can judge someone is to view their profile.
If it says straight, but they are contacting me looking to meet its a no.
I get why men do it, but please if you aren't honest on your profile then its a no from me.
I have nothing else to judge except what the profile says.
I do get more " straight " than bi messages.
I agree. I prefer to know someone’s sexuality. To me,no matter what the reasons, it’s just lying. It’s no different to people saying they’re single when they’re married. If someone said they were straight and they weren’t I would end it for no other reason than they lied and I cannot abide liars in any way shape or form.
How would that work in a club though .... this is the issue with fab vs real world interactions .. a real world club is just on fly of moment .."
I don’t go to clubs so that wouldn’t affect me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe the straight men are getting their own back 
On what? Lol
Always being contacted by bi/gay men  "
Ahhh. I never make the first contact.Especially if the guy says he's straight or not looking for men. If anyone is interested I'll always reply. But I fully read profiles and may wink or a quick hello if I feel the person may like to hear from me |
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The problem is there are a lot of women and couples on here who refuse point blank to meet bi guys so a lot of the bi guys hedge their bets and list themselves as straight but then contact other guys on the side.
Personally I’d rather be up front about it and if there are women and couples out there who for whatever reason dislike bi guys then I just see it as their loss. |
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"Very interested to know. I've had a lot of guys on here who say they are straight looking for couples or females, so I'm intrigued why I'm getting messages. I'm not complaining though. Mmm "
Was it at Christmas and were they asking for a specific thing? Like some sort of item, wrapped by short people (see my other thread)… a present maybe? |
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"The problem is there are a lot of women and couples on here who refuse point blank to meet bi guys so a lot of the bi guys hedge their bets and list themselves as straight but then contact other guys on the side.
Personally I’d rather be up front about it and if there are women and couples out there who for whatever reason dislike bi guys then I just see it as their loss."
Exactly this, you see a couples profile, no bi men... fine.
Then look at their verifications, the " straight " man they played with last week has been with 2 men and 3 TV's !!
Not so straight After all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very interested to know. I've had a lot of guys on here who say they are straight looking for couples or females, so I'm intrigued why I'm getting messages. I'm not complaining though. Mmm
Was it at Christmas and were they asking for a specific thing? Like some sort of item, wrapped by short people (see my other thread)… a present maybe? "
NO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been with one TS. I saw her as a woman, nothing more or nothing less. She identified as a woman, looked like a woman, smelt, acted, everything. Yeah, she had a penis, but that was just one small side part to what was a very very fun night.
This whole straight/bi/gay is a wrong way of looking at it. I think every person, regardless of gender is on a meter. 0-100 if you will. 100 being totally gay only.
I would bet everyone is at least at 1.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been with one TS. I saw her as a woman, nothing more or nothing less. She identified as a woman, looked like a woman, smelt, acted, everything. Yeah, she had a penis, but that was just one small side part to what was a very very fun night.
This whole straight/bi/gay is a wrong way of looking at it. I think every person, regardless of gender is on a meter. 0-100 if you will. 100 being totally gay only.
I would bet everyone is at least at 1.
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What did you do with her penis? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst reading about “monkey pox” several sources refer to the prevalence of the disease affecting gay men , bi sexual men and here’s the interesting one “ men who have sex with men” maybe they’re from that third group…
I still can’t work out the distinction from the first two groups..!!"
Gay men are attracted to men. Bisexual men are attracted to both men and women.
Men who have sex with men aren't attracted to men but will have sex with them. |
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"The problem is there are a lot of women and couples on here who refuse point blank to meet bi guys so a lot of the bi guys hedge their bets and list themselves as straight but then contact other guys on the side.
Personally I’d rather be up front about it and if there are women and couples out there who for whatever reason dislike bi guys then I just see it as their loss."
Spot on. If I didn't say I was bisexual and I was having sex with a woman, she'd never know. I still wouldn't have straight on my profile if I was a single man on here. Women who are turned off by the thought of bi guys aren't my thing, so good luck to them. No judgement from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the contrary I’ve had men messaging me first just to be transphobic and tell me that they only want to keep things simple between a man and a woman and like uhhh okay not sure what that has to do with me or why you’re in my dms "
That’s awful
You should start a thread about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very interested to know. I've had a lot of guys on here who say they are straight looking for couples or females, so I'm intrigued why I'm getting messages. I'm not complaining though. Mmm "
They’re Bi…
And before and knobheads comment on that there is nothing wrong with being Bi, Gay or indeed straight.
And any knobheads who mention “labels” are knobheads.
Knobheads |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very interested to know. I've had a lot of guys on here who say they are straight looking for couples or females, so I'm intrigued why I'm getting messages. I'm not complaining though. Mmm
They’re Bi…
And before and knobheads comment on that there is nothing wrong with being Bi, Gay or indeed straight.
And any knobheads who mention “labels” are knobheads.
Knobheads"
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The first few days before I knew how to filter messages I did get a few nasty revulting messages from a few gay men and trans which obviously I had to block them for. I dont blame women blocking men for doing the same thing too |
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"Whilst reading about “monkey pox” several sources refer to the prevalence of the disease affecting gay men , bi sexual men and here’s the interesting one “ men who have sex with men” maybe they’re from that third group…
I still can’t work out the distinction from the first two groups..!!
Gay men are attracted to men. Bisexual men are attracted to both men and women.
Men who have sex with men aren't attracted to men but will have sex with them."
sorry but if a man has sex with another men then his gay sorry |
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That's not quite right. Gay, means homosexual. Homosexual means they are attracted to people of the same sex as them. Ergo, they tend to look at other members of their sex and weigh up wether or not they find them sexually attractive, in exactly the same way you do in regards to women.
Many (if not most,) bisexual people have the same set up but will find certain people of both sexes sexually attractive. Now this is where it can get complicated, I find women, many women, very attractive, and will form romantic relationships with them. I have sex with men, but I can walk through a sauna, beach or the high street and not one man would pique my interest. Because I'm not looking at them that way. With women I can't help it.
I find the sexual act in and of itself with men, is what turns me on with them.
Am I gay? No.
Am I bi? I call myself bi for ease on here.
I've yet to meet a Trans or TV person, but I do find them sexually attractive if they present as a woman.
We are all somewhere on a sexual spectrum, no doubt you on the "100% straight" side but please don't assume people fit into just two boxes Gay or Straight.
Glad you mastered the filters though. It'll make life a lot less stressful. There are still some that will sneak through though. Block and move on. It's like a religious chant on here.
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By *rBeejayMan
over a year ago
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"The problem is there are a lot of women and couples on here who refuse point blank to meet bi guys so a lot of the bi guys hedge their bets and list themselves as straight but then contact other guys on the side.
Personally I’d rather be up front about it and if there are women and couples out there who for whatever reason dislike bi guys then I just see it as their loss."
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It doesn’t really bother me if someone has straight on their profile and messages me. I do however state in messages from these guys that I’m a guy and I’m not passable as a woman so there’s no confusion.
A couple of times I’ve had some vile abuse in response from someone who thought I was female from my pic but obvs missed the TV part on my profile… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people won't meet bi men so they lie on their profiles.
Exactly this 90% of my messages are from " straight " men.
If you are straight why do you want to suck my dick.
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Lol I get this a lot, a lot straight guys message me saying they want to "destroy me" when I say I'm not interested, it turns into, "can I suck your cock, ill be your sub" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people won't meet bi men so they lie on their profiles.
Exactly this 90% of my messages are from " straight " men.
If you are straight why do you want to suck my dick.
Lol I get this a lot, a lot straight guys message me saying they want to "destroy me" when I say I'm not interested, it turns into, "can I suck your cock, ill be your sub""
yep - the whole "i want to smash your arse/ 'breed me'" thing as an ice breaker is so utterly rude - if they approach women like that i wonder why they dont get any "action"..... |
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"That's not quite right. Gay, means homosexual. Homosexual means they are attracted to people of the same sex as them. Ergo, they tend to look at other members of their sex and weigh up wether or not they find them sexually attractive, in exactly the same way you do in regards to women
Many (if not most,) bisexual people have the same set up but will find certain people of both sexes sexually attractive. Now this is where it can get complicated, I find women, many women, very attractive, and will form romantic relationships with them. I have sex with men, but I can walk through a sauna, beach or the high street and not one man would pique my interest. Because I'm not looking at them that way. With women I can't help it.
I find the sexual act in and of itself with men, is what turns me on with them.
Am I gay? No.
Am I bi? I call myself bi for ease on here.
I've yet to meet a Trans or TV person, but I do find them sexually attractive if they present as a woman.
We are all somewhere on a sexual spectrum, no doubt you on the "100% straight" side but please don't assume people fit into just two boxes Gay or Straight.
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Totally agree, I'm the same, Have Bi on here because not gay, but not technically straight either and cant really claim to be 'bi-curious' anymore lol. I'd say I'm Flexi, but am far more attracted to women than men and cant help but take notice of any woman I find attractive, but can honestly say I don't think the same way about guys.. but as you say it's the act of having sex with a guy that's the turn on |
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Had a bad experience with a straight guy once, as when he finished, some sort of guilt feelings overcame him or disgust with what he’d just done.
This is not to say all straight guys are a risk but I generally find someone who’s happy to label themselves Bi, will be less of a risk when meeting.
In a club, sauna or bar a label doesn’t really matter but on here if you say you’re straight it’ll always raise flags, especially if your profile shows no interest in TV’s.
This isn’t a criticism of straight people on the site. I have had messages from straight men and couples who give me reasons why they have to label themselves as straight but do occasionally like same sex fun.
So I’ll continue to prefer only bi or gay people on the site messaging me, but I never fully turn down someone I find that I’m compatible with.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away"
Now now buddy you know this is going to keep you busy |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away"
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Philanthropy isn't lost on you, clearly. |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away"
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? "
Think the catch is claiming sounds like another label  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away"
I look at forum user profiles wether it be a man or a woman. I wouldn't fab a picture of a man, but I am guilty of fabbing videos with a women in them, purely because I liked the woman.
I think if a so called straight man fabs a picture or a video of man alone, he isn't a straight man. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I look at forum user profiles wether it be a man or a woman. I wouldn't fab a picture of a man, but I am guilty of fabbing videos with a women in them, purely because I liked the woman.
I think if a so called straight man fabs a picture or a video of man alone, he isn't a straight man. "
But liking something and wanting are two different things |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men "
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men "
I mean if he messages asking for sex. If its a forun related subject like how to get a mortgage or whatever, then I will discuss with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along "
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?"
I mean was that what you meant ? |
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I think there is still a stigma about bi guys(or they perceived there to be one) that they have to say they are straight. I used to love bi guys but wouldn't entertain one that said they where straight on their profile. They should be honest they might be surprised |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?"
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine |
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine "
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse. "
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it "
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things "
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes "
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain "
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey "
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep |
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over a year ago
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I never contact men looking for woman and state no men. They contact me. They want to fuck or be sucked off, which is fine by me. No strings also fine, clean and safe sex. Us gay & bi men are here for fun not get married or relationships though regular meets with the same guy are fun until it’s get boring. oh and I ain’t wearing woman’s knickers etc. That’s a different categorie for straight men. You could also ask why straight men on here meet with cross dressers /TVs |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? "
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? nope"
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So, I'm not allowed to Fab your photographs, even though I'm straighter than Cupid's arrøw? |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? nope
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So, I'm not allowed to Fab your photographs, even though I'm straighter than Cupid's arrøw?"
Well you wouldnt be looking at my pictures in the first place let alone fab them if you're "straight" |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? nope
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So, I'm not allowed to Fab your photographs, even though I'm straighter than Cupid's arrøw?
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"Well you wouldnt be looking at my pictures in the first place let alone fab them if you're "straight""
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Not even as a gesture of male solidarity, camaraderie and good grace?
I mean, do you have male friends/acquaintances, yes? For the sake of variety let's assume that you do. Don't you ever shake their hands? Pat them on the back? Take them by the arm to show them something or direct them? Compliment their shoes or admire their tie?
It's the same thing, more or less: you're just 'looking' at their profile and fab'ing their photo.
P.S. You looked at MY profile earlier. |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? nope
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So, I'm not allowed to Fab your photographs, even though I'm straighter than Cupid's arrøw? Well you wouldnt be looking at my pictures in the first place let alone fab them if you're "straight""
Why not? |
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"Well sorry if this sounds harsh (but dont care either) but any guy or trans or even a guy that claims to be straight that looks at my profile then fabs my pictures is blocked straight away
I'm looking but not fabbing. Is that ok? nope
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So, I'm not allowed to Fab your photographs, even though I'm straighter than Cupid's arrøw?
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"Well you wouldnt be looking at my pictures in the first place let alone fab them if you're "straight"
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Not even as a gesture of male solidarity, camaraderie and good grace?
I mean, do you have male friends/acquaintances, yes? For the sake of variety let's assume that you do. Don't you ever shake their hands? Pat them on the back? Take them by the arm to show them something or direct them? Compliment their shoes or admire their tie?
It's the same thing, more or less: you're just 'looking' at their profile and fab'ing their photo.
P.S. You looked at MY profile earlier."
Not quite but lets agree to disagree on that one, I don't recall looking at your profile but asuming that I did it was definitly a mistake and apologies |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep "
Fab the pictures
Do you ever buy a CD sung by a guy remember that you bought it because you like something not wanting to shag them |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep
Fab the pictures
Do you ever buy a CD sung by a guy remember that you bought it because you like something not wanting to shag them "
Buying a CD and fabbing mens pictures on a site like this is two different things |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep
Fab the pictures
Do you ever buy a CD sung by a guy remember that you bought it because you like something not wanting to shag them
Buying a CD and fabbing mens pictures on a site like this is two different things "
Not much difference because you bought it so either like the way he sings or the song but his pictures on the CD as I've said admiring anyone can admire someone it doesn't mean anything else other than you like.... Just because a woman may chat with a guy doesn't mean she wants to shag she may also like pictures and fab them because she likes something doesn't mean she may want to shag them |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep
Fab the pictures
Do you ever buy a CD sung by a guy remember that you bought it because you like something not wanting to shag them
Buying a CD and fabbing mens pictures on a site like this is two different things
Not much difference because you bought it so either like the way he sings or the song but his pictures on the CD as I've said admiring anyone can admire someone it doesn't mean anything else other than you like.... Just because a woman may chat with a guy doesn't mean she wants to shag she may also like pictures and fab them because she likes something doesn't mean she may want to shag them "
Well I just can't see why a straight man would even consider fabbing another man's pics on here. Unless he's fab straight. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story.
What for admiring a profile
For messaging other men
Ive chatted with many as I'm not judgemental it's more about respecting each other and still able to get along
Sorry I didn't read all of the forum. Did you say you fab mens pics ?
Nope but don't complain if others fab mine
I see. Well I think liking = wanting. Why else would a guy like man's arse.
My arse isn't available on show nor is their any pictures of it
But you like man's arse ? You said liking and wanting something is two different things
I never mentioned arse it's something you've brought up I said admiring theirs a definition admiring ones figure dress code.....
You make it sound like when you walk past a male in the streets you close your eyes
I can't see where you are coming from. My first reply was to the OP and then you replied to me.
"Obviously they are not straight. End of story."
"What for admiring a profile"
Please explain
Because they viewed mine so just being nosey
What makes you so sure they admired you ? Lol nevermind.
I need sleep
Fab the pictures
Do you ever buy a CD sung by a guy remember that you bought it because you like something not wanting to shag them
Buying a CD and fabbing mens pictures on a site like this is two different things
Not much difference because you bought it so either like the way he sings or the song but his pictures on the CD as I've said admiring anyone can admire someone it doesn't mean anything else other than you like.... Just because a woman may chat with a guy doesn't mean she wants to shag she may also like pictures and fab them because she likes something doesn't mean she may want to shag them
Well I just can't see why a straight man would even consider fabbing another man's pics on here. Unless he's fab straight. "
Because they like something they see giving them the heads up
I've messaged guyif I've seen something within their pictures just to compliment them on the effort and it's nice to hear from someone else |
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"Had a bad experience with a straight guy once, as when he finished, some sort of guilt feelings overcame him or disgust with what he’d just done.
This is not to say all straight guys are a risk but I generally find someone who’s happy to label themselves Bi, will be less of a risk when meeting.
In a club, sauna or bar a label doesn’t really matter but on here if you say you’re straight it’ll always raise flags, especially if your profile shows no interest in TV’s.
This isn’t a criticism of straight people on the site. I have had messages from straight men and couples who give me reasons why they have to label themselves as straight but do occasionally like same sex fun.
So I’ll continue to prefer only bi or gay people on the site messaging me, but I never fully turn down someone I find that I’m compatible with. "
This has happened to so many trans people over the years with guys getting experimenting // guilting out after .. I know I have had to crack a few guys after sex over the last decade for getting abit silly afterwords with me and trying to reclaim their manliness I guess by throwing hands .. unfortunately for many of them they forget alot of Trans people are pretty handy themselves in that situation as well |
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"Had a bad experience with a straight guy once, as when he finished, some sort of guilt feelings overcame him or disgust with what he’d just done.
This is not to say all straight guys are a risk but I generally find someone who’s happy to label themselves Bi, will be less of a risk when meeting.
In a club, sauna or bar a label doesn’t really matter but on here if you say you’re straight it’ll always raise flags, especially if your profile shows no interest in TV’s.
This isn’t a criticism of straight people on the site. I have had messages from straight men and couples who give me reasons why they have to label themselves as straight but do occasionally like same sex fun.
So I’ll continue to prefer only bi or gay people on the site messaging me, but I never fully turn down someone I find that I’m compatible with.
This has happened to so many trans people over the years with guys getting experimenting // guilting out after .. I know I have had to crack a few guys after sex over the last decade for getting abit silly afterwords with me and trying to reclaim their manliness I guess by throwing hands .. unfortunately for many of them they forget alot of Trans people are pretty handy themselves in that situation as well "
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I’m a bi guy and if straight guys message me then I’ll ignore them and block them.
If they are into cock they need to mention they are Bi or at least Bi curious on their profile.
A straight guy inboxing me is a bit of a red flag as far as I’m concerned. |
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"Had a bad experience with a straight guy once, as when he finished, some sort of guilt feelings overcame him or disgust with what he’d just done.
This is not to say all straight guys are a risk but I generally find someone who’s happy to label themselves Bi, will be less of a risk when meeting.
In a club, sauna or bar a label doesn’t really matter but on here if you say you’re straight it’ll always raise flags, especially if your profile shows no interest in TV’s.
This isn’t a criticism of straight people on the site. I have had messages from straight men and couples who give me reasons why they have to label themselves as straight but do occasionally like same sex fun.
So I’ll continue to prefer only bi or gay people on the site messaging me, but I never fully turn down someone I find that I’m compatible with.
This has happened to so many trans people over the years with guys getting experimenting // guilting out after .. I know I have had to crack a few guys after sex over the last decade for getting abit silly afterwords with me and trying to reclaim their manliness I guess by throwing hands .. unfortunately for many of them they forget alot of Trans people are pretty handy themselves in that situation as well "
100% I don’t want to be ducking punches cause a straight guy needs to reassert his heterosexual, hence I’m very sceptical about straight guys contacting anyone who is either gay or trans. |
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"I Fab pictures I appreciate. To me a Fab isn't "I want a piece of that", it's "I think that picture is Fab". "
This absolutely. Same as a wink. But I gor abuse for it yesterday |
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"I Fab pictures I appreciate. To me a Fab isn't "I want a piece of that", it's "I think that picture is Fab".
This absolutely. Same as a wink. But I gor abuse for it yesterday "
Some very insecure people on here. No need for abuse. Hope you reported it |
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"I Fab pictures I appreciate. To me a Fab isn't "I want a piece of that", it's "I think that picture is Fab".
This absolutely. Same as a wink. But I gor abuse for it yesterday
Some very insecure people on here. No need for abuse. Hope you reported it "
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"Had a bad experience with a straight guy once, as when he finished, some sort of guilt feelings overcame him or disgust with what he’d just done.
This is not to say all straight guys are a risk but I generally find someone who’s happy to label themselves Bi, will be less of a risk when meeting.
In a club, sauna or bar a label doesn’t really matter but on here if you say you’re straight it’ll always raise flags, especially if your profile shows no interest in TV’s.
This isn’t a criticism of straight people on the site. I have had messages from straight men and couples who give me reasons why they have to label themselves as straight but do occasionally like same sex fun.
So I’ll continue to prefer only bi or gay people on the site messaging me, but I never fully turn down someone I find that I’m compatible with.
This has happened to so many trans people over the years with guys getting experimenting // guilting out after .. I know I have had to crack a few guys after sex over the last decade for getting abit silly afterwords with me and trying to reclaim their manliness I guess by throwing hands .. unfortunately for many of them they forget alot of Trans people are pretty handy themselves in that situation as well
100% I don’t want to be ducking punches cause a straight guy needs to reassert his heterosexual, hence I’m very sceptical about straight guys contacting anyone who is either gay or trans. "
Yeah totally not fun. I have knocked out a few chaps over the years after they get “the straight clarity rage “ with me Not a fun way to end an otherwise reasonably amusing sex session |
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