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Help!! What am I doing wrong?
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By *ch69 OP Man
over a year ago
croydon |
Things have been very slow for me on this site especially after covid issues have now died down.
Can any of you lovely people look at my profile and suggest where I could improve? When I do reach out to anyone I like the look of it’s never a one liner.. sometimes I get a small discussion then nothing further or I’m completely ignored.
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"Everyone knows what fab is , you don’t need to tell them."
I've been back and had another look. I didn't even get to the bit about the Op. I was too busy feeling chastised for apparently not knowing what fab is. People are on here for very different reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile comes across a bit condescending to me. I'd definitely make it more about what you want and can offer rather than telling people what you think they should be doing.
And definitely a profile pic. |
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"Your profile comes across a bit condescending to me. I'd definitely make it more about what you want and can offer rather than telling people what you think they should be doing.
And definitely a profile pic. "
Yes very condescending....not only to girls but also to the guys. Do you think by putting down the guys on the site implicating they're not 'hot/fit' that it will make us want you more? Some people's types might not be George Clooney or Idris Elba.
I use this site for mainly group socials....should I delete my account since it's not the way you told me to use is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a profile photo.
Don’t mansplain what fab is, it’s something different to everyone and yes, many people date on here.
I want George Clooney, I don’t want Danny Devito so please don’t tell me that I should lower my needs or standards.
I was actually quite annoyed by reading your profile, it irritated me. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Nothing. You’re doing exactly what you consider to be appropriate.
That’s what you think that you should do.
The only thing that you’re doing wrong is asking for advice rather than taking the next step and working it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn’t want to give advice because I thought his profile gave a true reflection of his personality. Now with the advice given he can hide some of it.  "
Hmm that’s true actually.
Yeah, leave it just as it is  |
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By *ch69 OP Man
over a year ago
croydon |
Well thank you all for your comments… l’ll take them all on the chin and re-write my profile. For those that think it’s a reflection of me that’s a little unfair… but that’s your opinion which you are entitled to have. I’ll def remove all the bits that come across rude/condescending…. Once again thanks all… |
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"Well thank you all for your comments… l’ll take them all on the chin and re-write my profile. For those that think it’s a reflection of me that’s a little unfair… but that’s your opinion which you are entitled to have. I’ll def remove all the bits that come across rude/condescending…. Once again thanks all…"
Well done for actually rewriting your profile though your profile is there as a reflection of you...if you think of it as a shop window; if you don't want people to say it's a reflection of you then you should write what you want us to know about you  good luck with the profile! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I didn’t want to give advice because I thought his profile gave a true reflection of his personality. Now with the advice given he can hide some of it. "
Exactly, this is why I don't give advice about removing this or that on their profile .Just let the profile the way it is. That is a true reflection of how the person thinks and is what I prefer to see rather a sanitised version. |
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By *ch69 OP Man
over a year ago
croydon |
I’m actually really glad I asked… yes some of the comments were a bit far.. but where I thought I was actually being cocky and/or funny I clearly wasn’t. So fully stand corrected and have amended the profile.
Love and peace to all… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So thanks to all of you lot, he now has a different profile based on what you all want to see and not one that's likely to reflect who he actually is."
Good point  |
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