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I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. |
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. "
I’ve just seen your cane so I’m not going to disagree with you…or maybe I will so that you make me bend over… |
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. "
And a whole lot more that won't! Not very open and honest if wifey don't know? The one person most important to be honest with x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think you need to explain whether your wife knows about you being on here or not as, from what I’ve read in other threads, that makes a big difference. A lot of women won’t meet men who are going behind their wife’s back. I’m sure that’s not what you’re doing though as you’re ‘genuinely respectful to ppl’ so you wouldn’t do something as disrespectful as cheating on your wife. "
I would have said she was aware if she was but I was honest cheers for the advice though if you had read it properly I said am respectful to ppl are to me and you know nothing about wats going on behind closed doors so keep that in mind if ur going to speak when not spoking to , wish u all the best anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. "
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I personally wouldn't knowingly play with a mam who is married
I'm sure you have your reasons
But I've been cheated on and it's horrible so I would play a part in that and its karma I wouldn't want to deal with |
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"What about be them wifes doing it behind their husbands back  "
What about-ery in this context is weird
Op wasn't complaining and no one has slated him for being married |
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"What about be them wifes doing it behind their husbands back
What about-ery in this context is weird
Op wasn't complaining and no one has slated him for being married "
I think what I meant from this and what is being talked about has went wrong tbh I was actually just asking ladies opinions if in general would have any interest in me  Because as I said no one knows wat goes on behind closed doors and maybe be good to hear other opinions is all |
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"What about be them wifes doing it behind their husbands back
What about-ery in this context is weird
Op wasn't complaining and no one has slated him for being married
I think what I meant from this and what is being talked about has went wrong tbh I was actually just asking ladies opinions if in general would have any interest in me Because as I said no one knows wat goes on behind closed doors and maybe be good to hear other opinions is all "
As if everything in life there will be people who don't mind and people who do
As long those who do don't get nasty and abusive with it there shouldn't be a problem  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What about be them wifes doing it behind their husbands back
What about-ery in this context is weird
Op wasn't complaining and no one has slated him for being married
I think what I meant from this and what is being talked about has went wrong tbh I was actually just asking ladies opinions if in general would have any interest in me Because as I said no one knows wat goes on behind closed doors and maybe be good to hear other opinions is all
As if everything in life there will be people who don't mind and people who do
As long those who do don't get nasty and abusive with it there shouldn't be a problem "
That’s a fair comment |
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. "
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest. "
The 'open and honest' comment when it comes to cheating is always a strange one because isn't this the exact opposite of that? |
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"I think you need to explain whether your wife knows about you being on here or not as, from what I’ve read in other threads, that makes a big difference. A lot of women won’t meet men who are going behind their wife’s back. I’m sure that’s not what you’re doing though as you’re ‘genuinely respectful to ppl’ so you wouldn’t do something as disrespectful as cheating on your wife.
I would have said she was aware if she was but I was honest cheers for the advice though if you had read it properly I said am respectful to ppl are to me and you know nothing about wats going on behind closed doors so keep that in mind if ur going to speak when not spoking to , wish u all the best anyway"
But you asked for comments, so you did speak to everyone  |
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Did you just actually say "if you're going to speak when not spoken to" to someone who dared to call you out on cheating? 
I don't even need to look at your profile to say no. |
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"I think you need to explain whether your wife knows about you being on here or not as, from what I’ve read in other threads, that makes a big difference. A lot of women won’t meet men who are going behind their wife’s back. I’m sure that’s not what you’re doing though as you’re ‘genuinely respectful to ppl’ so you wouldn’t do something as disrespectful as cheating on your wife.
I would have said she was aware if she was but I was honest cheers for the advice though if you had read it properly I said am respectful to ppl are to me and you know nothing about wats going on behind closed doors so keep that in mind if ur going to speak when not spoking to , wish u all the best anyway
But you asked for comments, so you did speak to everyone "
To be fair he asked a question. Not for relationship advice. And at least he’s honest about his situation, unlike a lot.
Op I hope you haven’t hidden because of these comments. You’ve as much right to be on here as anyone |
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"I think you need to explain whether your wife knows about you being on here or not as, from what I’ve read in other threads, that makes a big difference. A lot of women won’t meet men who are going behind their wife’s back. I’m sure that’s not what you’re doing though as you’re ‘genuinely respectful to ppl’ so you wouldn’t do something as disrespectful as cheating on your wife.
I would have said she was aware if she was but I was honest cheers for the advice though if you had read it properly I said am respectful to ppl are to me and you know nothing about wats going on behind closed doors so keep that in mind if ur going to speak when not spoking to , wish u all the best anyway
But you asked for comments, so you did speak to everyone
To be fair he asked a question. Not for relationship advice. And at least he’s honest about his situation, unlike a lot.
Op I hope you haven’t hidden because of these comments. You’ve as much right to be on here as anyone "
Oh come on Nora. He asked for input. It's perfectly valid to tell him why. |
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"He got a better lot of comments than i did when asking the same question "
Don't ask the question if you can't handle the answers. I will never understand why men start these threads and then complain when anyone dares to suggest that cheating isn't great. |
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"At the risk of getting slated Would you be nice lol"
Not in the slightest.
If we were looking for guys, why would I choose a dishonest person over a genuine single guy?
No offence intended, but you are a cheat after all.
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Don't ask the question if you can't handle the answers. I will never understand why men start these threads and then complain when anyone dares to suggest that cheating isn't great.
when it comes to a site like this it's only right you tell your other half as anything you Doo on here is border line cheating on your other half if married or not 
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"I personally wouldn't knowingly play with a mam who is married
I'm sure you have your reasons
But I've been cheated on and it's horrible so I would play a part in that and its karma I wouldn't want to deal with "
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest.
The 'open and honest' comment when it comes to cheating is always a strange one because isn't this the exact opposite of that?"
My thoughts exactly.
If you’re out doing this then the relationship (in its previous form) is by definition over.
Set your wife free. Let someone else love her.
No judgement - just an opinion. |
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"I (and a lot of women I know) couldn’t care less if you were married or not. This is a sex site and it’s for fun. The fact that you’ve put yours married is fine, as it you are being open and honest.
The 'open and honest' comment when it comes to cheating is always a strange one because isn't this the exact opposite of that?
My thoughts exactly.
If you’re out doing this then the relationship (in its previous form) is by definition over.
Set your wife free. Let someone else love her.
No judgement - just an opinion. "
Couldn't have put it better ourselves.
Treat her with respect for once. Give her the chance to find someone who will treat her respectfully all the time.
No attacking, but just a factual statement.
You don't treat the one you love badly, and if you don't love them then just let them go. |
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Some women will meet you and some won't op. There are women in the same position as you who would probably appreciate that your need for discretion is as great as theirs.
If you could get to a club you might find that people don't ask too many questions about your marital status.
You look a bit too young for us so we probably wouldn't meet you, mind you, you probably wouldn't meet us 
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