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over a year ago
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"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this"
I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested |
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If someone gives you these replies then stop replying. No point talking to people that aren’t giving you anything back. Same as real life. Don’t do it to yourself. |
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"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this
I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested "
This also. |
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"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this
I’d take that as they are trying to be polite but aren’t interested
This also. "
This also too   |
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My answers always reflect the effort put in. That includes whether they’ve read my profile or not. If the answer is on there, it’s where they are directed. If the question is short, the answer is, and I don’t respond if it’s not a naturally flowing conversation x |
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I get it when say you've contacted them first and you think "Ah, they don't want to say sorry not for me"
But when they've contacted you, asked a question got a fairly in-depth answer back only to get "Totally." Or something similar, it's like, well conversation ends here unless you give me something more. |
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"You message a couple of people and start a convo but it's like pulling teeth with candy floss you ask some questions and get yes or no or other one worded replies anyone else get this"
Yes |
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If they reply with yes / no / dunno / lol I assume:
a. I'm not for them and move on.
b. They are certainly not what I'm looking for and move on.
Effort/reward and all that. If someone can't write a reasonable reply then I presume I'm not what they are looking for but they are keeping their options open. If conversation doesn't flow on her, I shudder to think what happens at a meet... |
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