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Meeting without seeing a face pic?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I shouldnt say thos but nothing personal..lol
Iv met guys for non personal fun some guys attached looking for 3some fun, cpls..and guys bi but private.
Sex only simple fun.
Met in person more tho and that was just as fun maybe better. It cures an urge if attached private,bi, curious married, experimenting. Straight..closet...shall I stop. X |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"I have done and afterwards wished I hadn't.
Oh dear  why what happened?.."
Because the face didn't match up to the body. As someone said it's all in the eyes. Maybe the pics weren't even theirs. My own fault I should have asked to see one. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have done in the past when I was first on here.As I meet for a social first if we didn't find each other attractive then that's all it stayed.
Nowadays I probably wouldn't though but I find when we chat for a while we exchange pics anyhow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done in the past when I was in my 20’s.
A couple of times I was pleasantly surprised. The vast majority of the time (90%) I had to turn the person away.
The “you won’t be disappointed” line inevitably leads to my imagination creating a vision of someone that they can never live up to when I finally see them in person.
So, no longer meeting anyone without a face photo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I would, it's not like I've committed to anything other than meeting a new person, doesn't mean I've got to shag them. The could become a very good friend and I enjoy meeting new people, so why not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I would, it's not like I've committed to anything other than meeting a new person, doesn't mean I've got to shag them. The could become a very good friend and I enjoy meeting new people, so why not. "
That’s how I saw it. A bit of a blind date.
As long as I got on on a chatty level, what do I lose? Nothing.
But if they are gorgeous…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No! Imagine if they turned up & it was a colleague  "
Depends *which* colleague I guess.
Lusty Linda from Accounts? Yes please
BO Barry from the Warehouse? Nah .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have. I didn't know what Mr NBVN looked like until I met him socially.
I have also met a guy twice whilst I was blindfolded and waiting on a bed, and still do not know what he looks like. He has walked past me in a supermarket and I didn't have a clue...had he spoken near me I would most definitely recognise his voice.
Mr NBVN has previously arranged a surprise meet to join us and I didn't know anything about it until this person got into the back seat of our car with us.
Sometimes not knowing what someone looks like adds a layer of thrill to the situation. It's not for everyone and is not something I regularly seek but once in a rare blue moon I am drawn to it.
NBVN x |
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"Yes I have. I didn't know what Mr NBVN looked like until I met him socially.
I have also met a guy twice whilst I was blindfolded and waiting on a bed, and still do not know what he looks like. He has walked past me in a supermarket and I didn't have a clue...had he spoken near me I would most definitely recognise his voice.
Mr NBVN has previously arranged a surprise meet to join us and I didn't know anything about it until this person got into the back seat of our car with us.
Sometimes not knowing what someone looks like adds a layer of thrill to the situation. It's not for everyone and is not something I regularly seek but once in a rare blue moon I am drawn to it.
NBVN x"
100% agree it is a thrill and I loved mine. I'd definitely do it again
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done and afterwards wished I hadn't.
Oh dear why what happened?..
Because the face didn't match up to the body. As someone said it's all in the eyes. Maybe the pics weren't even theirs. My own fault I should have asked to see one."
Awee, sorry to hear that
But live & learn eh?..
And I know what you mean about the face sometimes not matching the body...
Don't know if it works the other way as to body not matching the face?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes!
I've was blindfolded throughout one meet... And don't have a clue who they are.. I do know they were local-ish 
For me, it more about what is happening in my mind than how someone looks |
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"Yes!
I've was blindfolded throughout one meet... And don't have a clue who they are.. I do know they were local-ish
For me, it more about what is happening in my mind than how someone looks "
You sound like my kinda date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes!
I've was blindfolded throughout one meet... And don't have a clue who they are.. I do know they were local-ish
For me, it more about what is happening in my mind than how someone looks
You sound like my kinda date "
Send me a face pic
**kidding!! ** |
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By *oodoodMan
over a year ago
Suffolk / Essex borders |
No. I've heard some horror stories on here from female friends. Besides if you didn't know what they looked like you'd get thrown out of the coffee shop you were meeting at due to you tapping on everyone's shoulders asking if the tits in the pic you were holding were theirs |
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By *hismMan
over a year ago
Ballygonowhere |
"Would you do it? "
Yes,we don't have to engage on sex the first meet.If there's an attraction,both ways,we can always make arrangements for another time,if there's not,I still get to meet a person with similar interests.No harm done |
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Yeah. I'm considering a blind folded meet. If I was getting on with someone I'd probably meet them somewhere public without seeing their face. I find most the time they don't look like their pics anyway and have talked to people in the past who I didn't initially find attractive but then did after a conversation. |
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Yes I have done in the past and haven’t been disappointed. If you don’t have an attraction when you meet someone doesn’t mean you have to fuck them, can always just have a drink/coffee and then walk away no obligations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely no way.. facial attraction is one of the most important things for me. I show my face on here and ask for a face picture with messages, without it I won’t engage.
It’s not always reliable though.. I once met a guy for a coffee and the dude who turned up was a completely different person from the photos sent! I now insist on a FaceTime before a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to see a face pic because the facial attraction definitely has to be there. If someone messages me and I'm interested, I make it a point to send a face pic first because there's little point of hoping to meet them and continue chatting only to find they don't think I'm attractive. I've definitely killed more than a few conversations that way though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once shared mine but they were very coy on sharing one back but still wanted a meet, then got annoyed that we had something in place but I wouldn't confirm until she shared a face pic.
She refused to so we left it but there was maybe 30 mins drive between us so it was an hour round trip of wasted Time for either of us if it didn't get off the ground so I didn't understand the flat out refusal to share a pic but ultimately you respect their choice and move on if it doesn't suit you eh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I need a facepic and a cock pic before i meet. If i got to look at it i need to know there is attraction and if im putting it in my mouth i want to see it first! |
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"Maybe I shouldnt say thos but nothing personal..lol
Iv met guys for non personal fun some guys attached looking for 3some fun, cpls..and guys bi but private.
Sex only simple fun.
Met in person more tho and that was just as fun maybe better. It cures an urge if attached private,bi, curious married, experimenting. Straight..closet...shall I stop. X"
Am I the only one who does not know what the hell he is writing about? |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
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Is it the same though as someone turning up and not even looking like the pic they sent you? ...or is that even worse?
Even worse I've had it done to me "
Grim, right? Maybe it's even more deceptive ...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not ever again. Was pleased to visit a guy in his hotel yesterday when I was a member on this sister site Fab guys sent my pics. Gave me all the spiel. Git there. Didn't exist. Git back home and he blocked me. In future, they can come here or chat a bit more to be sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even like meeting without hearing a voice tbh. I don't want to be hearing filthy talk from someone who sounds like Orville the Duck  "
Hearing a voice is important,the tone,depth and what people say and how they express themslves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same though as someone turning up and not even looking like the pic they sent you? ...or is that even worse? "
Exactly .. How do you even know it is them! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Is it the same though as someone turning up and not even looking like the pic they sent you? ...or is that even worse?
Exactly .. How do you even know it is them! "
...or they sent their mate?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So this is actually a no and a yes. One of Bad Bitches tick list fantasies was to be bound and blindfolded and fucked by someone she had never even seen.
Now I personally would never meet anyone in a private setting unless I'd done a series of checks one of which includes seeing a picture and where possible actually talking to them.
She can be a little more risque than me but ultimately it's her faith in my checks that helps her confidence be all it can be.
Some fantasies require anonymity and others intimacy  |
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