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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve been kinda hooked on one of my friends for the last few months, although she’s said we’re friends and it’d be weird if anything got serious she’s still an outrageous flirt with me, at the weekend she told me she’s never been on a date and never been given flowers so my brain went into overload. Sunday night I ordered a bouquet of flowers in her favourite colours and had them delivered to her door simply because she’d never been given any. It wasn’t meant as a gesture to win her over or something like that it was seen as an innocent sentimental thing for a friend. Am I mad or has anyone else had or done something like this in the past? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clean break mate, don't see her for a while. It'll F your head if you keep longing for her. "
It actually got taken in a good way which surprised me, normally I’d completely agree with you but this is the sorta crazy person you don’t give up on easy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done something similar in the past. A rey long time ago. With no expectations of anything happening (hopped it would like you). Aaaand. Bothe times nothing did happen. as long as you think not was worth the effort of making someone feel good (I did and do). Your not crazy.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
You’re going to get hurt.
You say that it was an innocent thing to buy her flowers… if a make friend had said that, would you have bought him some?
The act might have been without direct intent but the desire to further things and your wish to be with her is affecting things.
If she has said that she’s not interested, believe her. To continue against her wishes is creepy. It doesn’t matter if she flirty, that’s probably who she is. Step back and away. This is going to end badly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re going to get hurt.
You say that it was an innocent thing to buy her flowers… if a make friend had said that, would you have bought him some?
The act might have been without direct intent but the desire to further things and your wish to be with her is affecting things.
If she has said that she’s not interested, believe her. To continue against her wishes is creepy. It doesn’t matter if she flirty, that’s probably who she is. Step back and away. This is going to end badly"
This, a thousand times over. If you can't respect her wish to just be friends, leave her the fuck alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be interested to know what happens next, if the Op is willing to share that is."
It was actually taken quite well, we’ve know each other for well over ten years and have been close friends for just as long but shall have to see what happens next |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"I'd be interested to know what happens next, if the Op is willing to share that is.
It was actually taken quite well, we’ve know each other for well over ten years and have been close friends for just as long but shall have to see what happens next"
Thank you.
Well, if you have been close friends for so long and still nothing romantic has happened, doesn't that send a clear message? |
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