I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:
1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action
2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards
What would you do? |
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"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested. 
And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available "
Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet! |
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"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.
And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available
Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet!"
You have 100% given me clarity of thought...... |
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"Announce I’m lowering my standards publicly then wonder why no one is interested.
And hide my profile so nobody knows what standards are available
Now not hidden.....genius level with everything internet!"
Yes it is |
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over a year ago
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It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list. |
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"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:
1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action
2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards
What would you do?"
Beggars can't be choosers |
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"3. Make a post to encourage women to contact you and hope they feel privileged that you haven’t blocked them?"
Erm, no.....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about |
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"It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list. "
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"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:
1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action
2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards
What would you do?"
I'd maintain your standards. |
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"It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list.
Done "
My high standards have a tendency to not be with someone who is an arrogant person who acts as if they're superior, more worthy, and more important than others.
and already having more than one or two peeps that make me feel really good, then it really doesn't matter how many like you block me.  |
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"3. Make a post to encourage women to contact you and hope they feel privileged that you haven’t blocked them?
Erm, no.....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about"
If they are fucking strangers they will fuck anyone. Unblock and ask to meet. |
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Maybe I'm reading this wrong but I'm struggling to see where the op is displaying a superiority complex?
I get that it's not a wise move to ask if he should lower his standards but the fact that he has standards should be a positive surely?
There are lots of people on here that I wouldn't touch with someone else's for any number of reasons but mostly due to attitude. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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".....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about"
...you don't believe everything you read on here, do you?  |
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"Maybe I'm reading this wrong but I'm struggling to see where the op is displaying a superiority complex?
I get that it's not a wise move to ask if he should lower his standards but the fact that he has standards should be a positive surely?
There are lots of people on here that I wouldn't touch with someone else's for any number of reasons but mostly due to attitude. "
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Don’t ever ever lower your standards OP! Carry on meeting people who fit and match what you’re looking for.
Ladies and couples can instantly tell from the tone of your message if your approach is one that is of a scattergun nature so that won’t do you any favours at all.
I firmly believe that regardless of the fact there’s so many single men on here. We have just as much as right to be as selective as we wish when seeking out possible playmates. |
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".....was genuinely looking at profiles that I had blocked and it looked like they were having a lot of fun.....but then they arent attractive ......so it brings the whole dilemma about
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They aren't attractive to you, that doesn't mean they're unattractive to everyone.
Don't try to meet people you don't find attractive, it's disrespectful to them. |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"I'm a single fella on here, my blocked list means its like a deserted wasteland on here! So the dilemma is:
1. Should I lower my standards to get a chance of more action
2. Carry on regardless and only meet peeps of suitable standards
What would you do?"
Why should you lower your standards?,would the females/couples lower there's for you?.
Theres plenty of other sites to meet females and couples. |
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Lower your standards
People pretend like standards matter, and they do, but also, be realistic
Is it ok if you have very little to offer but your standards are only the very best? Sure
But you need to accept you’ll be alone then.
Standards are like budgets. If you’ll only accept driving a Ferrari but you work at Tesco, then you’d better be happy taking the bus.
People act like lowering your standards is always a bad thing. It isn’t. Sometimes it’s about taking a long, hard, truthful look at yourself and admitting your not all that |
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"Lower your standards
People pretend like standards matter, and they do, but also, be realistic
Is it ok if you have very little to offer but your standards are only the very best? Sure
But you need to accept you’ll be alone then.
Standards are like budgets. If you’ll only accept driving a Ferrari but you work at Tesco, then you’d better be happy taking the bus.
People act like lowering your standards is always a bad thing. It isn’t. Sometimes it’s about taking a long, hard, truthful look at yourself and admitting your not all that "
I’ll add to this, you have 3 options
1. Get nothing
2. Lower your standards
3. Improve yourself so your standards are more realistic
1 and 2 are easy.
3 is difficult and not always possible |
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"It has been said superiority complexes are a reaction to a deep feeling of inferiority. So you see OP you’re not that special after-all. Plenty better profiles so please go ahead and add me to your block list.
Done
My high standards have a tendency to not be with someone who is an arrogant person who acts as if they're superior, more worthy, and more important than others.
and already having more than one or two peeps that make me feel really good, then it really doesn't matter how many like you block me. "
OP, maybe I’ve been a bit too harsh in my comments and if so I apologise for the misunderstanding. I’m sorry on the basis that I didn’t give you the benefit of doubt and that you may well be a standup kind of guy. Wish you well in meeting others to your liking. Enjoy the chemistry. |
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