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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not really about the content, most people aren't going to write something offputting !!!
But it does prove they are who they say they are and that they turn up etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has been on here a long time with only 1 or 2 you wonder.
Not everyone posts verifications, we've meet numerous couples on here who haven't posted a verification on our profile."
when we were on here before we verified everyone but a bit half arsed now. if its a good meet we do or if they deserve one. sounds a bit arsy but you have to draw a line |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I suppose there is a difference between a nice verification and a graphic one....
with regards to how many is too many.... good bloody question!!!!  a few of mine are from social meets... so I suppose its how they are perceived.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never meet people based on verfications, they mean bugger all, all beacuse someone thinks they nice and a great shag dont mean i will, plus ive been let down by verified people befor |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
Its nice to see that others have an opinion if the guy/couple are polite, easy going etc.
As for the more graphic stuff - rather not read what they think as no two people are the same, so would not necc be my opinion.
AS for how many is too many???? No idea!!! A few a month if ya lucky???
But then when playing with same person/people, you dont verify them each and everytime, so it could look like you are having a "dry" spell, but are actually needing waders and arm bands |
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one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish? "
If all their meets left the site i would think they were doing something wrong, lolol |
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"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?
If all their meets left the site i would think they were doing something wrong, lolol"
year but they might have only had one or two |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish? "
if you are verified
then they leave the verification goes too
but you still show as verified on your profile |
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"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?
if you are verified
then they leave the verification goes too
but you still show as verified on your profile "
thankyou...I did wonder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose there is a difference between a nice verification and a graphic one....
with regards to how many is too many.... good bloody question!!!! a few of mine are from social meets... so I suppose its how they are perceived.."
Social meet verifications say a lot as its not normally a shagging one so people comment on you as people not performers. we have to get on with who we play with pretty well so for us it does help a little when someone first contacts us and if we want to get to know them |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?
If all their meets left the site i would think they were doing something wrong, lolol
year but they might have only had one or two"
true
Think the message should stay, cos its bad luck if it didnt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?
if you are verified
then they leave the verification goes too
but you still show as verified on your profile "
if you only have 1 verfication and that person leaves the site so u no longer have a verfication how can your profile show as being verified when you no longer are? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"if you only have 1 verfication and that person leaves the site so u no longer have a verfication how can your profile show as being verified when you no longer are? "
Because the person who left the site did verify you as genuine when they were on previously and it's not your fault they decided to leave |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
Boldon |
"one thing I'm curious about.......say someone has been verified a couple of times (whether they chose to post them on their profile or not, and just have the verified profile message showing) then the people who verified them leave the site...well obviously the verifications would dissappear but would the "verified profile" message also vanish?
if you are verified
then they leave the verification goes too
but you still show as verified on your profile
if you only have 1 verfication and that person leaves the site so u no longer have a verfication how can your profile show as being verified when you no longer are? "
but you were verified and there fore your profile showes that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now only leave ones that I mean. In the bad old days I'd leave them for everyone regardless of what I really thought. I'd word them strategically though 
I don't post mine to my profile as I see them more as a comment to me rather than others. After all, just because I clicked with one guy and had an amazing time doesn't mean that the next meet would feel the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually i've met a couple of people with no verifications, i like to chat a bit before i meet anyone, cos if i don't get on with em online i'm not going to in person.
and actually make a decision based on that rather than what other people say ... although it is nice to know he's turned up and is ok .... but then 2 of my non turn ups had verifications, so it really only means a few people have met him, and he hasn't killed em  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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iv seen pages with the dead sea scrolls length of verifications and it actually puts me off??
also came across a few profiles with fake verifications so really the dont mean anythin ! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been verified - about 60 times.
I like my verifications, I think only one mentions us having sex (strange that because that was one of the couples we didn't have sex with)
We have had sex with about 3 of the people who verified us, in fact my verifications span 3 different girlfriends
What they do say is lots about my personality and that's why I like them, love me or hate me I am what I am and it's good that people can see that before they meet me.
Are people put off by us having so many - definetely but who cares, if they couldn't be bothered reading them they probably weren't the kind of people we like anyway.
Phone and cam verifications, waste of time and actually very missleading
Why no bad verifications, because if you sent a bad one the person would just choose not to display it but thier profile would show as "VERIFIED GENUINE" giving the opposite to what you intended |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I like verifications if only to know that the person does actually turn up.
I find I have a healthy distrust of people who have them and hide all of them, but maybe I'm way too cynical.
I add all mine so folk can contact my meets and ask about me what they want to know.
Good or bad, makes no odds to me. Not everyone will like me, but a lot od and it's those I am interested in fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i rarely meet up unless person is verified
so many guys pretending to be girls
so many saddos -
was given an addres once by a prat - knocked on door and elderly couple answered door - had to pretend to not know where i was and asked directions !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications, profiles, pictures they all mean feck all in the big scheme of things as they can all, and frequently are, be falsified.
A phone call to try to work out if folk SOUND genuine is the first step.
A meet on neutral ground for an exploratory chat and a drink is an absolute no brainer. Why oh why would anyone be so stupid as to go to a strangers house for the initial meet with all the potential for it to go horribly wrong simply astounds me.
Then the final decision, and for 8 years this process has worked pretty well for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A meet on neutral ground for an exploratory chat and a drink is an absolute no brainer. Why oh why would anyone be so stupid as to go to a strangers house for the initial meet with all the potential for it to go horribly wrong simply astounds me.
Then the final decision, and for 8 years this process has worked pretty well for us "
Twice, twice we have been talked into going to someones house first.. BIG mistake, HUGE mistake... Never, never ever ever again no no no NO!!
Your right lol... Twice given the sob story.. belived em.. What a feckin dummy lol... |
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"A meet on neutral ground for an exploratory chat and a drink is an absolute no brainer. Why oh why would anyone be so stupid as to go to a strangers house for the initial meet with all the potential for it to go horribly wrong simply astounds me.
Then the final decision, and for 8 years this process has worked pretty well for us
Twice, twice we have been talked into going to someones house first.. BIG mistake, HUGE mistake... Never, never ever ever again no no no NO!!
Your right lol... Twice given the sob story.. belived em.. What a feckin dummy lol... "
Apologies but that made me giggle.........did take us a couple of BIG BIG mistakes to work out not playing on the first meet was probably a very smart move as well |
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