Maybe because a lot of them who do just get random abuse messages. I’ve seen loads say that on here. I don’t think it needs to be on a profile as long as they’re honest about it in private message. It’s usually the first thing I ask anyway. |
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"I do usually ask probably got out of the habit though ... there should be a filter for it though "
Realistically the ones who are going to lie anyway wont use it though and the ones who admit it will have it on their profile or tell you so it wouldn’t make much difference. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe because a lot of them who do just get random abuse messages. I’ve seen loads say that on here. I don’t think it needs to be on a profile as long as they’re honest about it in private message. It’s usually the first thing I ask anyway. "
Some wait until you've had a lengthy chat to disclose it. Some invite you over when the wife is away.
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"Maybe because a lot of them who do just get random abuse messages. I’ve seen loads say that on here. I don’t think it needs to be on a profile as long as they’re honest about it in private message. It’s usually the first thing I ask anyway.
Some wait until you've had a lengthy chat to disclose it. Some invite you over when the wife is away.
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True. I’ve always been pretty good at sussing out if they’re married though. And to be fair a lot have been honest about it especially as I always say are you attached it doesn’t bother me if you are. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
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"Maybe because a lot of them who do just get random abuse messages. I’ve seen loads say that on here. I don’t think it needs to be on a profile as long as they’re honest about it in private message. It’s usually the first thing I ask anyway.
Some wait until you've had a lengthy chat to disclose it. Some invite you over when the wife is away.
True. I’ve always been pretty good at sussing out if they’re married though. And to be fair a lot have been honest about it especially as I always say are you attached it doesn’t bother me if you are. "
I ask, and I've been asked myself. |
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"Those that accommodate. That’s a way of sorting the attached ones out. "
Rubbish. I know plenty men who have joint custody of their children and, like me, wouldn’t accommodate in a million years. And good on them too. |
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"When women say attached do they mean cheaters or do they just mean anyone with a partner? That’s one thing I’ve always wondered. "
For me, I use the term for people with partners regardless of marital status. Cheater covers all if the partner is unaware. |
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Yeah but even many who say their are single are lying so it's hard to rule then all out! I do like it when genuine ppl tell the truth that they are married or attached!
But to be honest the abuse I get for chatting and won't meet married is unreal too! Just get called a time waster!! Why I state on my profile i won't meet married or attached ?? |
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"When women say attached do they mean cheaters or do they just mean anyone with a partner? That’s one thing I’ve always wondered.
For me, I use the term for people with partners regardless of marital status. Cheater covers all if the partner is unaware."
So like people with partners that are aware? Just so I know not to message these accounts lmao |
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"When women say attached do they mean cheaters or do they just mean anyone with a partner? That’s one thing I’ve always wondered.
For me, I use the term for people with partners regardless of marital status. Cheater covers all if the partner is unaware.
So like people with partners that are aware? Just so I know not to message these accounts lmao"
Always better to clarify if there is a partner and if they're aware or unaware.
Words and personal perception of words can change hugely from individual to individual.
Much like Amber fucking Heard using pledged and donated synonymously
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By *lexV16Man
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"Those that accommodate. That’s a way of sorting the attached ones out. "
What a bullshit! Maybe I just don’t want to bring random stranger home.
Or maybe as was on another forum thread I host Ukrainian escaping war… or many more reasons apart from being attached
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"When women say attached do they mean cheaters or do they just mean anyone with a partner? That’s one thing I’ve always wondered.
For me, I use the term for people with partners regardless of marital status. Cheater covers all if the partner is unaware.
So like people with partners that are aware? Just so I know not to message these accounts lmao
Always better to clarify if there is a partner and if they're aware or unaware.
Words and personal perception of words can change hugely from individual to individual.
Much like Amber fucking Heard using pledged and donated synonymously
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Fair. I’m just not goings message people with that in their profiles. Saves me a headache  |
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i dont ask cos i dont care its not my beeswax
And maybe, just maybe, her view isn't something 
