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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On one hand you love the thrill of the chase (if I’m not worth fighting for, you don’t deserve me), on the other hand no means no (so stop harassing me)
What’s the difference?
Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God I’m too old for all that chase stuff. I won’t be doing any chasing. I don’t expect anyone to chase me either. I like a simple life 
FAF Daniel?"
Ah g’wan then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about the cake for me, if it is apparent in the first few messages that cake is not forthcoming then I'm done
Would you like a cake.  "
Yes please |
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"God I’m too old for all that chase stuff. I won’t be doing any chasing. I don’t expect anyone to chase me either. I like a simple life
FAF Daniel?
Ah g’wan then "
Excellent stay right where you are. I’m not chasing you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God I’m too old for all that chase stuff. I won’t be doing any chasing. I don’t expect anyone to chase me either. I like a simple life
FAF Daniel?
Ah g’wan then
Excellent stay right where you are. I’m not chasing you. "
At my age and with my knees, I’m not moving anywhere very quickly my lovely x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
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Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My lover took 6 months to get a meet with me but he persisted in a good way and I wish I had met him sooner..
You can tell whether its negative or positive attention I think.
Its taken me 2 years to be much stricter when choosing.lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My lover took 6 months to get a meet with me but he persisted in a good way and I wish I had met him sooner..
You can tell whether its negative or positive attention I think.
Its taken me 2 years to be much stricter when choosing.lol. "
but you fancied him I guess, do you think that gave him some leeway that less attractive people would not get? |
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"Fancy a game of kisschase OP? 
Only if you promise to go slow, I’m not as nimble as I was and my knees are seizing up  "
You'll be ok. I've not got a sports bra on so I'll have to hold them down and go slow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A"
What a wonderful view of women you have |
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It’s not about the attractiveness so much it’s the connection and if they are sexually compatible. I like the thrill of the chase but if I’m not getting that I ‘want to ride your face’ spark then it isn’t happening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God I’m too old for all that chase stuff. I won’t be doing any chasing. I don’t expect anyone to chase me either. I like a simple life
FAF Daniel?
Ah g’wan then
Excellent stay right where you are. I’m not chasing you. "
Does anyone else have the Benny Hill theme tune in their head now? No, just me? Ok as you were… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fancy a game of kisschase OP?
Only if you promise to go slow, I’m not as nimble as I was and my knees are seizing up
You'll be ok. I've not got a sports bra on so I'll have to hold them down and go slow "
 count me in!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't particularly want to be chased. A man this week accused me of playing hard to get. I said I'd think about coffee. I'm still thinking because I'm risk-averse. If I'm interested, I will flirt. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A
What a wonderful view of women you have"
It's called a joke. But never mind.. .. 
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the ego boost of being chased by desperate men who have resorted to messaging a gay woman with no pics on a sex site.
I have wonderful tits and I'm a lovely person, clearly shown by the * on my profile.
If they get arsey when I say no it's a huuuge ego boost because their cock is so hard for me it made them super sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A
What a wonderful view of women you have
It's called a joke. But never mind.. ..
A"
You realise there are men here who do have this view? Several on the forum I could name. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"
Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A
What a wonderful view of women you have
It's called a joke. But never mind.. ..
A
You realise there are men here who do have this view? Several on the forum I could name. "
Oh I know. I've seen the other thread today.
I incorrectly assumed the complete lack of subtlety in my post was a hint of humour.
If I'd been serious I'd have also included the TV being covered in dust all the time, the plugholes being full of hair and the car constantly coming home with dents due to an incapacity to reverse park.
But that would have been blatantly sexist..... .
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"On one hand you love the thrill of the chase (if I’m not worth fighting for, you don’t deserve me), on the other hand no means no (so stop harassing me)
What’s the difference?
Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
(* Disclaimer. This thread does not necessarily represent the views of the OP, and is intended for entertainment purposes only )"
Yes. Simple really. If we like you then chase us by all means. If we don't like you and tell you so then stop when we say no thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
Of course it is.
Or I some cases their status, bank balance, job or some other attribute that they desire.
All those young attractive 20something women aren't with the wrinkly 60something millionaire playboys for no reason at all.
Certain things are get out of jail free cards when pursuing some women.
The same as many men will put up with constant whining and coming home from work to find the sink still full, the washing not done and the carpets not vacuumed....as long as they get a blowie and anal every night.
A
What a wonderful view of women you have
It's called a joke. But never mind.. ..
A
You realise there are men here who do have this view? Several on the forum I could name.
Oh I know. I've seen the other thread today.
I incorrectly assumed the complete lack of subtlety in my post was a hint of humour.
If I'd been serious I'd have also included the TV being covered in dust all the time, the plugholes being full of hair and the car constantly coming home with dents due to an incapacity to reverse park.
But that would have been blatantly sexist..... .
A"
Sexist I can cope with, it's the blatant woman-hating rants that tend to wind me up! |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"It's all about the cake for me, if it is apparent in the first few messages that cake is not forthcoming then I'm done"
Well then, what manner of cake are we getting you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't particularly want to be chased. A man this week accused me of playing hard to get. I said I'd think about coffee. I'm still thinking because I'm risk-averse. If I'm interested, I will flirt. "
I guess that’s the key isn’t it, what response the suitor gets back. Is it a clear and firm “no” or is there a little tease, a little hook, that says “come back and try again”. It’s when those signals are misread I guess that the issues occur! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the ego boost of being chased by desperate men who have resorted to messaging a gay woman with no pics on a sex site.
I have wonderful tits and I'm a lovely person, clearly shown by the * on my profile.
If they get arsey when I say no it's a huuuge ego boost because their cock is so hard for me it made them super sad. "
I  your profile! So hot!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On one hand you love the thrill of the chase (if I’m not worth fighting for, you don’t deserve me), on the other hand no means no (so stop harassing me)
What’s the difference?
Is it the attractiveness of the suitor?
(* Disclaimer. This thread does not necessarily represent the views of the OP, and is intended for entertainment purposes only )
Yes. Simple really. If we like you then chase us by all means. If we don't like you and tell you so then stop when we say no thank you. "
What if you like us but don’t tell us?
I’m way past that all now, far too old, but in my younger days I’ve been scolded for not pursing the chase. But they’d said no. And no means no, right? Unless it means chase harder to prove you’re worthy of me. Gives me a headache, or at least it did. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't particularly want to be chased. A man this week accused me of playing hard to get. I said I'd think about coffee. I'm still thinking because I'm risk-averse. If I'm interested, I will flirt. "
I won't chase you. I may rent us all some Segway's for a Benny Hill style scene though...
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Showing an interest in someone isn't chasing them.
If you carry on showing an interest after they made it clear they aren't interested that's harassment.
If they are interested they'll respond accordingly.
Playing hard to get is an old fashioned notion men used to say when women wouldn't drop their knickers on a first, second or third date.
Anything else is courting. |
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"I love the ego boost of being chased by desperate men who have resorted to messaging a gay woman with no pics on a sex site.
I have wonderful tits and I'm a lovely person, clearly shown by the * on my profile.
If they get arsey when I say no it's a huuuge ego boost because their cock is so hard for me it made them super sad.
I your profile! So hot!! "
I know prick tease right? I’m fuming!
( tongue in cheek) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now that's out of the way, do you fancy a fuck, Dan?
Don't bother saying no, I know you do, you little fanny teaser "
Look I said no back in 2018. THIS IS HARASSMENT!!
(Oh, ok then, just a quickie  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My lover took 6 months to get a meet with me but he persisted in a good way and I wish I had met him sooner..
You can tell whether its negative or positive attention I think.
Its taken me 2 years to be much stricter when choosing.lol.
but you fancied him I guess, do you think that gave him some leeway that less attractive people would not get? "
I did fancy him but had a playmate at the time so when we finished I said yes to a meet and 18 months later we're still going strong.. |
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