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Would women favour a Man Ban
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a difference between single men just sending a message and single men sending dozens of messages after being told no; if I tell you no leave me alone. No means no and a lot of single men here struggle to understand |
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"The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed! "
Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.
Less unwanted dickius picturious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive. "
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope I wouldn't be here if men were banned.
And I keep tight filters so I don't get too many messages and any ones that cheat my filters, are ones like FAF or don't interest me I just delete. I have no issue messaging profiles first if they interest me .The worst that can happen is they ignore me or delete the message.
Getting the odd abusive message doesn't bother me they are random strangers on here so I don't give a toss what they think of me or the abuse they give,and it's like the rubbish taking itself out when they give abuse anyhow.
So no I think fab works grand just as it is. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed!
Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.
Less unwanted dickius picturious."
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."
Unfairly so yes. I like the men I know. I’m just careful who I speak to. Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."
Men wouldn’t so ‘oft bemoaned’ if they had some respect for women / nb people who say they don’t wanna talk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s a difference between single men just sending a message and single men sending dozens of messages after being told no; if I tell you no leave me alone. No means no and a lot of single men here struggle to understand "
Do you think a no reply auto block system from sending again, if unanswered within the fab message system? |
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No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.
Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lads its as simple as this if the lady says no just move on and don't pester the girl "
Not about pestering, that's a no no, but if single men weren't here, what would fab be? |
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I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.
If you send a message and there is no response then you can’t send another for, say, a day to that account. If that doesn’t get a response then you are delayed for 3 days, then a week, then two weeks, then a month, then a quarter.
It will stop all the rapid response merchants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.
Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate."
I would agree with this but I hate the think of the way some men treat the females in their lives  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope I wouldn't be here if men were banned.
And I keep tight filters so I don't get too many messages and any ones that cheat my filters, are ones like FAF or don't interest me I just delete. I have no issue messaging profiles first if they interest me .The worst that can happen is they ignore me or delete the message.
Getting the odd abusive message doesn't bother me they are random strangers on here so I don't give a toss what they think of me or the abuse they give,and it's like the rubbish taking itself out when they give abuse anyhow.
So no I think fab works grand just as it is. "
Hope exists, thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though. 
What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM "
stop it, this is softly serious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.
Unfairly so yes. I like the men I know. I’m just careful who I speak to. Simple "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.
What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM
stop it, this is softly serious. BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM"
Huff, I give up |
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"This is meant to be an exploitive thread! ...yeah it was funny though.
What's an exploitive thread?a thread that goes BOOM
stop it, this is softly serious. BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM
Huff, I give up "
boom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.
If you send a message and there is no response then you can’t send another for, say, a day to that account. If that doesn’t get a response then you are delayed for 3 days, then a week, then two weeks, then a month, then a quarter.
It will stop all the rapid response merchants."
I like this idea of a rapid response merchant. Like an emergency sex service |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The inbox mail system of single women (yeah ok) and couples are pressed to explosion by single male messages, sorry, I meant cock pics. But? If the site was devoid of flying solo guys, would fab not die? Despite being the majority, if we weren't present, fab as a business model would be, well want of a better word... Fabbed!
Make it more like Bumble then, ladies/couples have to message gents first.
Less unwanted dickius picturious."
Men would still complain they don’t get any messages.
If someone likes you they will reply to you or message you, regardless of what other men send - What other guys send has nothing to do with whatever happens to your messages. |
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"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.
If you send a message and there is no response then you can’t send another for, say, a day to that account. If that doesn’t get a response then you are delayed for 3 days, then a week, then two weeks, then a month, then a quarter.
It will stop all the rapid response merchants.
I like this idea of a rapid response merchant. Like an emergency sex service "
as long as they are not rapid in the bedroom as well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the site just needs a delay built in to stop rapid repeat messages.
If you send a message and there is no response then you can’t send another for, say, a day to that account. If that doesn’t get a response then you are delayed for 3 days, then a week, then two weeks, then a month, then a quarter.
It will stop all the rapid response merchants."
Yeah, that would work too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men just need to learn to take no for answer; I also hate married men messaging me and expecting a response even after I say I don’t communicate with married men |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
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Why ban dick pics from their profile pics it's their profile they can put whatever they want on it just like any woman can on theirs ,you can just ignore a profile that has dick pics if you don't like them. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."
Got any idea why people moan about them?
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I agree with you all to an extent ive never sent a dick pic nor will i ever unless aaked to do so im sating that men are rampant on this site to the ratio of women which gives no man hope im in no ruch so i dont push it co.es when it comes bit i can unsderstand to a degree why men multi message ive even had multi messages from men so get where you ladies are coming from. Some of us men just want to have fun like you tho , i agree dic pics suckass if some one doesnt reply leave em.be id agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
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Yes!!!! It would make it a given to have to be sincere and sell your character, compatibility and reason for messaging. |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
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This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles |
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"No. I just want people to treat others with the respect they would want to be treated.
Or, with the respect that they would want their mother/sister/daughter to be treated, if they can't get their head around gender differences in the way these things operate.
I would agree with this but I hate the think of the way some men treat the females in their lives "
True |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.
Got any idea why people moan about them?
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Yes, I used to have a couples profile here, I know, believe me. |
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"Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles"
A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
Why ban dick pics from their profile pics it's their profile they can put whatever they want on it just like any woman can on theirs ,you can just ignore a profile that has dick pics if you don't like them."
Because I'm not attracted to the man on the basis of what his dick looks like. They can still have them in their albums, just not as their avatar. |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps "
100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic  |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps
100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic "
Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist 
Also thank you |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps
100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic
Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist
Also thank you "
Aww now I'm blushing!! |
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"Ban the men from having dick pics as their profile pics. Have a word count for profiles.
That might make searching easier for women and then we might send more first messages.
This could help a little, I only usually show mine on a Tuesday and think that helps
100% more likely to send you a msg based on your avatar compared to a dick pic
Is this a good time to mention you're on my hotlist
Also thank you
Aww now I'm blushing!! "
Good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned."
Not all men |
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.
Not all men"
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles
A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching "
That's a fair point...but I've noticed most women specifically ask for a face pic with the first message they receive |
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"I don’t want to ban single men. I just don’t wish to be spoken to like a piece of meat or have a cock shoved in my face as some kind of incentive.
You miss my point, no person would wish to be considered as such. But men do make the world of fab go round, yet are oft bemoaned.
Not all men"
We're alright pickle, I don't think we've been bemoaned yet. Not unless it's in private anyway  |
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"Introducing a match system (similar to some dating apps, where you can only message a person if you match with them) would remove a lot of issues associated with fab...specifically the unsolicited dick pics, and it would also force men to put some more effort in building up their profiles
A way to stop unsolicited pics would be have a option to turn receiving photos off all together. Having a swipe system would still open that option after matching
That's a fair point...but I've noticed most women specifically ask for a face pic with the first message they receive "
I don't have a problem with that but also don't think I've been asked as people either already know what I look or I have it to view already anyway.
If they ask straight away then they need to be attracted to a face to want to get to know someone I'm guessing |
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