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Have paid for sex in Thailand had girls stay with me all week,it was fun and didn’t seem sordid,thinking of meeting a prostitute now,but all seems a bit clinical,have you met a pro in England and was it a good experience |
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over a year ago
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Never but I do have some experience as I have escort myself before wasn’t for me
Found it was just people who I had turned down before on here or other platforms
Think it’s clinical because at the end off the day it’s work it’s not exactly fun as I found out
My thinking behind doing it was
A win win but turned out to be a hollow win lose type
Ie getting payed to have sex sound good
But when your not in to the person or you feel the person is out your age range
Witch in turn made it a hollow experience whare yes I won by make money but lost
By the fact I had sex with someone I wouldn’t normally would have had
Dose make me respect the people doing it
Good on them just wasn’t for me
Maybe if I could pick and choose first then would be but it’s really is a blind service
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I have thought about doing this in the past but my lack of being in 1 place for very long would make that difficult. I occasionally answer craiglist ads if im in their area. |
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"Never but I do have some experience as I have escort myself before wasn’t for me
Found it was just people who I had turned down before on here or other platforms
Think it’s clinical because at the end off the day it’s work it’s not exactly fun as I found out
My thinking behind doing it was
A win win but turned out to be a hollow win lose type
Ie getting payed to have sex sound good
But when your not in to the person or you feel the person is out your age range
Witch in turn made it a hollow experience whare yes I won by make money but lost
By the fact I had sex with someone I wouldn’t normally would have had
Dose make me respect the people doing it
Good on them just wasn’t for me
Maybe if I could pick and choose first then would be but it’s really is a blind service
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Yeah I can imagine it can be tough, you look great though to happy customers,but not the job for you |
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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago
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I had a relationship with an escort for about 2 years.
She turned to it after he ex cleared off leaving a load of debt to pay.
Her friend was doing it and got her in to an agency she worked for.
It was a conveyer belt system and one day she had 6 bookings and she couldnt cope with that so went indie.
She only did one a day from her own home but she was still earning about a grand a week.
The trouble with working from your own home is it leaves you open to the odd idiot turning up pissed wanting a BJ.
I used to do the driving if she did outcalls, which was very rare but she had 2or 3 regulars that she was willing to visit
She paid off the debt that she was left with and worked for a few more months building up a nice litte next egg. |
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over a year ago
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We all pay for sex one way or another… 
I wouldn’t pay cash, I’m. It against it in anyway. But I’d rather someone want me and not just my money. It’s not about me wanting them, even though I do….it’s hard to explain.
And I’m cheap.  |
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over a year ago
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"The thought of someone having sex with me just because I'd paid them, I dont see the attraction.
Too fake. I would do it for free lol."
Like charity work? Very kind of you. |
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I’ve never seen an escort but I’ve visited several massage practitioners both male and female who ably deal with anything that comes up and there’s always a financial aspect to these meets. So I’ve paid for a sexual act. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"The thought of someone having sex with me just because I'd paid them, I dont see the attraction.
Too fake. "
That’s how I feel.
For me, part of the thrill is the reciprocated desire and mutual attraction. A purely functional sex act doesn’t do it for me |
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"The thought of someone having sex with me just because I'd paid them, I dont see the attraction.
Too fake. I would do it for free lol.
Like charity work? Very kind of you. "
it would be my pleasure. Pay eachother and give it to charity hehe. Sorry feeling very naughty today. |
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over a year ago
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Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually. |
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"Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually."
I desire my gold top. These weetabix need milk  x |
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"Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually."
Some WG’s are working of their own free will.
A friend of mine is a WG and runs it as a business , producing accounts and paying tax. She has very specific goals and plans in life and the work funds her plans very well.
Another girl I know started out as a full service operator, trained in massage and now operates in a dual capacity, as a legit masseuse in one premises and still providing “rub and tug” service (at a higher cost) to some of her old clients.
Yes I realise that there is massive coercion in the sex industry, but not all WG’s have been forced / tricked into it. |
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"I have thought about doing this in the past but my lack of being in 1 place for very long would make that difficult. I occasionally answer craiglist ads if im in their area."
I can give you some confidential advice on this. Get in touch if interested. No catch. Not trying to wangle meeting... But want to be helpful |
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"Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually.
Some WG’s are working of their own free will.
A friend of mine is a WG and runs it as a business , producing accounts and paying tax. She has very specific goals and plans in life and the work funds her plans very well.
Another girl I know started out as a full service operator, trained in massage and now operates in a dual capacity, as a legit masseuse in one premises and still providing “rub and tug” service (at a higher cost) to some of her old clients.
Yes I realise that there is massive coercion in the sex industry, but not all WG’s have been forced / tricked into it. "
I think this is key: a free, informed choice to sell sex is not inherently wrong as a business transaction. The problem is how many of the women doing so are in that position and not being abused in some way? |
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Yes I do every now and again. I go for a particular type and if you do your research via a well known site I’m never disappointed.
You also get whatever you want in terms of kinks, likes, positions etc. depending on your mood.
I also have the occasional happy ending massage and love anal play & prostate massage whilst a young girl is wanking me off. Yes you have to pay but otherwise this would never happen with someone I’d ever meet in real life as I’m too old now. |
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Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off. "
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. "
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never, its never interested me i prefer the natural mutual getting to know eachother. I couldnt pay for company the 'clinical' side of it doesnt do it for me sex is amazing with a connection, for me sex is absolutely empty without it no matter how hot a woman is.  |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!"
So for just average looks I could get away with charging half that surely?? |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!
So for just average looks I could get away with charging half that surely??"
 . Not sure I could do it anyway but I may manage minimum wage if i tried |
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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago
South Shields |
"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. "
My ex charged £120p/h. but she used to get guys who wanted something different and they would pay more. She had one guy who would give her £200 to watch her play with her self in the shower. he would sit on a stool wanking him self. Another guy paid the same to watch her wee herself in her knickers. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!"
£345 !!!!! Up North you can get 1hr massage for £40 plus an extra £20 for happy ending. 1hr B2B for £80 inc happy ending….. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!
£345 !!!!! Up North you can get 1hr massage for £40 plus an extra £20 for happy ending. 1hr B2B for £80 inc happy ending….. "
We are classy up north. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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Over the years seen many. Lots where average and only saw them once.
A few have been great fun and very enjoyable.
About 5 have been absolutely awesome and now I have one where the sex her drive her body is perfection. She only sees just myself and her full time job is a PT and she used to compete in fitness model body building.
I did find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow lol. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!
£345 !!!!! Up North you can get 1hr massage for £40 plus an extra £20 for happy ending. 1hr B2B for £80 inc happy ending….. "
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"Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually.
Some WG’s are working of their own free will.
A friend of mine is a WG and runs it as a business , producing accounts and paying tax. She has very specific goals and plans in life and the work funds her plans very well.
Another girl I know started out as a full service operator, trained in massage and now operates in a dual capacity, as a legit masseuse in one premises and still providing “rub and tug” service (at a higher cost) to some of her old clients.
Yes I realise that there is massive coercion in the sex industry, but not all WG’s have been forced / tricked into it. "
I just watched 'Escorts' on Netflix which is about 2 girls working in Knightsbrige and they explained that yo stay out of trouble by being expensive and working for home with another girl. Street girls are generally junkies feeding drug habits. It's a great watch in many respects. |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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I've done escorting and all the guys I have met have been respectful.
Charging a good rate normally helps (150 an hour) and we avoid anyone trying to haggle the rate.
Sticking to the boundaries girls have set out is a must, don't think because you are paying you can do what you like... you are paying for their time.
It's good money and as I done it as a side job I felt I had more choice.. 1/2 a week which made the experience more fun. |
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"I've done escorting and all the guys I have met have been respectful.
Charging a good rate normally helps (150 an hour) and we avoid anyone trying to haggle the rate.
Sticking to the boundaries girls have set out is a must, don't think because you are paying you can do what you like... you are paying for their time.
It's good money and as I done it as a side job I felt I had more choice.. 1/2 a week which made the experience more fun. "
Why not? Your body, your choice. Good luck x |
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I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. "
£150 per hour is the equivalent of a full time job paying £375,000 per year.
Obviously an escort does not work all day, 5 days a week, but perhaps that is the reason some girls chose the escort route when the Aldi equivalent is £20k per annum. |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
"
That's the only thing that worries me, especially with two daughters would be some sicko pimp trying to muscle in. Safety an issue I guess. I deride no one for trying to get through life x |
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"Would love a couple of whores and some before I get to old "
A couple of whores .. dear or dear .. May be you should of reference to them as call girls .. working girls but couple of whores is a bit below the belt .. saying that what does one expect from a guy who has a selfie of him wearing £4.99 joggers  |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
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Exactly my experience but without the pestering from pimps. Most of the guys were lonely and I think I spent more time talking then playing. |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
Exactly my experience but without the pestering from pimps. Most of the guys were lonely and I think I spent more time talking then playing. "
Do it for yourself. Hate the idea of a pimp  x |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
That's the only thing that worries me, especially with two daughters would be some sicko pimp trying to muscle in. Safety an issue I guess. I deride no one for trying to get through life x"
I’m not one to be easily intimidated, but yeah it got pretty intense, those guys do not like being told no!! So I would worry for the safety of women doing it on their own. And unfortunately it’s not really an “acceptable” line of work here in Ireland, so most are reluctant to get police involved. |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
Exactly my experience but without the pestering from pimps. Most of the guys were lonely and I think I spent more time talking then playing. "
It’s really sad isn’t it, someone being so lonely or desperate for intimacy (not necessarily sex) that they have to resort to paying for it. One gentleman that I met truly broke my heart. He was in his 70’s and his wife had passed away, all he wanted was a chat and then to snuggle up behind me in bed, he struggled to sleep since losing his wife because he was so used to her being next to him. So I would stay until he fell asleep and then quietly creep out. Nearly crying now thinking about it. |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
That's the only thing that worries me, especially with two daughters would be some sicko pimp trying to muscle in. Safety an issue I guess. I deride no one for trying to get through life x
I’m not one to be easily intimidated, but yeah it got pretty intense, those guys do not like being told no!! So I would worry for the safety of women doing it on their own. And unfortunately it’s not really an “acceptable” line of work here in Ireland, so most are reluctant to get police involved. "
If my daughters wanted to do it, I wouldn't stop them. If it gives them a chance to love life, and be their own boss,why not? I would worry about safety. Ha, the police? They probably know more escorts than anyone else, and probably know how to coerce what they want  x |
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"I worked as an escort a number of years ago. I had a regular day job too but was really struggling financially so decided to give escorting a go.
I worked for myself and was very particular about who I would meet. I never had anyone come to my home, most of the time it was a hotel meet (paid for by the client) with the occasional car meet thrown in.
A lot of my clients were actually (corny as it sounds) just lonely. One of my regulars would always book me for several hours and most of that time was just spent chatting, the sex was almost an afterthought. Obviously that wasn’t the case with all my clients.
I won’t say that I loved doing it, but I didn’t hate it either.
Unfortunately, I started getting a lot of hassle from pimps, (for want of a better word), always foreign men, who didn’t like the fact I refused to work from them. That’s when I knew it was time to walk away before something bad happened.
But I like to think that non of my meets ever felt clinical or like a business transaction. Money was dealt with at the very start and then forgotten about.
I actually met some really lovely people and even became very good friends with one guy, although our relationship now is purely platonic.
That's the only thing that worries me, especially with two daughters would be some sicko pimp trying to muscle in. Safety an issue I guess. I deride no one for trying to get through life x
I’m not one to be easily intimidated, but yeah it got pretty intense, those guys do not like being told no!! So I would worry for the safety of women doing it on their own. And unfortunately it’s not really an “acceptable” line of work here in Ireland, so most are reluctant to get police involved.
If my daughters wanted to do it, I wouldn't stop them. If it gives them a chance to love life, and be their own boss,why not? I would worry about safety. Ha, the police? They probably know more escorts than anyone else, and probably know how to coerce what they want x"
Not sure how happy I’d be about my daughter going down this road... apart from the safety aspect, Ireland is a very small country and I’d be worried it could come back to haunt her one day. That said, I will always support her 100% in whatever she does. |
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"Would love a couple of whores and some before I get to old
A couple of whores .. dear or dear .. May be you should of reference to them as call girls .. working girls but couple of whores is a bit below the belt .. saying that what does one expect from a guy who has a selfie of him wearing £4.99 joggers "
They're sex workers. Not whores, call girls, prostitutes... Sex workers. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. "
I’ll be your first client  |
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"Have paid for sex in Thailand had girls stay with me all week,it was fun and didn’t seem sordid,thinking of meeting a prostitute now,but all seems a bit clinical,have you met a pro in England and was it a good experience "
I’m sorry, but I need a connection with someone before I can get intimate with them. I really would struggle to ignore the fact they’re only with me because I booked a time slot and the colour of my money allowed their knickers to drop. I genuinely would rather have a wank  |
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Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home… |
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"Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home… "
They don't have to be a sex worker for that to happen... |
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"Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home… "
its all about the illusion at the time most men once nutted are on their toes in life anyway if single . |
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"Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home… "
Ha ha ha ha ha pretty accurate ha ha |
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"Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home…
They don't have to be a sex worker for that to happen..."
True, when fab meets go wrong! Lol |
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"Just an insight: when you are writhing around inside her, giving her what you think is the best fuck you have ever had…. The passion is high, the sweat, the lust, the ever close orgasm about to fill her up….
She is thinking about what to have to eat when she gets home…
They don't have to be a sex worker for that to happen..."
And to be fair, a lot of the enjoyment of sex, is down to what is in a person's head, not the person they're doing it to. *
*this last part is a joke |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Never.
The thought that a person is being coerced by a 3rd party rather than doing it of their own free will would always be on my mind.
The thought of having to pay to access someone's body is a major turn off. I want to be desired and desire any person who I am engaging with sexually.
Some WG’s are working of their own free will.
A friend of mine is a WG and runs it as a business , producing accounts and paying tax. She has very specific goals and plans in life and the work funds her plans very well.
Another girl I know started out as a full service operator, trained in massage and now operates in a dual capacity, as a legit masseuse in one premises and still providing “rub and tug” service (at a higher cost) to some of her old clients.
Yes I realise that there is massive coercion in the sex industry, but not all WG’s have been forced / tricked into it. "
I know two , one on here , ones a dancer and sex worker , one just sex , both great girls who know exactly what they want out of life and doing well financially.
I guess there are a lot of guys out there who either can’t get sex without paying or choose to pay because it’s easier and less hassle.
I have thought about it in the past once or twice but I enjoy the flirting, date, seduction, kissing, intimacy and friendship as much as, sometimes even more than sex, so it’s of absolutely no interest. |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order. "
need to change mine too. Lol |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off. "
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
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I have used a number of prostitutes over the years generally its a good experience , have met some regularly over a period of years. Did a bit of male escort work when I was younger, not loads of demand but enjoyed what I did |
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"Hints and tips... If you want to use the services of an escort and want to avoid "exploitation".. Check their nationality and avoid any East European as they could be trafficked. Ideally use a local girl who is an independent operative. If she has her own website and it's well designed she's probably experienced and reliable. The service offered from these ladies is usually a very friendly one. Even though they are acting the part they want to put you at your ease and give you the benefit of their experience because like all service businesses they like repeat customers. Most won't show a face picture but treat it as a blind date with a guaranteed fuck. Current rate seems to be c£150 an hour so if you are asked for less..it could be dodgy. Generally escorts visiting will stay for the full hour.. Even if you cum in 5 mins unless you ask them to leave. If you book them through an agency someone would have dropped them off and would come back an hour later to collect them. That why they don't usually rush off.
£150 an hour!?
I think a career change is in order.
The lady who did my massage (we’re actually friends now). She charges £345 for 45 mins for men and she is always fully booked. She is absolutely stunning though. She doesn’t have sex with them. It’s a body to body massage and a happy ending but just hands. Good on her i say!
£345 !!!!! Up North you can get 1hr massage for £40 plus an extra £20 for happy ending. 1hr B2B for £80 inc happy ending….. "
The 345 quid rare is ludicrous. |
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"i found it convenient to use an escort with my busy life
the ladies i met were great and seen them multie times
mature ladies are the best
the younger ones just want the money "
They're all doing it for the money! The older ones are probably better at hiding it. |
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"i found it convenient to use an escort with my busy life
the ladies i met were great and seen them multie times
mature ladies are the best
the younger ones just want the money "
Did the older ones not want money then? |
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