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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
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Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you! 
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Gorgeous woman! Bacon all round  x |
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over a year ago
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Gorgeous 
I love my potato shape, round and yet potatoey  |
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over a year ago
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
If you’re funny, like small cocks and pickled onions then you’re good for me flower!! |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Plus you’re only an R away from a cracking pint! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -
If you’re funny, like small cocks and pickled onions then you’re good for me flower!! "
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Loving the having fun in the bath pic xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I like my chubbiness. I'm cute. Fat. Working on the latter but you're right, life is too short to beat myself up about it constantly and not do things. So I'm taking my glorious soft squidgey self and I'm going to embrace meeting new people. Maybe even have a flirt.  And not worry or listen to my annoying self doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
You missed off beautiful. |
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Nice to see a thread on body positivity.
I have an indentation in my chest that I was born with and have a scar on my left side from when I had open heart surgery at 6 years old but I've never let that bother me. I maybe on the hairy side as well but that's not bothered me either.
I love my body and I believe we are unique and beautiful |
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I'm positive about my body but it gets more difficult as it ages. The media concentrates so much on youth and trying to deny the signs of aging.
To all the older people out there...
Wear the short sleeves, nobody cares if your arms are a bit wrinkly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Another fat one here  |
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"I'm positive about my body but it gets more difficult as it ages. The media concentrates so much on youth and trying to deny the signs of aging.
To all the older people out there...
Wear the short sleeves, nobody cares if your penis is a bit wrinkly. "
Cheers for that Mrs NC, I'll bear that in mind  |
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"I'm positive about my body but it gets more difficult as it ages. The media concentrates so much on youth and trying to deny the signs of aging.
To all the older people out there...
Wear the short sleeves, nobody cares if your penis is a bit wrinkly.
Cheers for that Mrs NC, I'll bear that in mind "
You know it means no more chiffon sleeves to 'hide the visible signs of aging ' (how I hate that phrase) don't you ? |
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"I can’t embrace it. I don’t like it. I am doing something about it though.
Have you discovered how to turn back time?
Haha not yet unfortunately "
If only you could turn back time, eh? A wise philosopher once mused on this very question |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
I love your body x |
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"I can’t embrace it. I don’t like it. I am doing something about it though.
Have you discovered how to turn back time?
Haha not yet unfortunately
If only you could turn back time, eh? A wise philosopher once mused on this very question "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not perfect but I feel I should be.
I look at others, and think they look beautiful/sexy etc.
I see things that aren't perfect on me and I hate it, to the point it disgusts me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love the positivity OP, and absolutely endorse the positive mental attitude message! We are what we are and should absolutely embrace everything that’s positive about ourselves and not worry about the negatives, life really IS too short not to enjoy every last minute to the full 
Gotta be honest though from a personal perspective after a wholesome Christmas and then immediately hit by a bout of Covid that knocked me and my exercise regime for six, I’m fatter than I would like to be and where I was last Autumn. I put on 2 stone and in my the last few weeks getting back on the horse, so to speak, I’ve managed to cut down by almost a stone so just under half way there to getting back to where I was.
And each day I lose more I literally feel healthier, able to do things for longer and quicker, my blood pressure is reducing back to normal .. so for me (and I accept this is a totally personal perspective) I just want to make myself the best I can be (on those things I can impact and influence!) and that includes losing weight from a purely health perspective looking to the longer term.
So to everyone on the thread I would agree to embrace what you are, love yourself and your body, and if you’re not exactly where you want to be with it try and make those positive changes to get to where you’re going to be happy
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"I'm trying to love my fat
I'm trying to lose mine (some of it, at least) 
Loose it too, that's not happening  "
Indeed, I'm trying to shed, discard or otherwise rid myself of my chub
I think it'd be quicker just to melt myself down like a candle and start again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im 67 in 2 weeks ive been overweight all my life since i had my appendix out at 12 it seemed to affect my metabolism (smae thing is happening to my 21 yr old grandaughter who has gone from a 6 to a 12 in a year since her appendix was removed ) but i learnt to love myself 15 yrs ago and do you know what?? I look a whole lot different in every way ...body confidence seem to give you a light that shines around you ...just be who you are dont try to be anyone else ..xx |
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"Ooh don't you just love it when an unhealthy lifestyle that will lead to a premature death is something to be proud of...
SMH."
What, like being accepting of the use of illegal substances? People in glass houses etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ooh don't you just love it when an unhealthy lifestyle that will lead to a premature death is something to be proud of...
SMH."
Dear gentleman, I'm quite fat.
I could do you in the ring, cage or on the mats, i bet im more healthy than you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
I love this post. I am fat too. I am a member of many fat groups for body positivity, fat sex talk etc.
Since joining fab I have come to realise how much of a goddess I am considered to be in many peoples eyes. Weirdly IRL never get chatted up in pubs etc lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my chubbiness. I'm cute. Fat. Working on the latter but you're right, life is too short to beat myself up about it constantly and not do things. So I'm taking my glorious soft squidgey self and I'm going to embrace meeting new people. Maybe even have a flirt. And not worry or listen to my annoying self doubt."
I like what i see too & would love to chat with you, beauty is only skin deep, inner beauty is more important |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not perfect but I feel I should be.
I look at others, and think they look beautiful/sexy etc.
I see things that aren't perfect on me and I hate it, to the point it disgusts me. "
I think thats the problem these days, mostcof us judge ourselves far too hard & always look at what others look like but chances are they feel just like you. From what i see you look amazing, just saying... |
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It should never be about about what anyone else thinks or believes to be the norm. It's always about you, being happy in yourself, staying as fit and healthy as you can and feel positive and confident with it.If not and something makes you unhappy, talk about it and seek help if you need to address it in your own time and pace without any additional stress to your life. We are all different and that's what makes the world around us such an interesting place. How boring it would be if we were all clones of one another. Personally, I find the obsession with the 'body beautiful', for men or women, not only narcissistic but rather unhealthy in itself and I certainly don't have the time or desire to strive for it for the wrong reasons. |
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its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks"
Easier said than done especially if you’re in a lot of pain !! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
. It sounds like you have embraced / accepted been fat and called fat so fair play to you.Enjoy your bacon bap this morning |
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Lovely thread OP. I'm fat, I am squishy and squidgy. I have rolls and folds. And cellulite, stretch marks and dimply skin.
And yeah I currently loosing some of the excess weight. But it's a hell of lot easier to do when you are not your own worst critic. Wasting energy on self loathing is pointless. It's much much better spent on positive things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Sexy is not a waste size sexy is confidence and you are so dam sexy!!!
A delectable confident woman is my weakness come here you ! |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Got a plate full of bacon *rolls* and a handful of , loving the curves with your name on it .
No jokes …. |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks"
It's not easy, especially if you have mobility problems and extreme pain. I can't walk fast or very well at all sometimes, but I have lost some weight through living a healthier life style and trying to be more mobile where I can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m always looking through the hot photos for my full figure lady’s to fab their pic , they have always been my preference, gym fit has honestly never done it for me nothing against just not my cuppa. |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks"
What if you can't walk? |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks"
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
What if you can't walk? "
Then an organism burns 300 calls  |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
What if you can't walk?
Then an organism burns 300 calls "
Does it? Then I should be stick thin |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix. "
Correct. I walk 4 miles a day. Still chubby. Many people are active and are cuddly. Fuck it. Be who you are x |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix.
Correct. I walk 4 miles a day. Still chubby. Many people are active and are cuddly. Fuck it. Be who you are x"
I do 10+ miles a day in my job.....5 weeks in. 4 inches off my waist . And the other I bought an xl tee not the usual 3xl. Not everyone s success story but I'm getting where I want to be ..
.....and I can see my dick again....it had been a while |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix.
Correct. I walk 4 miles a day. Still chubby. Many people are active and are cuddly. Fuck it. Be who you are x
I do 10+ miles a day in my job.....5 weeks in. 4 inches off my waist . And the other I bought an xl tee not the usual 3xl. Not everyone s success story but I'm getting where I want to be ..
.....and I can see my dick again....it had been a while "
Well done that man! |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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I feel as body positivity is becoming more and more synonymous with "fat positivity". Believe it or not I also have a lack of confidence when it comes to my body, specifically towards my height and stature...I've tried joining a couple of body positivity Facebook groups in the past, and both rejected me ( one group even responded with " you do not need body positivity"). I never truly felt welcomed or included in the body positivity movement. It's like Nicki Minaj once said ..." I'm all about body positivity, but fuck those skinny bitches"  |
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"I feel as body positivity is becoming more and more synonymous with "fat positivity". Believe it or not I also have a lack of confidence when it comes to my body, specifically towards my height and stature...I've tried joining a couple of body positivity Facebook groups in the past, and both rejected me ( one group even responded with " you do not need body positivity"). I never truly felt welcomed or included in the body positivity movement. It's like Nicki Minaj once said ..." I'm all about body positivity, but fuck those skinny bitches" "
Body positivity can only come from within. I’m fat - fact. The amount of people who say you’re not or you have a lovely figure means nothing. If I was fat and happy then yeah fuck it id be happy. Plenty of people are fat and happy and that’s great. I’m not. I’ll never be happy being tall either, never have never will no matter how much people say I should embrace it. I guess it’s similar to you with the height thing. My sister in law is very thin and hates it but she just can’t put weight on. I think deep down there are very few people who are totally happy/confident with what they’ve got but if people can embrace it and be happy about it then that’s fantastic x |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks"
Read the room sunshine |
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I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often ) |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )"
You are not fat great body I think |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think "
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels. "
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've found a lot more body positivity since I joined this site. Without changing my body, just accepting it as it is. Not quite as empowered as some of you - which is bloody fantastic! |
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"I feel as body positivity is becoming more and more synonymous with "fat positivity". Believe it or not I also have a lack of confidence when it comes to my body, specifically towards my height and stature...I've tried joining a couple of body positivity Facebook groups in the past, and both rejected me ( one group even responded with " you do not need body positivity"). I never truly felt welcomed or included in the body positivity movement. It's like Nicki Minaj once said ..." I'm all about body positivity, but fuck those skinny bitches" "
I agree with this. When I was much slimmer I had boobs like spaniels ears. Absolutely hated them and disliked getting naked. If I mentioned it I got trounced though. I was ‘lucky’ to be slim (nothing to do with the healthy diet and exercise routine ofc  ) and had no right to complain.
Now I’m bigger I like my boobs (as they’ve filled out) but dislike the rest of me. I’ve noticed a lot of women (not necessarily forumites so no criticism intended) are nicer to me now I’m overweight. If I tone up/lose a little weight I’m hoping they’ll continue to be nice - because years ago some of them had me in tears.
I have ‘some’ body positivity - I don’t hate myself - but there are things I want to work on - and things I can do nothing about (like the thread veins and older skin) that I can do nothing about without spending money that I don’t have. Xx |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
I don't notice size. I notice beauty. And you have it in spades |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix.
Correct. I walk 4 miles a day. Still chubby. Many people are active and are cuddly. Fuck it. Be who you are x
I do 10+ miles a day in my job.....5 weeks in. 4 inches off my waist . And the other I bought an xl tee not the usual 3xl. Not everyone s success story but I'm getting where I want to be ..
.....and I can see my dick again....it had been a while
Well done that man! "
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"I feel as body positivity is becoming more and more synonymous with "fat positivity". Believe it or not I also have a lack of confidence when it comes to my body, specifically towards my height and stature...I've tried joining a couple of body positivity Facebook groups in the past, and both rejected me ( one group even responded with " you do not need body positivity"). I never truly felt welcomed or included in the body positivity movement. It's like Nicki Minaj once said ..." I'm all about body positivity, but fuck those skinny bitches" "
I don't know I totally agree. The body positive influencers I follow are either slim or of average size. The one who is plus sized I follow because she has similar shape to myself. And this is something I've done purposely to open my own eyes to how bodies should be and that nobody is perfect. And what I've seen is people of all shape and sizes boosting each others confidence. |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
Hmm average calories burnt in half hour walk is 100-300. I don't think weight is going to fall off that quickly in such a small space of time.
I personally think this kind of advice isn't great. It makes people think they should see results quickly and when they don't they quit. Yes an increase in exercise is good but it's no quick fix.
Correct. I walk 4 miles a day. Still chubby. Many people are active and are cuddly. Fuck it. Be who you are x
I do 10+ miles a day in my job.....5 weeks in. 4 inches off my waist . And the other I bought an xl tee not the usual 3xl. Not everyone s success story but I'm getting where I want to be ..
.....and I can see my dick again....it had been a while
Well done that man!
Cheers bud "
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"Hello, I was really really fat.
Now I’m not so fat.
But still fat nonetheless.
One day I might not be fat, but in the meantime, I’ll enjoy being me.
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Oh come now. I read you made it to the gym early doors this morning . Which is more than I did . Also I’ll admit , I’ve had a look. You’s a strapping lad and some one with a little skill is looking after your beard. I mean .. your counting skills is a little sketchy. But still nothing to shrug at |
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"Ooh don't you just love it when an unhealthy lifestyle that will lead to a premature death is something to be proud of...
SMH."
Well I am happy to see that the trash has taken itself out anyway.  |
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"Hello, I was really really fat.
Now I’m not so fat.
But still fat nonetheless.
One day I might not be fat, but in the meantime, I’ll enjoy being me.
Oh come now. I read you made it to the gym early doors this morning . Which is more than I did . Also I’ll admit , I’ve had a look. You’s a strapping lad and some one with a little skill is looking after your beard. I mean .. your counting skills is a little sketchy. But still nothing to shrug at"
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels.
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way."
I have just seen this let me start off by saying thank you Mekell whilst I wasnt hear.
Little brat evie, Mekell has hit the nail on the head everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you do not like the fact that someone can give their opinion maybe you should stay piped down.
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"Ooh don't you just love it when an unhealthy lifestyle that will lead to a premature death is something to be proud of...
SMH.
Well I am happy to see that the trash has taken itself out anyway. "
This made me chuckle x |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels.
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way.
I have just seen this let me start off by saying thank you Mekell whilst I wasnt hear.
Little brat evie, Mekell has hit the nail on the head everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you do not like the fact that someone can give their opinion maybe you should stay piped down.
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Ironic that you've told her off for having an opinion whilst defending your right to have one |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels.
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way.
I have just seen this let me start off by saying thank you Mekell whilst I wasnt hear.
Little brat evie, Mekell has hit the nail on the head everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you do not like the fact that someone can give their opinion maybe you should stay piped down.
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Piped down? . Who are you to tell someone to pipe down?!! |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels.
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way.
I have just seen this let me start off by saying thank you Mekell whilst I wasnt hear.
Little brat evie, Mekell has hit the nail on the head everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you do not like the fact that someone can give their opinion maybe you should stay piped down.
Ironic that you've told her off for having an opinion whilst defending your right to have one "
It wasnt an opinion given it was a dig for having good intended thoughts |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
You're beautiful
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" Body positivity - hello, I’m fat!"
I’m fat, balding, plain looking with a barely functioning penis. But I still manage to have fun and get out of this site what I want.
My body and ailments don’t define who I am, they just affect what I can do. But chances are even if I could do them, I wouldn’t want to anyway. |
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"I applaud those who can be body positive.
I can’t. I’m fat, I hate it. But I am making steps to change it. I will also never embrace being tall. I wish I was shorter but of course, can’t change that so just have to live with it (and not wear heels often )
You are not fat great body I think
It's not for you to say she's not fat. That's how she feels.
I think you misunderstand...he stated he's opinion...he literally said "...I think". Her feeling she is fat and him thinking she is not fat and has a great body are both valid opinions in their own way.
I have just seen this let me start off by saying thank you Mekell whilst I wasnt hear.
Little brat evie, Mekell has hit the nail on the head everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you do not like the fact that someone can give their opinion maybe you should stay piped down.
Ironic that you've told her off for having an opinion whilst defending your right to have one
It wasnt an opinion given it was a dig for having good intended thoughts"
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A good post with solid opinions but a shame differences of opinions lead to verbal fisticuffs and finger pointing.
I’m not in support of being of a weight that may be deemed unhealthy but I support those who feel comfortable in their own skins, regardless of shape and weight. - Bob |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
Nicely said! |
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"Embrace the fat! Roll up rolls of flesh and sumptuous thickness. I’m fat and all about self love and not beating myself up. Be healthy but don’t damage your self worth but loading it all on what size you are, too big, too small, too what?! Everyone is perfectly fabulous and sex worthy just being who they are in the minute. Today I relish in my beautiful bootyfullness, my fatness and my hunger for a bacon bap. Be kind to yourselves you gorgeous people you!
Come join the self love - insert wanking joke here -"
You go girl!! |
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I would say everybody’s got a preference doesn’t matter what body size and humans should not criticise each other just because of that.
I am most deafly not perfect but I do make a good cup of tea |
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"its easy to lose , just walk for 30 minutes before work every morning , or simply everyday
wake early as the mornings are light , nobody about and not to hot , and walk fast around the block , 15 minutes away from house and 15 minutes back
weight starts to fall off after about 6 weeks
What if you can't walk?
Then an organism burns 300 calls "
What species of organism? |
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I'm fat. But I completed a 10k road race today, by manual wheelchair (no help at all), in 1hr 13min. Had the roads not been crap and full of potholes, I'd have shaved a good number of minutes off that. I can do a 5km Parkrun in 30min. Fat, yes. Pretty fit though. |
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"I'm fat. But I completed a 10k road race today, by manual wheelchair (no help at all), in 1hr 13min. Had the roads not been crap and full of potholes, I'd have shaved a good number of minutes off that. I can do a 5km Parkrun in 30min. Fat, yes. Pretty fit though."
Totally amazing!!!! Go you. |
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