 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I’ve become really kinky lately and normal sex just doesn’t do it for me. Looking for a female partner who can experiment with me and possibly show me a thing or two. Tie and tease is good and also lately a blind fold adds something extra. I need to experiment a lot more . I’m not that confident , how can I approach a lady and let them know what I’m into without them thinking I’m weird??? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Just find it really hard. Obviously in a club or spa it’s easy to talk to people. But I want something more natural. I guess it will come in time and I should rush. Just have so much I want to try |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I suggest putting hints in your profile about your kinks. Kinky people do tend to find each other. Photos can also be great for this - holding a prop perhaps. Present the image of the kinky man you are and kinky women will be drawn to it.
Alternatively use kink sites/apps to find people and attend kink events. Plenty of venues that hold swing events also run kinky ones. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just find it really hard. Obviously in a club or spa it’s easy to talk to people. But I want something more natural. I guess it will come in time and I should rush. Just have so much I want to try "
I am a few years down the road and tbh I no longer meet people and then mention the kink. I am upfront with it. Accept me with my kink or not at all. That's how important it is to me. And trying to explain what D/s is to a vanilla person is just fucking painful.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Thanks, sounds like very good advice. "
My old POF profile (and current t*nder one) said something like, "more kinky than vanilla." That did the trick in ensuring that I only ever ended up chatting with people who were at least open to it.
Just try to avoid coming across like a Christian Gret wannabe. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
