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What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
A small village that I'm not in yet, I'll take that as a win!
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I get clumsy-to-curt "Wanna meet?" and "Wanna fuck?" messages from men who have at least read my profile as far as the word "bisexual". But there's been nothing so ugly that I would want to block someone. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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For the record, I KNOW that there people of no consequence reading the forums.
No consequence to me, no consequence to anybody in my family, or any friend, workmate or acquaintance I have ever had.
*waves to Tarquin |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob? "
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important" |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important""
Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it. |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it."
Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment  |
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"For the record, I KNOW that there people of no consequence reading the forums.
No consequence to me, no consequence to anybody in my family, or any friend, workmate or acquaintance I have ever had.
*waves to Tarquin"
LOL |
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs. "
That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark. |
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"For the record, I KNOW that there people of no consequence reading the forums.
No consequence to me, no consequence to anybody in my family, or any friend, workmate or acquaintance I have ever had.
*waves to Tarquin"
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it.
Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment "
That’s how I see it almost daily.
Consciously trying something out to see the results is an experiment, social or otherwise.
People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important""
Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords.
And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing.
Happy to say the majority are the former though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol) |
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs.
That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark."
I'm always in the dark  know as the naughty corner   |
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over a year ago
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)"
Fafchester? |
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Welcome to the forum OP.
If you really truly wholeheartedly wish to fit in, just make sure you read the Fora Lexicon beforehand.
Here 'we' like to say "your" when we mean "you're"; "complement" when we mean "compliment"; "peek" when we mean "pique"; "hotel meats" when we mean "hotel meets"; et al.
Other than it's all gøød. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?"
2nd time lucky!
Love Fafchester |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it.
Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment "
thanks, you are very kind. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
A small village that I'm not in yet, I'll take that as a win!
Welcome "
Thank you! |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)"
Idk, the Cornfield maybe? Like that episode of Twilight Zone. (Yes I am a dork and I watch a lot of old TV / films) |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
2nd time lucky!
Love Fafchester "
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"Welcome to fab.
Social experiment?  "
Thanks!
I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things.
And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
2nd time lucky!
Love Fafchester
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That’s a contender for sure! |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Thank you, because that’s pretty much exactly what I meant by it.
Pay people no mind. Posting on the forum can be a different kind of social experiment
That’s how I see it almost daily.
Consciously trying something out to see the results is an experiment, social or otherwise.
People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing "
*waves to you* |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords.
And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing.
Happy to say the majority are the former though!"
Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former.
Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Welcome to fab.
Social experiment?
Thanks!
I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things.
And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages."
There's loads of experiments that can be done.
Welcome to the forums and have fun. |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords.
And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing.
Happy to say the majority are the former though!
Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former.
Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying. "
That's the best attitude to have! And hopefully you can get some more of the kind of messages you want.
Afterall your profile is well written and you know what you want ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sure can be a peculiar journey, wading through dross and swamp matter to find a nice friendly penis with a face.
So many of us think and feel the same as you've stated in your profile and here.
Also sounds like you may have read some Jim Butcher judging by your status "don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.", though it has been used by lots of folks.
Good luck and enjoy your journey. Excellent profile by the way. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? "
I love saying rumpy pumpy
Welcome, OP. Enjoy the forums |
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"Welcome to fab.
Social experiment?
Thanks!
I have to see it that way, as a social experiment. Cause though I won’t elaborate, some people have already tried some really dodgy things.
And yes I do know I can change the settings. And sometimes I do change them so I can stop all messages."
I'm on "no messages" since April 2020. It's a sheer delight |
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"Welcome to Fab forums OP. A place as no other , where experiences and words they mix together and keep let all of us with a buzz in ourselves imagination
Toto… I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore."
I completely forgot about that |
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"Op.. Do you feel you are someone of consequence?
Or are you a researcher/journo/ snob?
I could easily see "social experiment" as "I'll do this different thing and see what happens" rather than "I think I'm important"
Same. Fab is an interesting view into a cross section of society and how they interact when covered by the relative veil of anonymity that the internet affords.
And as you expect, there is a wide variety of responses and messages ranging from polite, to the point and respectable to outright disturbing.
Happy to say the majority are the former though!
Glad to hear it, I think maybe I’ve made this post in an effort to be visible to some of the former.
Can’t please everyone and I’m not about to go (even more) insane trying.
That's the best attitude to have! And hopefully you can get some more of the kind of messages you want.
Afterall your profile is well written and you know what you want !"
Thanks, I think your profile is great as well.
Chocolate chip, for the record |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"? "
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?"
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester"
Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
Ho welcome.
Only a snippet so far ypu have come across and noticed.
The iceberg from the surface looks small but runs deep. Time will only tell all. And you shall gain your very own conclusion here.
Happy fabbing..
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… "
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You're on the wrong team, onkey. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester
Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it."
All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester
Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it.
All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities"
Build it and they will cum?
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"Welcome to fab.
Social experiment?
Sydney University "stuff"...
Winston "
Oh that's totally revealing, pmsl. Yes, I too view it as such. Quite the necessary position imho. People seem to forget there's an actual human the other side of the convo. 
I like to ask how they'd feel if someone sent that unsolicited opening to their mother or sister.... Morons  |
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with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site . |
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site ."
Being polite is not the problem for anyone. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
I feel like we may have opposing views in how seriously to take a site like this. But I hope you have a fulfilling experience either way. |
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site .
Being polite is not the problem for anyone. "
So what is ? Ive been ghosted 3 time accused of being in a relationship .Im not i wouldnt show my face if i was hiding anything.People im talking too refuse to send a picture .The shame of it is its not just about the sex its maybe meeting new People on the same wavelength and having some fun without the BS . |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester
Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it.
All great cities start with a few houses, then grown to become villages, towns and then cities
Build it and they will cum?
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I don’t we will have many issues bringing in more inhabitants. Lol |
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"It sure can be a peculiar journey, wading through dross and swamp matter to find a nice friendly penis with a face.
So many of us think and feel the same as you've stated in your profile and here.
Also sounds like you may have read some Jim Butcher judging by your status "don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.", though it has been used by lots of folks.
Good luck and enjoy your journey. Excellent profile by the way."
Thank you for the support and for reading / complimenting my profile.
Yeah, I didn’t coin the phrase for sure but it’s definitely a cliche for a reason.
Jim Boucher I will have to look up… or maybe save for a better mood. But I think iI can take it in context. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I’m interested to hear what you’d call the small village (can’t just call it blocksville be a bit creative lol)
Fafchester?
We’ve got a great name…Think we need an official ceremony to anoint this town Fafchester
Be careful. It’ll be granted city status if we bring attention to it."
We’re not getting a cathedral though are we? For my block list? |
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"with regards to the experiment,ive been on 4 weeks and its shown me how irrelevant i am to the opposite sex.I though id at least get to meet someone .Im very polite in my messages .Maybe thats my problem .I need to be more assertive.There are alot of women who really just want the attention with no intention of meeting anyone .It really is no different from any other dating site .
Being polite is not the problem for anyone. "
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"Welcome to fab.
Social experiment?
Sydney University "stuff"...
Winston
Oh that's totally revealing, pmsl. Yes, I too view it as such. Quite the necessary position imho. People seem to forget there's an actual human the other side of the convo.
I like to ask how they'd feel if someone sent that unsolicited opening to their mother or sister.... Morons "
Yes. This. |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though.
I feel like we may have opposing views in how seriously to take a site like this. But I hope you have a fulfilling experience either way. "
Thanks, and I’m sure you’re right. How serious depends on circumstances as well, I had a rough one this week that went off the site so that I will be informing my feelings unavoidably. Always appreciate being able to admit we may disagree though and have that not not be the end of the world. |
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"Hmmmm there’s a lot of reply’s and msgs sent that people wouldn’t say out loud in the presence of others. But feel acceptable to send in a msg on fabs.
That’s what I’m talking about. Who people are in the dark.
I'm always in the dark know as the naughty corner "
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Leave your expectations at the FAB door and depending on how you interact it’ll either exceed them or totally ruin them
Take things with a pinch of salt…don’t waste time on people you aren’t interested in and just have fun.
Enjoy
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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"Oooo, 'ello Op." Or "Ay-up!" As we say where I come from.
We are all ant's under the microscope eh then .....? Hmmmmm.
You have been doing some serious blocking then? Was Rocky's "Eye Of The Tiger" playing as you did it? Got arms like Popeye now? LOL.
Get your feet under the table & wishing you future luck/fun?
When I saw your name, I blinked & instantly thought of Lynard Skynard too - "Give Me Three Steps...."
Ah balls am I blocked now? LOL.
Take care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
Welcome to the lunatic asylum that is the forums. All sorts of people in here. Funny, serious, chilled argumentative.
*whispers........... get the fuck out now while you can!!!!
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy… "
Those offers must have been flooding in now |
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"Welcome, that is a good test too. I also think that if all the sexes did this experiment when joining, the result would differ greatly between them with women comming on top "
Women always come on top *nods wisely* |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
So what we saying Scotby or Longtown |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
Its just as bad for guys on here when you get more rejections than a second hand clothes shop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
Fk me that’s an amazing story!
Hold into that list until the next jubilee and you’ll be eligible for city status.
You’re quite right though. This place is a shit show - only rivalled by Mos Eisley and episodes of Shameless.
I’m sure we’ll all buck up our ideas now that we’ve had a stern word from
Someone of consequence!
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
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"Welcome, that is a good test too. I also think that if all the sexes did this experiment when joining, the result would differ greatly between them with women comming on top
Women always come on top *nods wisely*"
Yes they do and in sexual positions as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you have any expectations when you joined?
I suppose I expected more swingers than single men looking for single women, was that totally naive of me?"
not at all. ThatMs what we though years ago when we joined. And for better or worse it has not slid further and further to being a dating site for singles who want to ‘swing’ until they meet their soulmate. But whatever. There’s still
Some banter and it is a handy platform to keep in Touch with people whom you’ve met at a club.
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"Did you have any expectations when you joined?
I suppose I expected more swingers than single men looking for single women, was that totally naive of me?
not at all. ThatMs what we though years ago when we joined. And for better or worse it has not slid further and further to being a dating site for singles who want to ‘swing’ until they meet their soulmate. But whatever. There’s still
Some banter and it is a handy platform to keep in Touch with people whom you’ve met at a club.
All the best "
Oh, the banter on these forums is great. And I’m looking forward to making all kinds of new friends. Eventually expect to hit some clubs too. |
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy…
Those offers must have been flooding in now "
BTW I love your profile |
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"What a fascinating social experiment this is turning out to be.
Who people are when they think no one of consequence is watching them speaks volumes.
For the ethical, reasonable people who are here to actually engage with other people in the lifestyle: happy Friday.
I know there are plenty of you out there and that this, like everything else, is a numbers game.
My block list is already the size of a small village though."
That's a lot of village idiots for one village!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there’s lots of interesting things about fab and the ways we see people interact. Unsurprising people are different when they’re not being watched. I also think the forum is quite interesting too because of the ways it takes us away from our usual social media echo chambers. I actually have found (and accept this is affected by my gender) that the forums are where people say things that I’d block them for. |
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"Welcome to the madhouse! You're very brave to show your face as your profile pic. Hope you have fun on here x"
Thanks! I am having fun.
That’s just my personality.for me it’s kinda, may as well show my face cause I already walk around unapologetically with a shaved head in a northern town… and I’ve actually been recognised on here by locals more than once! (Though I think they should’ve had the common sense not to write to me here about it…oh, well.)
I guess I just figure, in for a penny in for a pound. People are going to see my face in the clubs. On social media. Etc. but I totally understand why most people don’t have profile pix like mine. |
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" People getting judgemental about the terminology is quite amusing
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....such as? "Hank panky" versus "sex" or "Rumpy Pumpy" for "fucking"?
It’s been a while since anyone’s offered to pumpy my rumpy…
Those offers must have been flooding in now
BTW I love your profile "
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Agreed; Babs' profile is refreshingly uninhibited and forthright! |
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hope its not the ex on the beach one either 