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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you all think of them?
Do too many put you off a profile?
I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.
Anyone choose not to display them all?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in the ‘don’t display them at all’ camp. I don’t ask for them when I meet people, but will get them occasionally. What I do with another person is between me and them. |
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"What do you all think of them?
Do too many put you off a profile?
I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.
Anyone choose not to display them all?
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100% depends on what is written in them.
If all veris are last minute sex meets with hundreds of strangers - we don't judge, just choose not to approach that person.
If there's only 4-5, but every single one is describing in detail on what sex was had, how long, in which positions topped off with " treat them with respect" we also choose not to approach that person.
If someone like us has hundreds from attending events - we assume that person is sociable and easy going, so we do approach them.
We don't display all of our veris simply because we don't think anyone would want to read the old ones.
On my single profile - I ask not to be verified when I meet someone.
More veris a single woman's profile has the worse messages she seems to get.
Missus
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"What do you all think of them?
Do too many put you off a profile?
I personally feel less is more. A small amount of good ones feels enough.
Anyone choose not to display them all?
Seems like they’re pretty easy to fake. Which isn’t comforting.
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I agree, having a few is what prefer. I use them to see that someone is genuine, isnt a fantacist and will actually turn up to a meet. I find ones that are too graphic off-putting. Its all about chemistry and vibes so the actual sex is always different between different people. I try to be discrete on veris i leave and focus more on the personality side of them. X  |
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"I agree, having a few is what prefer. I use them to see that someone is genuine, isnt a fantacist and will actually turn up to a meet. I find ones that are too graphic off-putting. Its all about chemistry and vibes so the actual sex is always different between different people. I try to be discrete on veris i leave and focus more on the personality side of them. X "
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Mine are pretty much all for socials, they just prove I'm genuine, and I look like my photos.
I find the detailed ones people leave about their meets a bit cringe  but each to their own.
They can be a good filter too. |
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The only real use I find to them is to help know if a profile is real. I doubt anyone displays a bad one. By that I mean reflecting negative veiws of the person (there's plenty of terrible cringy ones out there). I much prefer to talk to and meet someone making up my own mind on them rather than trust random Internet opinion. |
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I don't get why lots out people off.
Do you think because they haven't been listed, they haven't met lots of people?
I have a fair few now, but that's because I go to and help out at socials, so most are social veri's. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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They can serve as a type of filter I guess... If people make assumptions/judgements just from reading a few sentences about a situation they weren't even involved in, then it's likely we'd not get on anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of mine are socials. I choose not to show the figures or the veris just because it’s personal. No one else’s business. I’m not a hotel or a restaurant that needs public display of its reviews!! |
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I have a single guy profile in Fab, ergo; I have to try that bit harder than the next guy, and displaying verifications is part and parcel of whether someone is likely to want to meet me, over others. I've had all my veris hidden in the past, and people have asked to see them (presumably to check they're real?).
I display all the veris I can, and hate the fact you lose the ones when someone deletes their profile. I had some real corkers! 
I don't understand that 'must be within the last 6 months' nonsense btw; did I suddenly stop being a decent geezer 6 months ago, or did I magically transform from a complete arse 6 months ago......?   |
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It depends on the verification. There might have been several from one social event.
If they are all positive that's a good thing.
If someone has one verification but isn't photo verified. That rings an alarm bell for me. It takes seconds to photo verify.
Therefore for me it is about quality of the verification as the number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't display mine as a lot are from meeting as a couple, so not relevant now. They don't really mean a massive lot anyways. And nobody ever leaves a bad one, or if they did the person would just hide it. |
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We don't meet people with out any at all.
Personally, I tend to find it a little off-putting if an account has hundreds. However, in that situation they are often from a Fab group social.
I also think users should not be able to pick and choose which ones they display. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only display 2 incase someone wants to check up on them for instance, but actually seeing loads on one profile for me is not great, how much jizz they took, squirted like a sperm whale, minge like a wizards sleeve etc. Just gives the ick |
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"We don't meet people with out any at all.
Personally, I tend to find it a little off-putting if an account has hundreds. However, in that situation they are often from a Fab group social.
I also think users should not be able to pick and choose which ones they display. "
I disagree with not being able pick and choose. I've had a few that were a little too detailed and explicit, and it isn't something I want to show as I know some don't like them.
Also, someone could falsely veri you saying all sort of nasty stuff. You could report them, but it's your word against theirs, and more work for the mods, so it won't happen. |
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I LOVE reading them. I have hundreds on my personal profile but that’s because of this social organising and the hundreds that attend.
That and I’ve been living my best sexually abundant swing life!
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"I disagree with not being able pick and choose. I've had a few that were a little too detailed and explicit, and it isn't something I want to show as I know some don't like them.
Also, someone could falsely veri you saying all sort of nasty stuff. You could report them, but it's your word against theirs, and more work for the mods, so it won't happen. "
You make some good points.
It just seems to me that the veri system is pointless if I can choose to show only the good ones and hide the negatives. Not sure how a better system would work though, given the things you mentioned. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I only display 2 incase someone wants to check up on them for instance, but actually seeing loads on one profile for me is not great, how much jizz they took, squirted like a sperm whale, minge like a wizards sleeve etc. Just gives the ick"
But if they have them displaying you know they aren't the person for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get why lots out people off.
Do you think because they haven't been listed, they haven't met lots of people?
I have a fair few now, but that's because I go to and help out at socials, so most are social veri's."
Some people are open and some are private.
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