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Why less acceptance for Indians

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs.

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By *r SproutMan over a year ago

the middle

What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

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By *aked AngelMan over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

Why is this? I would really love to meet an Indian lady or couple and have fun with a lot of curry, which I particularly like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs. "

The real true figures show on here and the wider world.

How many updates have you come across seeking of south asian men or far eastern men on any forum on anywhere on fab?

Just a discussion and observation really.

I await your commemts all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I felt so. No women said a yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too"

I dont think the man is asking about couples/females as you have put you are happy to meet.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"I felt so. No women said a yes. "

That's not an exclusively Indian issue on Fab, it's one for the entire single male category

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is this? I would really love to meet an Indian lady or couple and have fun with a lot of curry, which I particularly like.

Yet again its clear to be seen the trent sways towards indian lady,or couple as you stated.

So everytime the male is really excluded, the main focus and point of interest is the woman

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You're on here 3 weeks which is no time at all you also are on a couple's account but claim on your update it a solo male looking for meets.Ye I doubt it's the fact you are Indian that is putting people off somehow.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"You're on here 3 weeks which is no time at all you also are on a couple's account but claim on your update it a solo male looking for meets.Ye I doubt it's the fact you are Indian that is putting people off somehow. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

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By *he love catsCouple over a year ago

South Wales

Thinking the same thing.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so. "

So basically what you have done is create a couple's account without another person on it and think that will entice women to meet you.Ye good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Totally agree with this. So many reasons I would say no

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so. "

I think some men think having a couples profile will get them more than they got as a single man.

I also think they're usually disappointed to find that's not the case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes. "

Reactions dont lie.

Read the whole of fab. Even do a custom search and see what info you come back with!

Supply and deman. And what is in Vogue fashion/trend is what counts. And the wider perception of people and the Masses.

I knw many will commemt its our choice! We understand that.

" all books have a cover?

Yet the contents are all different when read,but who has time to read.

Many books like people are flogged for the cover! Yet proven when read the view chsnges over time.

Closed hearts and minds will always be only that!!

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process!

Peace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

So basically what you have done is create a couple's account without another person on it and think that will entice women to meet you.Ye good luck with that

If she likes then it's a couple. If not,then solo. Not everyone likes fabbing.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

You status is bery off putting. Waste of money. What did you expect op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes. "

What do you mean?

Pls explain more.

We all could learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

Reactions dont lie.

Read the whole of fab. Even do a custom search and see what info you come back with!

Supply and deman. And what is in Vogue fashion/trend is what counts. And the wider perception of people and the Masses.

I knw many will commemt its our choice! We understand that.

" all books have a cover?

Yet the contents are all different when read,but who has time to read.

Many books like people are flogged for the cover! Yet proven when read the view chsnges over time.

Closed hearts and minds will always be only that!!

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process!

Peace.

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process.

You said it.. Actually I was fine until I joined fabs. It's really sad to see their tiny bubble of black and white. Pity their world view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women aren't saying yes because you're lying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

That's not an exclusively Indian issue on Fab, it's one for the entire single male category

LvM"

Maybe so .

But he has a point. he is not saying it in a way to expand on the concern and very issue he has faced

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires. "

Cash is king?

You are on the wrong site

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

Reactions dont lie.

Read the whole of fab. Even do a custom search and see what info you come back with!

Supply and deman. And what is in Vogue fashion/trend is what counts. And the wider perception of people and the Masses.

I knw many will commemt its our choice! We understand that.

" all books have a cover?

Yet the contents are all different when read,but who has time to read.

Many books like people are flogged for the cover! Yet proven when read the view chsnges over time.

Closed hearts and minds will always be only that!!

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process!

Peace.

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process.

You said it.. Actually I was fine until I joined fabs. It's really sad to see their tiny bubble of black and white. Pity their world view. "

Do you eat raw eggs and veggie soup straight from the tin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Women aren't saying yes because you're lying"

Ok FBI

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

So basically what you have done is create a couple's account without another person on it and think that will entice women to meet you.Ye good luck with that

So many like that on here.

That gives the good people and Men a very hard time

As most already know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM"

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Women aren't saying yes because you're lying

Ok FBI"

I think it is becoming very clear why you aren't having any luck.But carry on blaming everything else and good luck on your journey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

I think some men think having a couples profile will get them more than they got as a single man.

I also think they're usually disappointed to find that's not the case "

Its mostly fake and reeult driven.

You are liked or not.

Numbers game. Supply and deman at its finest!

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

And how well is that working for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The challenge is always to split out your own personal role in a rejection versus a wider systematic bias. We tend to attribute success to our own individuallity and failures to bias. Makes us feel better about ourselves right?

But at the end of the day, all we can do is improve ourselves, and learn to make the most of the hand we are dealt. Especially when it comes to preferences.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

It's not a queueing system, you don't take a number and get a shag when yours is called

You have to treat your profile as an advert for yourself, think what would make yours stand out amongst all the others

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women aren't saying yes because you're lying

Ok FBI"

Your profile has no photos of a woman. You mention meeting on your own more than once. Women will believe you are lying about the couples account. Women don't meet men they can't trust. Nothing to do with the colour of your skin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

It's not a queueing system, you don't take a number and get a shag when yours is called

You have to treat your profile as an advert for yourself, think what would make yours stand out amongst all the others

LvM"

Yes I too watch animal planet. But thought Humans don't need much selling in fabs.

I thought fabs to be something like OMELAS, all for all and not filtering, biased ...

Hope you read those who walked away from omelas.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

Reactions dont lie.

Read the whole of fab. Even do a custom search and see what info you come back with!

Supply and deman. And what is in Vogue fashion/trend is what counts. And the wider perception of people and the Masses.

I knw many will commemt its our choice! We understand that.

" all books have a cover?

Yet the contents are all different when read,but who has time to read.

Many books like people are flogged for the cover! Yet proven when read the view chsnges over time.

Closed hearts and minds will always be only that!!

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process!

Peace.

Those whom limit themselves from exposure to much and more only live in the bubble they create for themselves but try to affect others in the process.

You said it.. Actually I was fine until I joined fabs. It's really sad to see their tiny bubble of black and white. Pity their world view. "

Its a journey of life.

We hop on,we hop off.

We most have a choice heh?

Iam sure your understanding how this playground works and runs now.

Trust me i was born in london.

Iam sure i have a few storys to tell,about schooling, world of work,cat clubs,people meeting well away from fab. And on here.

Remember at all times. Its not the platform! Its the inhabitants whom reside in it. If the programing is abit shallow what will the very putput be??

Pm.

I shall enlighten you further!'

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

If your profile doesn't put people off your chat will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

It's not a queueing system, you don't take a number and get a shag when yours is called

You have to treat your profile as an advert for yourself, think what would make yours stand out amongst all the others

LvM

Yes I too watch animal planet. But thought Humans don't need much selling in fabs.

I thought fabs to be something like OMELAS, all for all and not filtering, biased ...

Hope you read those who walked away from omelas. "
do you meet men?

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By *entBarryUKMan over a year ago

Ashford

I don't feel that fab is more popular for white and black fabbers than any other race. Maybe there are just more of them. Some people have a preference, some don't. But if we have to start adding which colour people we like/don't like on our settings it will be a racism mindfield, and mine will look like a rainbow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your profile doesn't put people off your chat will"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. "

I don't care what he looks like if he's lying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women aren't saying yes because you're lying"

Food for thought!!

Melting pot of ingredients on tue boil here. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. "
^^^ this is bait!

Ban o'clock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires.

Cash is king?

You are on the wrong site"

Whats the current conversion rate atm.

Bloomimg fluctuates daily i say.

Sad people use money to buy others.

But i understand many do get bought and Pimped!

Fairtrade bullshite!!

All advertising and to headfcuk the masses lol

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By *hristopherd999Man over a year ago

Brentwood

"If your profile doesn't put people off your chat will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

It's not a queueing system, you don't take a number and get a shag when yours is called

You have to treat your profile as an advert for yourself, think what would make yours stand out amongst all the others

LvM"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your profile doesn't put people off your chat will"

The forums are littered with it.

Many women must be LOLVL at what the fellas say openly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. ^^^ this is bait!

Ban o'clock. "

Its fab. And woolies pick and mix.

I assumed all was encouraged on here.

You wanna read the Garg posted by man!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. ^^^ this is bait!

Ban o'clock.

Its fab. And woolies pick and mix.

I assumed all was encouraged on here.

You wanna read the Garg posted by man!!

By many!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. ^^^ this is bait!

Ban o'clock. "

Am I being naive? Why bait. I'd say it's a nice profile picture, but I wouldn't reply to a single male using a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile.

I don't care what he looks like if he's lying. "

yeah a lie does not have looks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is a lot of generalisation, but in my experience on fab it can happen. I’m well aware that for me being married etc there are other reasons to say no. However there have been a number of occasions when chatting to ladies they assumed I was black and when I corrected them then I was suddenly ghosted / blocked, as well as seeing a lot of profiles either explicitly calling out “no Asian” or looking for black / white guys only. The way I see it is anyone that thinks me being Indian has anything to do with how great a time we could have isn’t someone I’d even want to have sex with or talk to, and whilst a bit more limited there are women that are open to Indian or just don’t care about ethnicity at all.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

This thread and your responses, OP do read as quite entitled.

Also, it’s clear that you’re using a couples profile when you’re not a couple in an effort to meet people, which is lying and misrepresentation.

Whilst there might be a wider issue with racism and attitudes on fab, that’s really not your issue here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies

Whats your opinion on the fellas profile picture?? Apart from the whole profile. ^^^ this is bait!

Ban o'clock.

Am I being naive? Why bait. I'd say it's a nice profile picture, but I wouldn't reply to a single male using a couples profile. "
irrc giving unsolicited feedback can get a ban.

So while I'm sure "nice" is okay, I can see a slippery slope given the nature of this thread ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't feel that fab is more popular for white and black fabbers than any other race. Maybe there are just more of them. Some people have a preference, some don't. But if we have to start adding which colour people we like/don't like on our settings it will be a racism mindfield, and mine will look like a rainbow

But colour is fully openly stated on here at nearly every corner you turn.

Racism does not have to be in your face shouted at you.

Covert,passive,selective,word dropping. The layers are so sutle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a lot of generalisation, but in my experience on fab it can happen. I’m well aware that for me being married etc there are other reasons to say no. However there have been a number of occasions when chatting to ladies they assumed I was black and when I corrected them then I was suddenly ghosted / blocked, as well as seeing a lot of profiles either explicitly calling out “no Asian” or looking for black / white guys only. The way I see it is anyone that thinks me being Indian has anything to do with how great a time we could have isn’t someone I’d even want to have sex with or talk to, and whilst a bit more limited there are women that are open to Indian or just don’t care about ethnicity at all."

Makes sense. I see where your comeimg from.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me thinks you're a Fibber not a Fabber... Nothing to do with Indian decent... Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me thinks you're a Fibber not a Fabber... Nothing to do with Indian decent... Just saying

Fibber,fabber ,would like to Dibber dabber,doooo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women aren't saying yes because you're lying

Ok FBI

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

That's not an exclusively Indian issue on Fab, it's one for the entire single male category

LvM"

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs. "

It isn't like this.

Maybe your problem is that you have a couples profile yet want to meet solo??

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so. "

Didn't see this.

So are you a fake couple??

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

So far, I've counted 23 reasons I wouldn't meet you and not one of them has anything to do with the colour of your skin.

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By *elkieWoman over a year ago

Durham

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires. "

And this right here is why you have a problem. You’re turning sex into a battleground and not a fun recreational activity. Your attitude kind of stinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see a few indian ladies pop up in my feed not many though,ive never slept with anyone other than white ladies.Can all the none white ladies message please id love that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to add that IMO racism is very much present here - it's in evidence on the forum and Asian and black people do talk of their experiences publicly and privately. I just think that the OP has other issues which put people off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where these black folks you speak of? Just me here op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see a few indian ladies pop up in my feed not many though,ive never slept with anyone other than white ladies.Can all the none white ladies message please id love that

Fella message the non white women. Show your interest etc.

What you got to lose heh.

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By *iss DevilWoman over a year ago

Bedford

Speaking from my personal experience- I would not meet a man of Middle Eastern/Indian/Bangladeshi origin. And tend to avoid them in clubs as much as I can.

Why? 99% of unwanted touching I had in various clubs came from men of that origin. Therefore, I have learned not to trust them.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"Speaking from my personal experience- I would not meet a man of Middle Eastern/Indian/Bangladeshi origin. And tend to avoid them in clubs as much as I can.

Why? 99% of unwanted touching I had in various clubs came from men of that origin. Therefore, I have learned not to trust them. "

Sadly this is so true.

I have no axe to grind whatsoever as hubby is mixed race Asian, but we see a lot of entitled Asian men in our regular club.

Shame, because the Asian couples and females we have met are gorgeous people!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Speaking from my personal experience- I would not meet a man of Middle Eastern/Indian/Bangladeshi origin. And tend to avoid them in clubs as much as I can.

Why? 99% of unwanted touching I had in various clubs came from men of that origin. Therefore, I have learned not to trust them. "

That’s unfortunate, as like so many walks of life a few tarnish the perception of the majority.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Basically what we have here is an entitled single male who signed up for the guaranteed fuck-fest option, unfortunately said fuck-fest has not materialised in the three week period, despite putting up a fake couples account in an effort to increase fuck-fest options, aaaaannnd, guess what.

It’s everybody else’s fault

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Speaking from my personal experience- I would not meet a man of Middle Eastern/Indian/Bangladeshi origin. And tend to avoid them in clubs as much as I can.

Why? 99% of unwanted touching I had in various clubs came from men of that origin. Therefore, I have learned not to trust them.

That’s unfortunate, as like so many walks of life a few tarnish the perception of the majority. "

That's coz of their tiny bubble. They don't know that majority is from that part of the world and they have only seen a tiny dot from that. Yet they judge for the mass. Sad...

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon. "

So you lied as a couple??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like to add that IMO racism is very much present here - it's in evidence on the forum and Asian and black people do talk of their experiences publicly and privately. I just think that the OP has other issues which put people off. "

Agreed. There are definitely some profiles that make me

. Instablock.

There is also fetishism of some races. I never know where this sits. I suspect part of it is the first B in BBC that is key and that BB is generally bigger than BW.

But so many time in these threads I feel it's 99pc the person and 1pc their race/weight/age/pensis size that is causing them to fail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??"

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

She's on holiday? And no photos of her exist? Sure.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

She's on holiday? And no photos of her exist? Sure."

Is it mandatory to put pics for public?

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

She's on holiday? And no photos of her exist? Sure.

Is it mandatory to put pics for public? "

Does she even know about this??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you."

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol.

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol. "

Whatever the situation is, people can see right through profiles like that. Always statuses about how the wife is away but the husband is available

Honestly, it’s so obvious. You might think it’s not, but your fooling no one and creeping out a lot of people

You’d do better on a singles account

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol.

Whatever the situation is, people can see right through profiles like that. Always statuses about how the wife is away but the husband is available

Honestly, it’s so obvious. You might think it’s not, but your fooling no one and creeping out a lot of people

You’d do better on a singles account "

The amount of couples who message us and the wife is always unavailable or ill is unbelievable..

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol.

Whatever the situation is, people can see right through profiles like that. Always statuses about how the wife is away but the husband is available

Honestly, it’s so obvious. You might think it’s not, but your fooling no one and creeping out a lot of people

You’d do better on a singles account "

Can't do any worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol.

Whatever the situation is, people can see right through profiles like that. Always statuses about how the wife is away but the husband is available

Honestly, it’s so obvious. You might think it’s not, but your fooling no one and creeping out a lot of people

You’d do better on a singles account

The amount of couples who message us and the wife is always unavailable or ill is unbelievable.."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

Slight correction.. Minority might meet you, majority won't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

Slight correction.. Minority might meet you, majority won't. "

But that has nothing to do with your ethnicity.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon. "

Don't worry, admin will sort that out sooner than you think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So many reasons to avoid Asian male but Asian females are welcome.

I rest my case. Thank you.

But i would certainly think of making it solo account soon.

So you lied as a couple??

No. She is on vacation. And not much into fabbing. And hence i think better to go solo.

You did lie then. It was always just going to be you.

We both can join for cam to prove otherwise. Lol.

Whatever the situation is, people can see right through profiles like that. Always statuses about how the wife is away but the husband is available

Honestly, it’s so obvious. You might think it’s not, but your fooling no one and creeping out a lot of people

You’d do better on a singles account

Can't do any worse.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

Slight correction.. Minority might meet you, majority won't. "

How on earth would you know after three weeks on here with a fake couples profile??

Being blunt now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

Its all still up in the air though

And the posts and figures are very light and weak on the FAB shop floor.

The orders and demand is not flying off the shelf so to speak.

Maybe away from fab life. In the real liveing world the true experiences are being had on tastes,likes and fusions of all types are mingling.

But my observation has led me to ,there has always been not much Vogue or fashion trent towards the southern asian male.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ll give my point of view as an Asian mixed race man. Some people will want to meet you and some won’t. Majority of those people will not care about your ethnicity.

Observe brother. You will see it very clearly. See updates. Try contacting. Compare the replies that you receive.

Slight correction.. Minority might meet you, majority won't.

But that has nothing to do with your ethnicity."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday"

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday"

Really.. what section are the photos?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen? "

There’s plenty of Asian men do fine on here. What makes you think they don’t?

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By *lark_KentMan over a year ago

Northampton

I have no preference, as long as people are not dicks

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met some lovely Indian people on Fab. One became a very dear friend of mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen? "
nope. Because lads fine get the fabs. Not an Indian thing.

Look, blame your race. Blame others for their preferences. Do whatever gets you through the day.

But at the end of the day you can't change your race and there is little to do with how others view your race.

However there is plenty of ideas and suggestions here of how you can improve your chances even if you have a race-based headwind. You may not win the fab 100m sprint because of headwinds. Yiu certainly won't place if you have tied your shoelaces together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen? "

But the reality is you're on here as a lone male. You don't have a female you can produce if folk agree to meet you. So your chances go from whatever they are to 0% every single time, unless you're upfront you're not a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen?

Profile reset again. I shall update here.

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By *ansexualPandaMan over a year ago

Near You

Ethnic background doesn't come into what I prefer, it's a combination of personality and attractiveness that gets me. A number of years ago I have actually been lucky to have a wonderful threesome with a couple who were of South Asian heritage. It was my first bisexual experience and got me interested in exploring more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pretty sure "sexy indian couple" topped the Hot Photos yesterday

Coz of batswoman. Isn't? Do you think if that lad was solo it would happen?

Profile reset again. I shall update here. "

Profile looks much better already. Just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Racism on fab is a real thing but I don't think that's the reason why you're not getting meets

Men in general struggle on here because there are more men on here than women

1 small tip though is approach women on here as you would in a bar, vulgar messages and "meet now" type messages are usually deleted without a response

Also if people are being abusive for any reason, especially because of your race you should be reporting their profiles.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whoops, didn't even realise you were on a couple's account OP

Seems like you could use some extra pictures and a profile rewrite. If you're in an open relationship but your other half doesn't meet, I'd suggest a single account instead to avoid confusion.

LvM

And be behind the much longer solo males queue?

You won't be in any queues if you're lying about being on here as a couple

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By *ympho6969Woman over a year ago

glasgow

Had a meet some years ago with an indian man. Got down and dirty and all his nice manners flew right out the window. I ended it there and then and when I asked what the feck, he said thats how we are.

I know its not all indian men but it genuinely frightened me.

Would I meet another indian man? Yes. But I would also spend a lot longer getting to know him first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had a meet some years ago with an indian man. Got down and dirty and all his nice manners flew right out the window. I ended it there and then and when I asked what the feck, he said thats how we are.

I know its not all indian men but it genuinely frightened me.

Would I meet another indian man? Yes. But I would also spend a lot longer getting to know him first"

Could literally happen with any man though....

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By *unseeker6969Man over a year ago

somewhere

I’d happily meet a Indian couple finding a couple to meet regularly is hard enough let alone a Indian couple. Essex is full of talkers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My experience after being on here on-and-off for three years (not read any comments here)- fab seems to be very anti-Asian. I do not blame the website. I do not even blame the people (I don’t think it’s racism, I think it’s sexual preferences which is fine, but I think it’s influenced by inbuilt racism in society) - see this video on how Indian men are presented as sexually undesirable in our culture: https://youtu.be/2k82hIqd1Os

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"My experience after being on here on-and-off for three years (not read any comments here)- fab seems to be very anti-Asian. I do not blame the website. I do not even blame the people (I don’t think it’s racism, I think it’s sexual preferences which is fine, but I think it’s influenced by inbuilt racism in society) - see this video on how Indian men are presented as sexually undesirable in our culture: https://youtu.be/2k82hIqd1Os

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening. "

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?"

I made it clear I’m fine with sexual preferences , I just don’t like when people refuse to talk to another human being because of their skin colour. And after seeing it hundreds of times it’s made me feel sick. That’s all.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

So in your own words it's both fine and sickening?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

So in your own words it's both fine and sickening?"

Kinda? I’ve been conflicted on it a lot. I used to see it as racism but I think that takes you down a self-pity spiral. I think it’s fine to have a sexual preference, sickening to refuse to talk to another person because of their skin colour. I’m well aware this is a sex website though so people aren’t going to talk to people they don’t want sex with. I just wish it wasn’t such a common societal sexual preference against Asian men.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

The profiles that state no Asian men don't want to have sex with them, they are not refusing to talk to them but even if they do, it's still their perogative as we all usually chat to people first to find out if we want to get naked with each other. Pointless chatting if it's never going to happen.

When I was meeting, my three basic deal breakers were tall, non smoker and single and I didn't chat to anyone unless they met those three preferences of mine. Excluding friends of course, I still have an occasiona natter with friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know its not all indian men but it genuinely frightened me.

Would I meet another indian man? Yes. But I would also spend a lot longer getting to know him first

Could literally happen with any man though...."

Indeed

.esp when sex is involeved some let little jonny rule the manners and Brain!

Behaviour is across the board.

Not just because he was asian.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening. "

Proof is in the put in!

View the update page daily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s horrible and it sucks. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves. The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

Feel free to feel and be sick. Its your prefrence as its always stated!

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs. "

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Worry not OP, as soon as the porn industry starts to fetishise men from south Asia you'll be in high demand, sadly often for crass reasons.

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By *eaqueenWoman over a year ago

Heathrow

I have met a couple of Asian guys on here. I do have preferences which have nothing to do with ethnicity and everything to do with honesty and personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs.

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Worry not OP, as soon as the porn industry starts to fetishise men from south Asia you'll be in high demand, sadly often for crass reasons. "

That would be a good start. But world Works black white. Hope it changes...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs.

.................................

Worry not OP, as soon as the porn industry starts to fetishise men from south Asia you'll be in high demand, sadly often for crass reasons. "

You guys are harsh and hard on poor OP.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Is fabs mostly for black and white only? It need not be seen as racial discussion but general likes and dislikes in fabs.

.................................

Worry not OP, as soon as the porn industry starts to fetishise men from south Asia you'll be in high demand, sadly often for crass reasons.

You guys are harsh and hard on poor OP. "

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Not at all, I'm totally sympathetic to his plight, there's little to be said about a fascination in the qualities of certain racial groups that's almost entirely a creation of the porn industry, they just haven't got round to Asian guys...yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too"

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends "

..................................

I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

..................................

I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples."

Well spotted fellow fabber.

Most missed the very point.

And still kept commenting. We would dearly love to meet indian asian women and couples! It clearly can be seen as daylight from there,the only way to the woman body and in between her legs is target the woman. Or as a couple!

Many have posted and still post as indian and couples their pref for white men,couples. BBC Etc

So is it not obvious target them they are crying out and laying it all on the table..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

..................................

I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples."

Yes. Women are never left out ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends "

Cool sounds like your a privaliged man. Via your network of friends maybe you could expand things a little and expose them to fab and swing world..

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By *ancsduoCouple over a year ago

Morecambe

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

I think some men think having a couples profile will get them more than they got as a single man.

I also think they're usually disappointed to find that's not the case "

But it does allow them to sneak under anyone's block on single male's

Think just being truthful will get you a lot further.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

For me this has been the most unpalatable thread of the day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me this has been the most unpalatable thread of the day."

Fella it all cant be horny and roses all the time on here. We have to tackle most issues and mishaps along the way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

..................................

I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples.

Well spotted fellow fabber.

Most missed the very point.

Many have posted and still post as indian and couples their pref for white men,couples. BBC Etc

So is it not obvious target them they are crying out and laying it all on the table.. "

The thing you're missing is. Just because you have a penis. It doesn't mean you're entitled to get any interest.

Judging by your attitude I'd say it has very little to do with you being Indian and more to do with the potato sized chip on your shoulder.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

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I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples.

Yes. Women are never left out ever. "

Says who?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This didn't go well. I'm happy to chat with a like minded person with same interests regardless of colour. However found locally in my searches it's predominantly white. Who knows why?

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?"

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For me this has been the most unpalatable thread of the day."

Close eyes.. Let's keep praying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

..................................

I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples.

Yes. Women are never left out ever.

Says who? "

History as far as I read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for."

Maybe due to culture... I find it difficult to filter humans like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for."

They are two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter how you phrase it someone will always take offense.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"I felt so. No women said a yes. "

That's not just you though, thousands of guys on here never get meets.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple over a year ago

West Suffolk

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so. "

We wouldn’t meet a guy that has a couples account, it’s called being deceived

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

That's not just you though, thousands of guys on here never get meets."

Yes but he seems to think its because he's Indian. Not because he's got a dodgy couples profile which is an immediate red flag, or because of his very apparent persecution complex.

I'm not even going to start on the inflated sense of entitlement.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I felt so. No women said a yes.

That's not just you though, thousands of guys on here never get meets.

Yes but he seems to think its because he's Indian. Not because he's got a dodgy couples profile which is an immediate red flag, or because of his very apparent persecution complex.

I'm not even going to start on the inflated sense of entitlement."

I love that you did though.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

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They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for."

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Well said! No problem expressing a preference but doing so using negative language is a bit twatty in my opinion.

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

"On a couple account to be transparent. That's all. Do you think if it's solo account then fabbing would be easier? No. Solo males say so.

I think some men think having a couples profile will get them more than they got as a single man.

I also think they're usually disappointed to find that's not the case

Its mostly fake and reeult driven.

You are liked or not.

Numbers game. Supply and deman at its finest!

It's not a numbers game, it's an attraction game!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires. "

And that there is the reason. Nothing to do with race but the fact you think woman can be brought.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

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They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for.

They are two sides of the same coin."

•

That's easy to say when you're not the one being disparaged or representational of the 'minority'.

Your remark is like a millionaire telling a pauper that "money isn't everything".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires.

And that there is the reason. Nothing to do with race but the fact you think woman can be brought. "

Sex shareing swinging is a joy and plessure when shared.

When money is paid demanded or exchanged then the whole landscape changes.

Many men may have valid reasons to pay a women for Sex.

Not my bag..

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple over a year ago

West Suffolk

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for.

Maybe due to culture... I find it difficult to filter humans like that. "

Personally I haven’t looked at your profile at all but from the way you come across in this thread could be the main reason why you dont get any meets.

You make a thread accusing women of not wanting to meet you! I have said it before and I will say it again…just because you have a dick it doesn’t mean every woman wants to have sex with you because you are ok here!!!

Your profile is fake! It’s a one big lie! You are a lone guy not a couple, once people realise that then your card is marked as a fake/liar/scammer.

The majority of people on here need to be discreet that doesn’t make it right to make fake profiles and lie, you have more chance of a meet if you are open and honest ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for.

They are two sides of the same coin.

•

That's easy to say when you're not the one being disparaged or representational of the 'minority'.

Your remark is like a millionaire telling a pauper that "money isn't everything"."

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By *ixi n DogCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I think maybe too many men come on here with the wrong expectations.

"I want to have sex and this is a site where people want sex."

"I think we're on a winner here Trig, alright? Play it nice and cool son, nice and cool. You know what I mean?" *Rubs hands excitedly*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Speaking from my personal experience- I would not meet a man of Middle Eastern/Indian/Bangladeshi origin. And tend to avoid them in clubs as much as I can.

Why? 99% of unwanted touching I had in various clubs came from men of that origin. Therefore, I have learned not to trust them.

That’s unfortunate, as like so many walks of life a few tarnish the perception of the majority. "

Brush it all the same over a few. Lol

Very selective passes i see. Heh ho.

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By *orkcoastguyMan over a year ago

Bridlington.

I was married to a woman of full Indian heritage for many years and as busy swingers didn't notice any reluctance on the part of other couples or solo guys to meet us.

Other Indian friends, as opposed to Pakistan/Bangladesh, tell me that swinging is common in India.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think this OP? I am happy to meet an Indian couple or female.

I’m sure many more would too

I would definitely love to meet an Indian couple. I have many Indian friends

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I think the subtext of the OP's question relates to Indian men rather than women or couples.

Well spotted fellow fabber.

Most missed the very point.

Many have posted and still post as indian and couples their pref for white men,couples. BBC Etc

So is it not obvious target them they are crying out and laying it all on the table..

The thing you're missing is. Just because you have a penis. It doesn't mean you're entitled to get any interest.

Judging by your attitude I'd say it has very little to do with you being Indian and more to do with the potato sized chip on your shoulder."

Everything always seems so nice and cozy from one angle.. turn change the angle,the view is diff, then change the angle yet again its diff.

Not being or not have been in one's shoe/shoe's nor faced or been trialed to those situations ever!

How dare anybody commemt from ant comfortable postion of ours.

He may have a valid point.

But has gone expressed it all in a way no so appealing and appeaseing to the Fab forum fraternity!!

As for potatoe chip on shoulder. None here whatsoever..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The amount of NO ASIAN MEN I’ve seen on profiles is sickening.

Why sickening? Are people not allowed a preference?

•

They ARE allowed a preference. That, however, is not a preference; it's blatant repudiation and disparagement.

Preference is akin to what you would like - the following is more acceptable: "I'm only looking for Caucasians". As opposed to what you're not looking for.

They are two sides of the same coin.

•

That's easy to say when you're not the one being disparaged or representational of the 'minority'.

Your remark is like a millionaire telling a pauper that "money isn't everything".

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By *andy and DannyCouple over a year ago

Barnstaple

Just read this but not sure what the discussion is , have i got this right ,op thinks the swinging world doesn't like indian men but does like Indian women ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read this but not sure what the discussion is , have i got this right ,op thinks the swinging world doesn't like indian men but does like Indian women ?

He seems to think all of us white guys are getting all the action and everyone's ignoring him because he's indian.

Hes forgetting that every single man on the site is in the exact same boat, with the exception of a select few.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars."

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read this but not sure what the discussion is , have i got this right ,op thinks the swinging world doesn't like indian men but does like Indian women ?

He seems to think all of us white guys are getting all the action and everyone's ignoring him because he's indian.

Hes forgetting that every single man on the site is in the exact same boat, with the exception of a select few."

So your talking for every single male on here??

Talk about yourself more importantly,whats your experiences on fab!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud."

Spud u like.

Worry about yourself!

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud."

You had a similar rant with

" inconcievable " and she put you in your place. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read this but not sure what the discussion is , have i got this right ,op thinks the swinging world doesn't like indian men but does like Indian women ?

He seems to think all of us white guys are getting all the action and everyone's ignoring him because he's indian.

Hes forgetting that every single man on the site is in the exact same boat, with the exception of a select few.

So your talking for every single male on here??

Talk about yourself more importantly,whats your experiences on fab! "

Tell you what. Go to the forum page. Go to the search and type single men or single male. You'll find literally thousands of threads just like this one.

"I'm a single man women won't talk to me waahhh wahhh". There's a new one posted almost every single day here. Ask any regular user they'll tell you.

The only difference is, this thread is ignoring that fact that it's because there are more single men here than anyone else and so they have slim pickings. Instead you're chosing to make it about race purely because a tiny number of people have put a racial preference in their profiles.

You're completely wrong. Your taking two separate issues and making them the same thing when anyone with half a brain can tell you you're %100 wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud.

You had a similar rant with

" inconcievable " and she put you in your place. Lol"

Who?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats all folks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud.

You had a similar rant with

" inconcievable " and she put you in your place. Lol

Who?"

Oh you're talking about the mad feminist. She did not such thing. I chose to refuse to continue to argue. We had differing opinions.

Psst by the way. White knighting for the ladies won't get you laid either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab forum fraternity!!

No chip you say? I can see it from here and don't even have my binoculars.

Your entilted to your view point.

Does not mean its correct.

Have a nice eveing.

Iam still here

The more you go on about it the more you convince me you'll soon enough be crushed under the weight of this planetary sized spud.

You had a similar rant with

" inconcievable " and she put you in your place. Lol

Who?

Oh you're talking about the mad feminist. She did not such thing. I chose to refuse to continue to argue. We had differing opinions.

Psst by the way. White knighting for the ladies won't get you laid either

Also. Do you always stalk people? No wonder women are put off.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple over a year ago

here & there

"Fabs, tinder etc seem to be working only for women.

For men I think currency notes work and get better matches as desires. "

Not entirely true… the Mr’s single profile is very popular with couples & ladies.

Time & effort are key to success.

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By *iobhan123Woman over a year ago

Deal

Thinking the same thing.

And can't accomodate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only here to close the thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's two questions here.

Is there a bias against Indian men versus men of other races.

I suspect that where there are preferences presented Asian men are less likely be be positivly selected and more likely to be ruled out.

Is that the reason the OP isn't having any luck? If there's a basis there then sure, it's sort of the reason. But is it the main reason, not by a long shot IMO. He's put rocks in his own pockets and is complaining about the tide.

(And I get that if you see the bias, and you will notice it more if you are looking out for it, it must suck. So I get why the OP may feel the world is against him. But refusing to consider other angles does not help him. And when you are on the outside seeing someone complain about small issue while missing the big issue (in their opinion at least) is frustrating I'd imagine )

That's my attempt at empathy over. Where are the boobs?

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