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over a year ago
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If a man had an incredibly flattering suit, but once devoid of it, was actually an out of sorts needing a bit of gym time body tune up and with a tiddly specimen. Would you still go ahead with the deed ladies? (Please say yes, please yes)  |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If a man had an incredibly flattering suit, but once devoid of it, was actually an out of sorts needing a bit of gym time body tune up and with a tiddly specimen. Would you still go ahead with the deed ladies? (Please say yes, please yes) "
Would have to see the suit in question lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol 
Kilts welcome too lol  "
I wear both. Photos on request... Lol |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol
I wear both. Photos on request... Lol"
I just saw a kilt  |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol
Fully support this thread.
Top topic OP.
Why thanks lol... all these lovely guys willing to show us their non birthday suits makes me a happy lass lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a man had an incredibly flattering suit, but once devoid of it, was actually an out of sorts needing a bit of gym time body tune up and with a tiddly specimen. Would you still go ahead with the deed ladies? (Please say yes, please yes)
Would have to see the suit in question lol "
It's erm, kind of athletic in immediate visual appearance. There's a few stripes running down the trousers.... OK I'm wearing a addidas joggers ATM. |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If a man had an incredibly flattering suit, but once devoid of it, was actually an out of sorts needing a bit of gym time body tune up and with a tiddly specimen. Would you still go ahead with the deed ladies? (Please say yes, please yes)
Would have to see the suit in question lol
It's erm, kind of athletic in immediate visual appearance. There's a few stripes running down the trousers.... OK I'm wearing a addidas joggers ATM. "
Hmmm lol joggers are ok but prefer a suit lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a man had an incredibly flattering suit, but once devoid of it, was actually an out of sorts needing a bit of gym time body tune up and with a tiddly specimen. Would you still go ahead with the deed ladies? (Please say yes, please yes)
Would have to see the suit in question lol
It's erm, kind of athletic in immediate visual appearance. There's a few stripes running down the trousers.... OK I'm wearing a addidas joggers ATM.
Hmmm lol joggers are ok but prefer a suit lol "
Birthday suit only I'm afraid, take it or leave it. Truth is I couldn't wear a tailored bang tidy suit. I'd be dead by sex the following day. |
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Suits are throwback to a different age.
They were worn to project power, confidence, and be seen as snazzily or conservatively dressed.
When I see a suit worn today, the message I get from the wearer is
1. They have no confidence, and have to hide behind a suit.
2. They are projecting a superficial image, so this is deceptive, and the individual cannot be trusted.
3. They are following expectations, instead of setting their own.
Sorry to the old school, but a whole fashion industry telling people they have to wear suits to be successful is just as insidious as the myriad ways the fashion industry pressure other people.
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"Suits are throwback to a different age.
They were worn to project power, confidence, and be seen as snazzily or conservatively dressed.
When I see a suit worn today, the message I get from the wearer is
1. They have no confidence, and have to hide behind a suit.
2. They are projecting a superficial image, so this is deceptive, and the individual cannot be trusted.
3. They are following expectations, instead of setting their own.
Sorry to the old school, but a whole fashion industry telling people they have to wear suits to be successful is just as insidious as the myriad ways the fashion industry pressure other people.
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I’m afraid I totally disagree with all of the above!! You clearly don’t wear a suit for work (or probably any other occasion)
Some like to put in an effort as women do to dress nicely. I’d say most men in suits ARE confident, the majority successful. They may not be as popular since covid but dam, a guy in a well fitted suit is sexy!  |
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I’m afraid I totally disagree with all of the above!! You clearly don’t wear a suit for work (or probably any other occasion) "
No that's fine, as is your right to disagree, no problem.
I have in the past worn suits in a number of professional industries, so I do have experience of the power-play dynamic behind them.
I've seen people rejected in the workplace because they were wearing the "wrong type of suit". Either too formal, or too casual.
I've worked in creative media where no one wore suits, thus removing the opportunity for division.
So I have been fortunate to see "both sides".
What interests me is the deeper psychological factors, both positive and negative in to suit wearing, and the manufactured pressure of the fashion industry and society as a whole blindly following it without question.
"Because it is expected".
By who precisely ? And why ? And what right do they have to expect another to conform to their ideal ?
I once had 2 salesman visit me, arriving in a brand spanking new BMW. And they wore highly expensive suits.
Looking out the window before they even arrived in Reception, I made a value judgement (we are a highly visual species after all).
"These guys are out of my budget range. And this is not their real image, it's a projected one. I don't have time for this nonsense or deception."
Within 10 mins of meeting them, during the "our company are successful" bollocks, I'd been offered a jolly in the Directors Box at White Hart Lane.
I called it there and yeeted them out. They asked why and I replied "Someone has to pay for that. And the new Beamer. And the expensive suits. I don't do kickbacks or coercion/inducements and I'm not beholden to anybody. Thank you, but now get out".
So "Suits" to me are all part of that "Phoney Package", I'm sorry to say.
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By *utspanCouple
over a year ago
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol "
Love love love men in a tailored suit and a white shirt! They look confident and turn me on!
Elegance is a status of personality, this is my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve a few bespoke one with my monogram on my shirt cuffs.
Sadly can’t show them on here as they would give a little too much away.
Recently I’m in the process of having a shirt made with my monogram on one cuff and my lovers on the other….she doesn’t know yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol
Love love love men in a tailored suit and a white shirt! They look confident and turn me on!
Elegance is a status of personality, this is my opinion "
That is a rather fine opinion indeed!  |
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By *utspanCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol
Love love love men in a tailored suit and a white shirt! They look confident and turn me on!
Elegance is a status of personality, this is my opinion
That is a rather fine opinion indeed! "
Glad you agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suits are throwback to a different age.
They were worn to project power, confidence, and be seen as snazzily or conservatively dressed.
When I see a suit worn today, the message I get from the wearer is
1. They have no confidence, and have to hide behind a suit.
2. They are projecting a superficial image, so this is deceptive, and the individual cannot be trusted.
3. They are following expectations, instead of setting their own.
Sorry to the old school, but a whole fashion industry telling people they have to wear suits to be successful is just as insidious as the myriad ways the fashion industry pressure other people.
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How the fuck do you get that from someone wearing a suit?
All 3 points are complete bullshit
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I’m afraid I totally disagree with all of the above!! You clearly don’t wear a suit for work (or probably any other occasion)
No that's fine, as is your right to disagree, no problem.
I have in the past worn suits in a number of professional industries, so I do have experience of the power-play dynamic behind them.
I've seen people rejected in the workplace because they were wearing the "wrong type of suit". Either too formal, or too casual.
I've worked in creative media where no one wore suits, thus removing the opportunity for division.
So I have been fortunate to see "both sides".
What interests me is the deeper psychological factors, both positive and negative in to suit wearing, and the manufactured pressure of the fashion industry and society as a whole blindly following it without question.
"Because it is expected".
By who precisely ? And why ? And what right do they have to expect another to conform to their ideal ?
I once had 2 salesman visit me, arriving in a brand spanking new BMW. And they wore highly expensive suits.
Looking out the window before they even arrived in Reception, I made a value judgement (we are a highly visual species after all).
"These guys are out of my budget range. And this is not their real image, it's a projected one. I don't have time for this nonsense or deception."
Within 10 mins of meeting them, during the "our company are successful" bollocks, I'd been offered a jolly in the Directors Box at White Hart Lane.
I called it there and yeeted them out. They asked why and I replied "Someone has to pay for that. And the new Beamer. And the expensive suits. I don't do kickbacks or coercion/inducements and I'm not beholden to anybody. Thank you, but now get out".
So "Suits" to me are all part of that "Phoney Package", I'm sorry to say.
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I think you’re taking this thread farrrrr too seriously |
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"I’ve a few bespoke one with my monogram on my shirt cuffs.
Sadly can’t show them on here as they would give a little too much away.
Recently I’m in the process of having a shirt made with my monogram on one cuff and my lovers on the other….she doesn’t know yet "
Yep …. There’s a guy who know how to wear a suit with confidence  |
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"There is definitely something to be said for a well fitted suit, but I prefer rough and ready most of the time
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Ah but you can have both …. Perfect gentleman in it … rough and ready out of it! Yes? |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I normally feel more confident wearing a suit,something about it makes you feel good.
Wish I had more reasons to wear one"
That is like me wearing the correct lingerie... feel so much more confident and sexy knowing what is under my clothes lol |
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"I normally feel more confident wearing a suit,something about it makes you feel good.
Wish I had more reasons to wear one
That is like me wearing the correct lingerie... feel so much more confident and sexy knowing what is under my clothes lol
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Guessing you don't do this for work or to pop to the shops |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
somewhere sweet and sour |
"I normally feel more confident wearing a suit,something about it makes you feel good.
Wish I had more reasons to wear one
That is like me wearing the correct lingerie... feel so much more confident and sexy knowing what is under my clothes lol
Guessing you don't do this for work or to pop to the shops "
Who knows |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Bit late on this, but here’s my effort .
I wear one most working days, but I’m actually not a big fan. The fact that lots of women love a guy in one is a suit’s major redeeming feature ."
And a lovely looking suit suits you x
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"I normally feel more confident wearing a suit,something about it makes you feel good.
Wish I had more reasons to wear one
That is like me wearing the correct lingerie... feel so much more confident and sexy knowing what is under my clothes lol
Guessing you don't do this for work or to pop to the shops
Who knows "
Now there's a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wear power suit and heels to work, or variations of it, I like to tower over then men, plus give them something to look at
Would love to see that xx"
We all would! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby was wearing a suit when I first met him. Actually thinking back, he looked pretty fucking hot with it all dishevelled as we got to business whilst almost fully clothed. Might need to recreate that one |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Suits are throwback to a different age.
They were worn to project power, confidence, and be seen as snazzily or conservatively dressed.
When I see a suit worn today, the message I get from the wearer is
1. They have no confidence, and have to hide behind a suit.
2. They are projecting a superficial image, so this is deceptive, and the individual cannot be trusted.
3. They are following expectations, instead of setting their own.
Sorry to the old school, but a whole fashion industry telling people they have to wear suits to be successful is just as insidious as the myriad ways the fashion industry pressure other people.
I’m afraid I totally disagree with all of the above!! You clearly don’t wear a suit for work (or probably any other occasion)
Some like to put in an effort as women do to dress nicely. I’d say most men in suits ARE confident, the majority successful. They may not be as popular since covid but dam, a guy in a well fitted suit is sexy! "
I’m with DC on this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it about suits? So many guys (and ladies) look great in them... lets have a perv ( I mean an appreciative look) lol
Kilts welcome too lol
Love love love men in a tailored suit and a white shirt! They look confident and turn me on!
Elegance is a status of personality, this is my opinion
That is a rather fine opinion indeed!
Glad you agree "
It could be a crime not too!
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"Bit late on this, but here’s my effort .
I wear one most working days, but I’m actually not a big fan. The fact that lots of women love a guy in one is a suit’s major redeeming feature .
And a lovely looking suit suits you x
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Thank you so much |
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Quite a lot of suits nowadays don't flatter anybody.
Ridiculously over padded shoulders and tight trousers look stupid. I've seen this on TV presenters so it can't be poor choice.
I have made the error of thinking that the wearer has a reality problem with measurements, only to be told "Oh, that's the style now" |
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A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs. |
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By *weetCruella OP Woman
over a year ago
somewhere sweet and sour |
"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs."
this lol |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I? "
Ha ha absolutely ^ this!! Bonus points if the tie, pocket square and socks are co-ordinating colours and gold stars for fancy lining of the jacket and waistcoat |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs."
Ooh err, I appear to tick all these boxes. 
Although it is probably ghillie brogues rather than boots with my kilt. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"How many guys wear shoes to match the suit too I wonder!
I wear black shoes with a dark suit, but I wear brogues with lighter coloured suits.
Never considered navy blue with blue, or oxblood ?"
I don't like oxblood. I don't have black brouges, just brown.
I tried to get blue brouges but they didn't have them in my size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many guys wear shoes to match the suit too I wonder! "
The suit would not be complete with complementing shoes and accessories.
Life is too short for half measures so to speak |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs.
Ooh err, I appear to tick all these boxes.
Although it is probably ghillie brogues rather than boots with my kilt. "
More than acceptable |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs.
Ooh err, I appear to tick all these boxes.
Although it is probably ghillie brogues rather than boots with my kilt.
More than acceptable "
Did I say orange smarties taste yummy too. |
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"I have a nice blazer on in some pics, counts I think
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You look splendid.
Cheers buddy, you got some nice suits and looks dapper "
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I knew you would pass the test!
I wanted to check my theory.... |
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"I have a nice blazer on in some pics, counts I think
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You look splendid.
Cheers buddy, you got some nice suits and looks dapper
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I knew you would pass the test!
I wanted to check my theory.... "
What can I say, I'm on a roll |
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"I have a nice blazer on in some pics, counts I think
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You look splendid.
Cheers buddy, you got some nice suits and looks dapper
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I knew you would pass the test!
I wanted to check my theory....
What can I say, I'm on a roll "
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Some heterosexual males get frightened and nervous when one man compliments another man. They'll just exclusively and indelicately respond to women on a thread, failing to realise it's just a man exercising solidarity and being "inclusive" and "brotherly".
Just my observations this week. |
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"I have a nice blazer on in some pics, counts I think
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You look splendid.
Cheers buddy, you got some nice suits and looks dapper
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I knew you would pass the test!
I wanted to check my theory....
What can I say, I'm on a roll
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Some heterosexual males get frightened and nervous when one man compliments another man. They'll just exclusively and indelicately respond to women on a thread, failing to realise it's just a man exercising solidarity and being "inclusive" and "brotherly".
Just my observations this week. "
Yeah there's a lot of that on here but I appreciate a compliment no matter who it comes from and not afraid to give one back |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs.
Ooh err, I appear to tick all these boxes.
Although it is probably ghillie brogues rather than boots with my kilt.
More than acceptable
Did I say orange smarties taste yummy too. "
That's a whole other thread |
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"A well cut, and properly tailored suit can be incredibly sexy, especially when paired with a crisp shirt and appropriate shoes. Bonus points for cufflinks. There is an aura of confidence and power exuded. The jacket can be slipped off, the shirt cuffs folded back, exposing forearms; a leather belt....
...sorry where was I?
Oh yes and kilts. Properly fitted kilts, with socks, boots, shirt and jacket. Worn in the Scottish tradition. Bonus points for a sgean in the socks, and rugby thighs.
Ooh err, I appear to tick all these boxes.
Although it is probably ghillie brogues rather than boots with my kilt.
More than acceptable
Did I say orange smarties taste yummy too.
That's a whole other thread "
One I might like to explore - wink or PM if you agree. |
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