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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you know or how can you explain what effort you should put into a site like this?
How many times have you read ‘I wish someone would make an effort?’ In a thread when someone asks a question about messages that they don’t receive or have received? A first message that says FAF? A reply that says ‘hi’ - I know these are extremes of lack of effort. But, what effort do you need for an initial ice breaker on the internet?
There is an app where you swipe left or right and we get wound up on fab when someone winks and doesn’t message, or hasn’t put there gcse results in a profile. 
Have fun, but could you please put your best opening line below that we can all copy and paste into our messages?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now for a real one
Hello My name is Natalia was browsing though and stumbled on to your profile it’s a pleasure to meet you insert user name off profile
I think your profile is wonderful and it cought my eye really liked this part off the text insert something from they profile
I also looked at your pics they are wonderful and you probably get this all the time about how beautiful your are so I am going to not blow smoke and tell you that as you will probably just think it’s another blowing smoke to get in to your knickers
“ not in the message” if you notice how I did just complement them but hid it well 
Little about me I am just your normal person seeing what’s out there was maybe wondering if I could peak your interested in some chat and see how things progress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a woman, I don't send messages.
I just sit in my gravy stained t-shirt, licking custard creams and moaning about the shite messages that men send me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not really bothered, as long as they don’t abbreviate words too much. Anything friendly works for me….Gerard Butler could send a full stop & it’d be fine! "
Read my profile. |
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"I’m not really bothered, as long as they don’t abbreviate words too much. Anything friendly works for me….Gerard Butler could send a full stop & it’d be fine! "
How does a curly question mark make you feel by someone that looks like me… ?
*asking for a friend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now for a real one
Hello My name is Natalia was browsing though and stumbled on to your profile it’s a pleasure to meet you insert user name off profile
I think your profile is wonderful and it cought my eye really liked this part off the text insert something from they profile
I also looked at your pics they are wonderful and you probably get this all the time about how beautiful your are so I am going to not blow smoke and tell you that as you will probably just think it’s another blowing smoke to get in to your knickers
“ not in the message” if you notice how I did just complement them but hid it well
Little about me I am just your normal person seeing what’s out there was maybe wondering if I could peak your interested in some chat and see how things progress "
I’ve never received anything like this. At all!!!
Seriously starting to think that the forums have a certain view that the rest of fab doesn’t. 
But that’s exactly the type of thing that would get me engaged, and absolutely someone has made an effort. But by no mistake, if that pace pic doesn’t grab my attention first, their effort is wasted from the word go.
And in return, if they appear hot to me, they could have just said “hi’ want to chat? “ |
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"How do you know or how can you explain what effort you should put into a site like this?
How many times have you read ‘I wish someone would make an effort?’ In a thread when someone asks a question about messages that they don’t receive or have received? A first message that says FAF? A reply that says ‘hi’ - I know these are extremes of lack of effort. But, what effort do you need for an initial ice breaker on the internet?
There is an app where you swipe left or right and we get wound up on fab when someone winks and doesn’t message, or hasn’t put there gcse results in a profile.
Have fun, but could you please put your best opening line below that we can all copy and paste into our messages? "
We sometimes put Donald Trump as the header… it always catches the eye, and we have never had one of them ignored followed up by “apologies for the strange title, but it stands out…” and then continue with what we actually want to say… men, you gotta think outside the box, lads!
*any usage of this advice that results in sexual deviancy, you owe us a pint. |
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It's a bit early for that, compersion!! 
