I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me. |
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"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me. "
Yep , just tried …. Doesn’t allow me to abuse or otherwise  |
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I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...
I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.  |
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"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...
I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country. "
Exactly this! Be amazing to set a mile limit to be able to contact. I also request local only and get tonnes from 5+ plus away  |
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Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?
I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.
I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter. |
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"Filter out people looking for hung only and elite, whatever they think that is  "
No offence intended to BBC but the amount of ladies looking for that only but show up in my advance search … it really limits the numbers  |
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"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?
I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.
I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter. "
A bit of both really 
Plus at the end of the page have a tick box to say you actually read the bio  |
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"I'd like it if the filter that allows people to add a photo to message ,then delete was changed.For example once you add a pic,you can't delete it to get round a filter."
That’s actually a good one , no dodging |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...
I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country. "
this would be a good one |
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"A filter so only local people could message"
I know us men see women on here and think she’s lovely and text in the hopes of actually meeting at some point at a club or so on as this community can be very small at times but I do agree with you as it’s pointless to receive a text say from Scotland or Texas |
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"Filter out people looking for hung only and elite, whatever they think that is
No offence intended to BBC but the amount of ladies looking for that only but show up in my advance search … it really limits the numbers "
Yeah I can't cater for them either |
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"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?
I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.
I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter. "
They could just scroll without reading it though still |
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"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?
I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.
I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter.
They could just scroll without reading it though still "
They have to highlight certain words in the bio to unlock the filter |
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A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile 
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM"
But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one "
Well if they could introduce an effective "Liar" filter then I'm sure that would be exceptionally helpful too
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"Depends if you mean filter something in or filter something out?
I'd like the message button to be greyed out until they had read the entire profile.
I'd also like an ounce of common sense filter.
They could just scroll without reading it though still
They have to highlight certain words in the bio to unlock the filter "
In reverse |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
But I do know some people here including couples that state non smoking and I clearly know they do smoke….. so that’s a tricky one
Well if they could introduce an effective "Liar" filter then I'm sure that would be exceptionally helpful too
LvM"
Exactly… I’ll get on it |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM"
as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM"
I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!) |
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Body type filter, so before I messaged someone I could be sure they haven't specifically excluded my lardy arse.
And yes, I know the body type categories are subject to a lot of interpretation on here but it would be better than nothing! |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view"
Looks like a choo choo old stream train when vaping out of a moving vehicle |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
as a smoker, i find the huge plumes of smoke from a vape aweful, just my view"
If there's plumes of smoke coming from a vape then there's a problem as it's meant to be steam |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)"
That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke |
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"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...
I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country.
Exactly this! Be amazing to set a mile limit to be able to contact. I also request local only and get tonnes from 5+ plus away "
I never meet men local to me. |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM"
If they vape though I doubt they’d say they’re a smoker. It’s not smoking. I wouldn’t. I would assume any one who has smoking on there actually smokes. |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)
That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke "
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"Body type filter, so before I messaged someone I could be sure they haven't specifically excluded my lardy arse.
And yes, I know the body type categories are subject to a lot of interpretation on here but it would be better than nothing!"
Totally agree with this one ?? |
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"A vaper smoking category. Neither of us enjoy the smell or taste of smoke on others but have no problem with vaping. Just having smoker/non-smoker at the moment makes it pretty hit or miss unless they specifically say in their profile
LvM
I'd like to know because vaping also bothers me, and some people take it as not smoking. (Not a condemnation of vapers or smokers, just - I'd like the filter!)
That's because for it to be smoking you would need there to be smoke "
Yup. And if vaping gives me migraines and cigarette smoking gives me nosebleeds, I want neither, no matter how much not smoking it is.
My body, my health, my needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM"
Don't I know it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it."
i look like ryan with a beard but then again i often tell lies |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it.i look like ryan with a beard but then again i often tell lies "
Yes you do. |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it."
I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you
I shouldn't joke but |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it.
I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you
I shouldn't joke but "
I just want to perv on him.
He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway. |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it.
I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you
I shouldn't joke but
I just want to perv on him.
He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway. "
Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it.
I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you
I shouldn't joke but
I just want to perv on him.
He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.
Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn"
Don't get me all excited. |
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"Not a dickhead
Ryan Reynolds lookalike
Has a personality
That would just break fab
Not really:
Filter men, select all, remove. No matches found
LvM
Don't I know it.
I see you finding lookalike on here one day but him being gay or just not attracted to you
I shouldn't joke but
I just want to perv on him.
He can be gay, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.
Why don't you just perv the real one, he has done porn
Don't get me all excited. "
Well that's what I'm here for |
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over a year ago
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"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!
Mine wound be Hotwife 
Come on peeeps
Mine would be for 6ft plus men 
I’ll get in line "
Oh you are very well aware that you're top of that line |
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"If Fab were to add new filters what would you like to see?!
Mine wound be Hotwife
Come on peeeps
Mine would be for 6ft plus men
I’ll get in line
Oh you are very well aware that you're top of that line "
I’ll be calling in on my next journey home , get the tea and biscuits ready |
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"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me. "
I would like the absolute opposite.
I hate when men message me from the forums and try and continue conversations in my inbox |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me. "
...but you can message them first? |
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"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me.
I would like the absolute opposite.
I hate when men message me from the forums and try and continue conversations in my inbox "
Guilty as charged for this but I’ve actually met some friends this way |
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"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me.
...but you can message them first? "
Very true …. I’ll be waiting |
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"I was actually thinking earlier that it would be useful to maybe have a message filter to only allow those to message that are within a certain distance away...
I state on my profile I'm looking for local and still get messages from men down the other end of the country. "
Checks distance... Damn.  |
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Distance would be a good one.
Some context sensitive filters might be useful as well for example:
No single guys, except bi guys might be useful for some couples.
Bareback is also one that might be very useful for some (not us, but clearly people on here do it). Far better that those of us who don't can say we don't want to hear from those who do, and those who do can have a higher strike rate not messaging those who aren't into it.
We REALLY need to revamp the whole trans categorisation setup. Plus the sexuality one actually. Currently it's just TV/TS as I understand it. There's a huge difference between those categories. It also makes things very confusing trying to parse the sexuality of such a person.
For example a person who is TV/TS and lists as straight. Since you don't know how they identify (TV would usually still identify as their biological gender but TS would not) you have absolutely no idea which genitals they are looking for, which must be frustrating for them as well as us. |
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This really annoys me, so much time wasted having to reply just to say they are to far away. I do state in my profile anymore than 30 miles then don't bother but still get people hundreds of miles asking to be my fwb x |
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"I would like a filter that allowed people to contact me by the reply privately button on the forums despite other filters. I know some would still abuse it but I think it would be manageable and I'd like forum friends to be able to message me.
...but you can message them first? "
I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. Plus I've also had issues where neither of us have been able to message the other because of filters even though we want to. |
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"I ….
...but you can message them first?
I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. …. "
Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass! |
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...but you can message them first?
I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. ….
Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass! "
Not quite |
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"I ….
...but you can message them first?
I meant if they had something to say off the back of forum interactions. ….
Like how every time I see your profile picture I wish I could be knelt behind you kissing your ass!
Not quite "
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