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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. "
You sure she isn't dyslexic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
You sure she isn't dyslexic?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman wants to suck my cock she can type any way she likes  
What about fellas who want to? 
Just don’t finger my arse cause I’m not bi  "
Thumbs are ok as long as there’s no eye contact |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
You sure she isn't dyslexic?"
I didn't think of this. But she should have told me? I would have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nora and her pesky text speak… 
She is funny. So funny.
Hello dear. How are you "
I'm fine thanks. Been a long day. Just resting and wasting time on fab hahaha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor manners, a lack of empathy and no sense of humour. I’m ruthless when it comes to behaving in public and condescending mannerisms. Other than that a date should be an experience of learning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. "
Around 10% of the UK population have dyslexia. Doesn’t seem much but when you know that 1 in 6 adults has the reading level of an 11 year old - you might bear that in mind when you say it’s “a pain to read her messages” yet obviously she knows how to dress to impress. I’m more of take me as you find me.
And FWIW - tattoos put me off. I don’t mind the odd small one but if it’s a sleeve or up the neck of any patch of skin forget it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
You sure she isn't dyslexic?
I didn't think of this. But she should have told me? I would have. "
Why should she? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
Around 10% of the UK population have dyslexia. Doesn’t seem much but when you know that 1 in 6 adults has the reading level of an 11 year old - you might bear that in mind when you say it’s “a pain to read her messages” yet obviously she knows how to dress to impress. I’m more of take me as you find me.
And FWIW - tattoos put me off. I don’t mind the odd small one but if it’s a sleeve or up the neck of any patch of skin forget it "
And the OP has every right to be irritated by whatever irritates them. You have the right to be offended, he has the right to be irritated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably the taste. The texture isn't great either.
Bloody love a date. Those long boxes you get at Christmas and the wee poky fork thing. Good times.
Mrs TMN x"
The wee pokey fork thing will rattle around your long box Mrs TMN x |
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"Probably the taste. The texture isn't great either.
Bloody love a date. Those long boxes you get at Christmas and the wee poky fork thing. Good times.
Mrs TMN x
The wee pokey fork thing will rattle around your long box Mrs TMN x"
Sounds ouchy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
Around 10% of the UK population have dyslexia. Doesn’t seem much but when you know that 1 in 6 adults has the reading level of an 11 year old - you might bear that in mind when you say it’s “a pain to read her messages” yet obviously she knows how to dress to impress. I’m more of take me as you find me.
And FWIW - tattoos put me off. I don’t mind the odd small one but if it’s a sleeve or up the neck of any patch of skin forget it
And the OP has every right to be irritated by whatever irritates them. You have the right to be offended, he has the right to be irritated"
WTF |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. "
Nothing wrong with your stance mate, if bad grammar is a turn-off, then fair play to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
Nothing wrong with your stance mate, if bad grammar is a turn-off, then fair play to you "
I must admit though, it is a weakness of me to be annoyed with someone just because of their 'bad' English (or whatever language).
I suppose deep down we all know what we want in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. "
nice to see you back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me. "
Once met a woman who was half Russian and half Swiss.
She drank vodka out of a cuckoo clock, pretty off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went on a date a while ago and she ate a tuna sandwich and pickled onion crisps before getting the last train home. She was after a snog but I wasn’t having none of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with the OP here and probably go further. It is a big turn off if they are hard of thinking and/or have poor communication skills though if they don't pretend to be something they are not then this can help to forgive a lot of sins. Blokes seem far more vain about this kind of thing and mostly the women are more honest about their education, communication and so forth. Guys seem to try and BS us once we start talking, perhaps they feel intimidated by owl's verbal and literal skills. Not that we ever ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talking in a derogatory way about past relationships or sexual encounters.
I don't know why people do this? Just makes me think what are they going to be saying about me afterwards?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
You sure she isn't dyslexic?
This "
This overused crutch must be whittled down to a nub by now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking in a derogatory way about past relationships or sexual encounters.
I don't know why people do this? Just makes me think what are they going to be saying about me afterwards? "
Oh this is so off putting! Divorcees seem to do it a lot. Oh my ex this, oh my ex that. As of things were entirely one sided! Ffs give it a rest. Move on and have some dignity! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad writing, grammar, spelling.
I was 'talking' to this 'lady' (sophisticated and well dressed she was) but honestly every time she messaged me it was a pain to read her messages. Yes okay if you're just after good sex, then does it really matter? Well it does for me.
Once met a woman who was half Russian and half Swiss.
She drank vodka out of a cuckoo clock, pretty off putting "
Wow that is awesome. I was trying to imagine it. It actually sounds very sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman wants to suck my cock she can type any way she likes
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I proper belly laughed at that Nora 
And I'm in a quiet office..
But back to the OP, yes sometimes it can be exhausting texting some people, I would bet I exhaust people with mine sometimes, we are all different.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A dyslexic myself, I do try really hard to make sure my grammar is as good as it can be.
So Bad grammar isn't a turn off for me, but If they text speak it's big turn off. |
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