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Can you be a bit bi?
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When Mrs and I were at a club having a play a guy come over to us and ask me if I was bi or straight, I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
I didn't think to ask any further but it got me wondering can you be a bit bi or is that like being a "bit pregnant" |
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"When Mrs and I were at a club having a play a guy come over to us and ask me if I was bi or straight, I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
I didn't think to ask any further but it got me wondering can you be a bit bi or is that like being a "bit pregnant""
Yes I think you can in terms of in the heat of the moment things can happen that you would not seek out when not in the throws of …. We’ll think that speaks for itself. |
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over a year ago
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Usually this means they don't find themselves sexually attracted to men but like a bit of cock play....
In general I don't think with sexuality you can say one thing or another, it's not black and white. Some straight women will kiss other girls but the thought of more makes them ill, are they straight or bi? Many gay guys have had relationships with women, does it mean they're bi?
There's a lot of discussion about straight and bi men here and it's best just to let people like what they like ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically yes you can
I mean I wouldn’t consider my self as
What I mean by that is
Realship purpose I am stickly woman only never meet a guy I would consider dating
Guys to me are just a bit off mindless or none mindless sex but with none off the feelings
easyest way to sum it up
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Having tried to see if I could be bi, I class myself as straight as I only derive pleasure from men. However, if I really like a woman as a person (and that takes more than a quick drink in the dimly lit bar of a club... I have been known to administer pleasure to a few very select females.
To me that means I am straight but can situationally play with both sexes.  |
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The minute you cross the line from being a participant in a mfm and your focus switches from the female alone then your entering bi curious territory, ie testing your boundaries with another guy .
If you then repeat at a later date with your attention being shown to both male and female in the scenario then you've now become officially bi.
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I think you can. I like women but if I never did it again it wouldn’t bother me. Whereas with a man it’s different. There’s certain things I don’t like doing that much with a woman but some things I love. So yeah I reckon you can. |
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"Having tried to see if I could be bi, I class myself as straight as I only derive pleasure from men. However, if I really like a woman as a person (and that takes more than a quick drink in the dimly lit bar of a club... I have been known to administer pleasure to a few very select females.
To me that means I am straight but can situationally play with both sexes. "
You can dress it up however you like but your bi , no iffs no buts no maybes, being selective on " very select " women doesn't change the fact their still women and your happy to play with them.  |
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"The minute you cross the line from being a participant in a mfm and your focus switches from the female alone then your entering bi curious territory, ie testing your boundaries with another guy .
If you then repeat at a later date with your attention being shown to both male and female in the scenario then you've now become officially bi.
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Does it come with a certificate? |
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"The minute you cross the line from being a participant in a mfm and your focus switches from the female alone then your entering bi curious territory, ie testing your boundaries with another guy .
If you then repeat at a later date with your attention being shown to both male and female in the scenario then you've now become officially bi.
Does it come with a certificate?"
Why would it need a certificate, ? Denying it would simply be lying to yourself as nobody gives a toss about whether or not a person is bi nowadays and if they do then who would give a fuck about their opinions. Hope that clears up whether or not a certificate would be required. |
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I believe sexuality is fluid depending on the period of your life, the moment and many other things that can change in the blink of an eye. It's why I find it difficult to pigeon hole myself into tick boxes so I have to go with - not sure |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Having tried to see if I could be bi, I class myself as straight as I only derive pleasure from men. However, if I really like a woman as a person (and that takes more than a quick drink in the dimly lit bar of a club... I have been known to administer pleasure to a few very select females.
To me that means I am straight but can situationally play with both sexes.
You can dress it up however you like but your bi , no iffs no buts no maybes, being selective on " very select " women doesn't change the fact their still women and your happy to play with them. "
Nothing to do with dressing up - I would be confident in stating I am bi if I felt the slightest bit of attraction to women which I don't - consequently I am straight. |
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The reality is that sexual activity and desire is on a continium and peoples lustings slide up and down according to mood and circumstance.
Labels, either applied or self imposed are not helpful to allowing one a freedom to relax and enjoy good sex. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t think labels need to be applied to people x "
I agree with you.
That said, some people like working with categories and need to have those labels for their own sense of security and that is cool. x |
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I am never sure what I am and at times it has stopped me exploring properly, esp if can't explain my sexuality to others.
Outside of kink or swing I don't fancy men or seek interaction with them. I enjoy giving o because of the pleasure it gives others. |
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"Having tried to see if I could be bi, I class myself as straight as I only derive pleasure from men. However, if I really like a woman as a person (and that takes more than a quick drink in the dimly lit bar of a club... I have been known to administer pleasure to a few very select females.
To me that means I am straight but can situationally play with both sexes.
You can dress it up however you like but your bi , no iffs no buts no maybes, being selective on " very select " women doesn't change the fact their still women and your happy to play with them. Nothing to do with dressing up - I would be confident in stating I am bi if I felt the slightest bit of attraction to women which I don't - consequently I am straight. "
You said earlier that if you like a particular woman then you have inflicted pleasure to that woman so in actual fact you surely must have been attracted to that special lady so your bi, your sexually attracted to both men and women. Hey its no big deal to me you can be as Fab straight as much as the next person on here.  listen, if your saying it was just a one off the last time then I'm happy to grant you bi curious status for the last time but next time .....  |
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"Sexuality is a spectrum, and people fit into more boxes than straight, gay, or liking men and women exactly equally.
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Literally this!!!
And this is about men mostly but - especially when it comes to men, people have such rigid definitions of sexuality. And they project this onto other people. And, and this bugs me, they then start telling people how they can or cannot define themselves. Or that they can’t be straight if they like X, Y or Z. Like why are you so bothered if someone’s way of self identification isn’t how you decided it must be?  Lol. Like a guy said he kissed a guy so he MUST be bi. Or a guy said he’d suck dick for a million quid so he must have a secret lust for men! 
Sidenote- I do really believe a lot of this is rooted in homophobia (and biphobia to an extent). Especially how rigid people define these things and allow no room for exploration for men in comparison to women. Think straight men have this idea of a good star str8. And it’s a bit weird and gross.
Anyway rant over. Sorry |
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"I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
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I infer that he’s predicting you would feel uncomfortable if he says he’s bi, and worried that would be the end of the encounter. He’s hedging his interests against his expectations for your response. Loads of us do that. (Well, I know I do. I’ve done it for a great many years and often don’t even notice that’s what I’m doing. It’s also easier to say than to explain yourself fully) |
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"The reality is that sexual activity and desire is on a continium and peoples lustings slide up and down according to mood and circumstance.
Labels, either applied or self imposed are not helpful to allowing one a freedom to relax and enjoy good sex."
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"When Mrs and I were at a club having a play a guy come over to us and ask me if I was bi or straight, I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
I didn't think to ask any further but it got me wondering can you be a bit bi or is that like being a "bit pregnant""
Im definitely a bit of a cunt most days.
I put that label on myself …. |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"The minute you cross the line from being a participant in a mfm and your focus switches from the female alone then your entering bi curious territory, ie testing your boundaries with another guy .
If you then repeat at a later date with your attention being shown to both male and female in the scenario then you've now become officially bi.
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So I take it u've never participated in a MFM session? |
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"The minute you cross the line from being a participant in a mfm and your focus switches from the female alone then your entering bi curious territory, ie testing your boundaries with another guy .
If you then repeat at a later date with your attention being shown to both male and female in the scenario then you've now become officially bi.
So I take it u've never participated in a MFM session?"
He's talking about when it goes from MFM to MMF I think |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true. "
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9 |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9 "
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous. |
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"When Mrs and I were at a club having a play a guy come over to us and ask me if I was bi or straight, I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
I didn't think to ask any further but it got me wondering can you be a bit bi or is that like being a "bit pregnant""
Which bit was bi?  |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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you know what you like you don’t need a label. I wouldn’t say I was bi or little bi, I’d never rule out having fun with a woman if the moment was right either, but I’d say I was straight.
If you were looking for men then I’d say bi courious |
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Does it really matter ? I have never wanted to date a woman (way to much work) and my husband would never date a man but we are both definitely bi .
We only look for bi couples so we can all have a great time together  .I don’t understand why people need to put a label on things .. |
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"Does it really matter ? I have never wanted to date a woman (way to much work) and my husband would never date a man but we are both definitely bi .
We only look for bi couples so we can all have a great time together .I don’t understand why people need to put a label on things .."
I’m not a fan of labels but then again if there wasn’t any on here you wouldn’t know who was bi so it’s swings and roundabouts really. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Having tried to see if I could be bi, I class myself as straight as I only derive pleasure from men. However, if I really like a woman as a person (and that takes more than a quick drink in the dimly lit bar of a club... I have been known to administer pleasure to a few very select females.
To me that means I am straight but can situationally play with both sexes.
You can dress it up however you like but your bi , no iffs no buts no maybes, being selective on " very select " women doesn't change the fact their still women and your happy to play with them. Nothing to do with dressing up - I would be confident in stating I am bi if I felt the slightest bit of attraction to women which I don't - consequently I am straight.
You said earlier that if you like a particular woman then you have inflicted pleasure to that woman so in actual fact you surely must have been attracted to that special lady so your bi, your sexually attracted to both men and women. Hey its no big deal to me you can be as Fab straight as much as the next person on here. listen, if your saying it was just a one off the last time then I'm happy to grant you bi curious status for the last time but next time ..... "
Repeat: I am not attracted to women and never have been and it would not be an issue to declare myself bi. So what I am saying is this: If I really like a person, in this case a woman I am happy to please and pleasure them in the same way that I would cook them dinner or pour them a glass of wine.
But for me there is nothing sexual in it and I would not feel an arousal if a woman were paying me attention - does this not make sense?
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"Does it really matter ? I have never wanted to date a woman (way to much work) and my husband would never date a man but we are both definitely bi .
We only look for bi couples so we can all have a great time together .I don’t understand why people need to put a label on things .."
You only look for bi couples but don't understand the need for labels? So why are you looking for one of those labels? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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But while on the subject.....What irritates me though is the suggestion that "the girls play before we get to sex" and the guys can observe this natural phenomenon(!)
I have no issue with women playing and doing whatever they fancy... or men watching - each to their own whatever their fancy or kink may be.
But let's call them "women" rather than "girls".
And let s not assume all women will play to perform... I for one would never engage in "playing to the men" - I am not a performing sealion
Rant over! |
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Yes, though it's like describing something as a bit white, or a bit black. That's the problem with language and communication between people, where brevity may inhibit your ability to be very precise.
Many things that try to explain the huge complexity of the human personality in extremely limited ways, such as from binary choices, are typically going to fail to be able to do so. Colour charts are too limited to depict just the 2D potential of how we perceive light wavelengths, whereas human personality is of a much greater order of magnitude of difference.
People may occasionally just have the slightest glimmer of limited interest, rather than always. Things may be situational. People may try something but realise that it holds no satisfaction for them.
Others may be romantically and sexually open to a fuller range of genders than others. Some may only have a sexual taste.
It's very widespread for people not to have interests with a 50/50 split, just between men and women. Some just realise changed interests, as they have matured.
Binary splits, of genders and similarly for sexuality, fail to reflect the reality of real people. They do hit home a very simplistic thinking style that some people persist with. |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous. "
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off "
Yes I think they do too  |
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"Does it really matter ? I have never wanted to date a woman (way to much work) and my husband would never date a man but we are both definitely bi .
We only look for bi couples so we can all have a great time together .I don’t understand why people need to put a label on things ..
You only look for bi couples but don't understand the need for labels? So why are you looking for one of those labels?"
By labels I mean things like orally bi ,Fab straight playfully bi of course we would need to know the sexual orientation of people we would never put ourselves or others in a position where someone felt uncomfortable if they were touched by the same sex .That would be just irresponsible.
Some people are just so quick to call out others on their sexuality and I can’t understand why it matters so much. |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off "
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I generally hold to the Kinsey scale which recognises that sexuality is a spectrum.
Either end are straight/gay, in between is bisexual. If you’re 99/1 towards a gender, that’s still bisexual. The words used are semantics really |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off "
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi"
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia. |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart "
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't "
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia. "
You need to Google before you say there's no such thing as a thing that exists |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me "
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia. "
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree. |
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much "
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth  |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree. "
He didn't state that though |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though "
I meant you you plum! |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!"
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth "
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!"
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment
Hey I had 3 hours sleep last night "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment
Hey I had 3 hours sleep last night
Yeah sorry about that. I was proper horny "
Talking about plums, I finally remembered to ask my gp to refer me for the snip while I was there today.
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"When Mrs and I were at a club having a play a guy come over to us and ask me if I was bi or straight, I replied I was straight. He then said he was "a bit bi".
I didn't think to ask any further but it got me wondering can you be a bit bi or is that like being a "bit pregnant""
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice
That's more than me in the last 4 years "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment
Hey I had 3 hours sleep last night
Yeah sorry about that. I was proper horny
Talking about plums, I finally remembered to ask my gp to refer me for the snip while I was there today.
It's good to get the ball rolling "
I’ll do it for ya for a tenner. I’ve got some scissors in the drawer |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
He probably means on fab. In which case I agree.
He didn't state that though
I meant you you plum!
Oh yeah I thought you replied after my comment
Hey I had 3 hours sleep last night
Yeah sorry about that. I was proper horny
Talking about plums, I finally remembered to ask my gp to refer me for the snip while I was there today.
It's good to get the ball rolling
I’ll do it for ya for a tenner. I’ve got some scissors in the drawer "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia. "
On here there very much is.
It has become a thing where straight people have to justify their sexuality.
Assumptions are made that all women are bi and timewasters if they're not.
Straight men who question why anyone should be expected to explore or embrace a nonexistent bi side are told they are protesting too much and are narrow-minded.
I've had messages from couples with 100+ veries telling me that I will never get anywhere on here being straight but if I was prepared to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. Their words not mine. |
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
On here there very much is.
It has become a thing where straight people have to justify their sexuality.
Assumptions are made that all women are bi and timewasters if they're not.
Straight men who question why anyone should be expected to explore or embrace a nonexistent bi side are told they are protesting too much and are narrow-minded.
I've had messages from couples with 100+ veries telling me that I will never get anywhere on here being straight but if I was prepared to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. Their words not mine."
I'd be telling them to jog on and that I'm doing just fine as is |
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"Sexuality is a spectrum, and people fit into more boxes than straight, gay, or liking men and women exactly equally.
Literally this!!!
And this is about men mostly but - especially when it comes to men, people have such rigid definitions of sexuality. And they project this onto other people. And, and this bugs me, they then start telling people how they can or cannot define themselves. Or that they can’t be straight if they like X, Y or Z. Like why are you so bothered if someone’s way of self identification isn’t how you decided it must be? Lol. Like a guy said he kissed a guy so he MUST be bi. Or a guy said he’d suck dick for a million quid so he must have a secret lust for men!
Sidenote- I do really believe a lot of this is rooted in homophobia (and biphobia to an extent). Especially how rigid people define these things and allow no room for exploration for men in comparison to women. Think straight men have this idea of a good star str8. And it’s a bit weird and gross.
Anyway rant over. Sorry "
Nail. Head.
Perfect answer and pretty much what I said the other day on a similar thread. I stopped reading all the posts when I reached this one as you've summed it up perfectly Steve.
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
On here there very much is.
It has become a thing where straight people have to justify their sexuality.
Assumptions are made that all women are bi and timewasters if they're not.
Straight men who question why anyone should be expected to explore or embrace a nonexistent bi side are told they are protesting too much and are narrow-minded.
I've had messages from couples with 100+ veries telling me that I will never get anywhere on here being straight but if I was prepared to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. Their words not mine.
I'd be telling them to jog on and that I'm doing just fine as is "
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I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi
Absolute nonsense.
Biphobia is a common thing, very much entangled with homophobia.
There's absolutely no such thing as heterophobia.
On here there very much is.
It has become a thing where straight people have to justify their sexuality.
Assumptions are made that all women are bi and timewasters if they're not.
Straight men who question why anyone should be expected to explore or embrace a nonexistent bi side are told they are protesting too much and are narrow-minded.
I've had messages from couples with 100+ veries telling me that I will never get anywhere on here being straight but if I was prepared to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. Their words not mine.
I'd be telling them to jog on and that I'm doing just fine as is
My reply contained the word off rather than on "
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice
That's more than me in the last 4 years
I'll have to go there with you then to get your butt out "
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice
That's more than me in the last 4 years
I'll have to go there with you then to get your butt out
This butt takes some shifting mind "
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice
That's more than me in the last 4 years
I'll have to go there with you then to get your butt out
This butt takes some shifting mind
I'll take a paddle for you "
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"Think we all a little bit bi
This is such an annoying comment! Always comes up on these threads. It’s simply not true.
It's like me saying I think everyone is a bit of a night owl. Nope, some people don't stay up past 9
I usually manage till 10.
You’re right though. And some people even think it’s down to homophobia on some threads! I’ve been accused of it too because I find 2 men together a total turn off. Bloody ridiculous.
I think more people have a problem with people being openly straight than openly bi. It's homophobic apparently to find 2 people of the same sex together a turn off
Shall we go out to wine street and test that theory out? In one pub we'll say your straight and the next that you're bi. We'll do it all scientific like, I'll draw up a good tally chart
I'll go out in wind Street with you but I'm not going to lie and say I like something I don't
Lol who cares if it was all strangers though? Especially if people have more problems with straight people than bi? Always will be wine street to me
Because I'd rather people have a problem with the real me
I've not ventured there much
Fair enough, but genuinely believe people outside of fab have more of an issue with bi men than straight.
I've not since moving back this way, but in my youth
Well yeah but apparently we're all a bit bi anyone according to some
I wouldn't know, only been here 4 years and been there at night twice
That's more than me in the last 4 years
I'll have to go there with you then to get your butt out
This butt takes some shifting mind
I'll take a paddle for you
Cheeky git "
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