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"Interesting thread, how do you define sabotage? ??
. Saying or doing something that you know will kill the chat/friendship "
I dont think I'm guilty of it, it suspect I've been on the receiving end though.
I dont understand it really, if you lose interest, it isn't hard to just say so is it?  |
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"Interesting thread, how do you define sabotage? ??
. Saying or doing something that you know will kill the chat/friendship "
Seems many apply that , knowingly and unknowingly.
Traits some cannot control. Most stem from childhood,trauma,experience.
people are deeper beyond only their outer looks and profiles on fab . |
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"Do you deliberately sabotage friendships on fab so that you don't have to meet anyone "
If we don't like the profile,chat, pic etc we are honest and say sorry not for us. We don't engage in chat where we have no intention of meeting |
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No, I find it far simpler to have a grown up conversation to say “I’m sorry but this isn’t for me” and wish them well.
Can’t be arsed with playing games. |
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Not something I would ever consider. I'd prefer if they just said they'd changed their mind. There are some times the odd person who will chat, just to have you as a back up. That makes me wince to be fair  |
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"Do you deliberately sabotage friendships on fab so that you don't have to meet anyone "
A question for the OP, what would be the methodology of said sabotage? I assume a coolness in conversation or not responding as quickly or as frequently as before. - Bob |
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No … honesty is so important.
I have ended connections though when the other person has done/said something that doesn’t sit right with me.
If I meet someone and there’s no connection then I’ll tell them that its not going to work.
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No but when talking to someone over a long period of time I find people always say something that puts me off. I would never put my wife in a situation that we’re not 100% comfortable with. |
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