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Is our obsession with sex and swinging sometimes too much?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right, I posted this thread well over a year ago on my old profile, but hey, being unimaginative and a just little bit bored, I thought I’d resurrect it again by copying and pasting what I said last time!
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Is there such a thing as being TOO obsessed with sex, to a degree where it might actually start to become a little unhealthy?
Are you a “careerist” Swinger that has to go to a sex club every weekend (or every chance you get), so much so that normal ‘vanilla’ nights out just no longer do it or hold any interest for you?
I see some profiles on here where literally every day there’s brand new pics being uploaded in yet another new piece of raunchy lingerie or with yet another sex toy, it must cost them a fortune!
Do you find yourself regularly spending your disposable income on brand new sexy clothes or toys? Doesn’t there come a point when buying the latest sex item is an addiction / compulsion rather than a need?
What about those that claim they’re constantly horny 24/7?
Does having sex all the time eventually become routine / samey? I like cake but I know if I had it all of the time I’d soon become bored of it. Unless I was addicted to it, of course, which in anyone’s book can’t be good for me.
To be absolutely clear, I’m not criticising anyone in the lifestyle as everyone is free to use their own time and money to enjoy themselves as they see fit, but it does seem that for some on here their life literally revolves around the scene and when ANYTHING is done to excess you have to wonder if that’s a good thing or not?
Views anyone?
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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When I was younger?
Yep. That pretty much summed me up. These days? No.
We've pretty much taken early retirement for now, at least a long sabbatical.
We'll be back. Just don't know when.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me not at all
It lets me focus on what’s inport
Ie when on a date I am not just looking to get my end away
Or have my back doors get smashed in
As I can get that on fab
So alowes me to take a step back
And see the quality’s in someone
Instead off the normal
No your not for me but I bang any way and dumb because I am horny and not had any in xxx amount off time |
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A couple I met years back were self confessed addicted swingers. They rarely went a day without a meet. An amazing couple, fantastic as a meet with a relative newbie, they lived the lifestyle constantly. I had a 6 hour meet with them during the day they went straight out for dinner then had another meet, finishing the evening in a club. It was a working day. They both ran businesses from home. It worked for them and they loved it! I just have no idea where their energy came from!
So yes, I think people can become addicted to swinging, maybe not obsession. I think you'd need quite a strong sex drive to keep that momentum up!
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Mrs TMN x
I definitely chose the wrong night to post this! I think most people are!! 
