"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Do you mean because she's masturbating she's having sex with someone else or masturbating is being unfaithful? |
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over a year ago
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Are you suggesting that because masturbates, she has sexual urges, so you two not having sex together may suggest she's doing so with another?.
It's a possibility of course, but there could be many reasons she may not want intimacy.
She may feel bad about herself, for one example.
My advice is speak with her, in an open and gentle way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
I assume OP your comment was tongue in cheek. If so, yes, she’s having an affair with herself, the filthy mare |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Not cheating. Is there a reason she prefers masturbation to sex with you?
Maybe you should ask her..... 
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ?
Do you mean because she's masturbating she's having sex with someone else or masturbating is being unfaithful?"
Lets look at the words being used here, i find this very interesting, Cheating would imply you feel she is being dishonest, can masturbating be classed as a form of dishonesty, I find it hard to come to that conclusion however can it be defined as being unfaithful?... Mmmm there's alot of gray area there, If she is masurbating thinking of you or had you in the room, Would you feel hurt? However if she is fantasising about being with others regardless what gender they are, just a desire for them to the point where your not included in any form, this i feel can be considered as a form of being unfaithful, all be it shes not doing an act with anyone but thinking of the act with someone else other than you, either way you need to talk to each other, good luck |
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Ok, let's unpack this and make some assumptions.
You two don't have sex.
She has urges and masturbates rather than sleep with you.
You are assuming she is having an affair as well to satisfy the urges she can't satisfy herself.
You don't think her wanking is cheating, you are leaping to another conclusion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I’m on here because I don’t get it at home !! She says she’s not sexual blah blah but she wanks which is fine and healthy . But why not want the real thing every now and again . Hence me questioning it… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me "
I don’t think she’s cheating on you, she’s wanking for release of sexual tension. You two need to talk about the distance between you both physically without it descending into a row |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I’m on here because I don’t get it at home !! She says she’s not sexual blah blah but she wanks which is fine and healthy . But why not want the real thing every now and again . Hence me questioning it… "
I think you need to talk to her…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your wife knows your on here as a single male
Ohhh now this raises my eyebrow, you are married yet have a profile with single status... I think your wife has a case to worry more."
Exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Is she using the sky remote then it’s all lies lies lies, check your pre-nup |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me
I don’t think she’s cheating on you, she’s wanking for release of sexual tension. You two need to talk about the distance between you both physically without it descending into a row"
This is my thoughts too.
You really need to speak with your wife, find out what's missing.
Maybe she feels unattractive, or you've stepped out of line 
There are many reasons she may not desire intimacy but still have urges to release. |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
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"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
Yes it means she's having sex with every male in your street including the married ones. Come on, op, give your head a wobble. |
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